01
"Zhang Jing, I heard my grandson say, you gave your mother 10,000 yuan to let her travel on the National Day?" Early in the morning, my mother-in-law called Xingshi to ask for guilt.
Last night, I was working overtime at the company, and my son accidentally slipped his mouth when talking to his mother-in-law on the phone.
"Mom, it's nothing, don't listen to the child's nonsense."
My mother-in-law is a very small-minded person, and I was afraid that she would be angry because of this, so I tried to hide it on the grounds that the child was open-mouthed.
Who knew that the mother-in-law continued: "How is it possible? My grandson has always been honest, and you must have given this money. ”
"It's all mom, why didn't I see you treat me well! Sure enough, the daughter-in-law is an outsider......"
The more my mother-in-law talked, the more excited she became, and she began to recall the different treatments I had treated her and my mother over the years.
From birthday banquets to grocery shopping, one by one, as if I was heinous.
"You don't want to think about it, I worked hard in my hometown for 4 months, and I can't sell 10,000 acres of corn for a few acres? You are quite generous, so you gave 10,000 yuan to your mother, just to let her have fun. ”
This is because it is far away, if it is close, with my mother-in-law's excitement today, it has the posture of tearing me apart.
I really didn't want to listen to her nagging, so I hung up the phone before she could finish.
02
It's not that the current daughter-in-law doesn't want to be filial to her in-laws, but we really can't find a reason to be filial.
Take me as an example!
When we got married, my mother-in-law had 100,000 yuan in savings. I mean let my mother-in-law take it all out and support the two of us for the time being.
At that time, housing prices were low and we wanted to buy a slightly larger house. In this way, when a child is born in the future, it is more convenient for the elderly to come to the home to take care of them.
But the mother-in-law said: "This is my old bottom, the king of heaven is here, and he also wants to fight the idea of this money." ”
She also secretly sarcastically mocked her son, whose eyes grew to her buttocks, and found me as a master who coveted her family's money as soon as he entered the door.
God knows, how wronged I was. To say the worst thing, if a girl loves money more than this man, she will not find a man in the poor heap in the first place.
My husband comforted me at that time: "My mother is uneducated, and she only speaks with brains, so don't be like her." ”
I put up with it. As a result of forbearance, the 100,000 yuan deposit in the mother-in-law's hand is now only a few thousand yuan more interest.
And if you used that money to buy a house at that time, it would have risen several times.
Later, because the house I bought was small, my mother-in-law even refused to come to my house to attend the housewarming banquet, "I can't get used to your little ant nest." How can I live in my hometown, five big tiled houses! ”
03
Children are the weakness of every mother, if there is such a person who can help wholeheartedly at this time, all mothers will be grateful!
If my mother-in-law doesn't come to see the children, I can't go to work.
The family mortgage, car loan, and other living expenses can only be pressed on the head of the husband alone.
"I won't go to show her the child, I'll go to her house, won't she be relaxed......"
In her mother-in-law's cognition, she always feels that looking at her grandson reduces the burden on her daughter-in-law.
In the days when there was no one to help, my husband, who was not yet thirty years old, had gray hair.
But my mother didn't think so, and the day after she retired, she came to my house: "If a family wants to live well, the whole family must work together to lift up. ”
My mom has lived in my house for 15 years and helped me take care of my eldest daughter and eldest son.
That's when I was able to get back to work and realize my value.
Out of gratitude to my mom, every year on her birthday, my family would go to the restaurant to celebrate.
After the mother-in-law found out, she began to be yin and yang again: "I'm really miserable!" This is raising a son for nothing, and his mind is all about honoring other people's parents. ”
I was speechless.
When she celebrated her birthday, she called in advance every time: "What are you going to do with that money in a restaurant, you have to eat the harvest of half an acre of my land in one meal, it is better to transfer the money directly to me." ”
The mother-in-law collected the money in private, and another high-profile yin and yang person came to another, which was really cheap and good.
04
Before I got married, I thought that marriage was all about finding the right person. Now, I would like to say that it depends on the family behind him.
If a family does not have a certain understanding, it will not be strong.
My mother-in-law works day after day on her few acres of land, and she can earn about 10,000 yuan a year after removing costs.
Through my hard work, my salary has risen in recent years, with a monthly income of about 20,000 yuan.
In other words, my annual income is worth more than 20 years of hard work for my mother-in-law.
If it weren't for my mother's strong backing, our family might be like other unsupported families.
One person earns money and the whole family spends, and one cent is broken into several halves! It seems that they are all busy, but they waste their value!
Two days later, my mother-in-law was brainwashed by someone, and she came to my house in the dust, "From today on, let your mother go back, and I will come to your house to take care of the children." ”
My husband and I looked at each other, and my mother-in-law's head was squeezed by the door.
"Well, you give me 20,000 yuan first, and I want to go out and have a look. After a lifetime of hard work, I have also figured it out, while my arms and legs can still move, and I can also see the world! ”
Oh my god! Quite an appetite.
It's trying to compare my mom to me.
"Mom, you've been a little tight lately, don't you have a deposit in your hand? Why don't you use it first, and then I will pay you a salary, and then I will make up for you......"
If you don't pay, you want to have a big harvest, how can there be such a good thing!
05
"That's the money I had to work hard for two years to save up, and I don't want to ......," the mother-in-law looked embarrassed.
If you don't want to, forget it.
I'm not willing to do it either. If you lack food and drink, or are sick and hospitalized, as a junior, I should pay out of my pocket.
If you're going to eat, drink, and be merry, sorry, I don't.
When my mother-in-law heard my refusal, she was very angry. She scolded her husband for being a wreck, and at the same time insinuated that I was not a good thing.
"The treatment of mother-in-law and mother-in-law is really different, one day and one ...... the other"
I don't care. While my mother was holding her son in one hand and cooking for her daughter in the other, my mother-in-law was chattering energetically in the village.
When my mother was racing against time to deliver the child every day, my mother-in-law was walking leisurely.
When my mother bathed the child at night, my mother-in-law was square dancing.
Of course, you have to pay for it!
I will not be kidnapped by morality and chill those who give.
Not only that, but when my mother and mother-in-law get old in the future, I will definitely treat them differently.
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