Wang Ruizhi engaged in extramarital affairs, and asked to take Nawei's ID card to register a company with Xu Yichao, the brother of his little wife Xu Yimei, and let them run the brother and sister.
The brothers and sisters of the Xu family did not know how to operate, so they collapsed the company, ran away with money, and left a debt of 800,000 yuan.
The creditor Zhao Pengju couldn't find the manager Xu Yichao, so he found out from him that Na Wei, the company's legal person, demanded 800,000 yuan for the goods.
Because he didn't know, Na Wei didn't want to admit it at first, and went to find his good brother Wang Ruizhi who had hurt him and asked him to help solve the debt problem of 800,000 yuan.
But Wang Ruizhi, who pretended to be a monk to avoid the company's crisis, said that this matter had nothing to do with him, and let Nawei solve it himself.
Na Wei had no choice but to keep his job as vice president and maintain the life of his family, so he had to pay his own money and fill the 800,000 yuan pit for his good brother Wang Ruizhi.
Because of the 800,000 yuan, Na Wei also reprimanded his wife Shen Lin and the child as "parasites" in a hurry, and the husband and wife had an unprecedented conflict.
After Shen Lin ran away from home, Na Wei realized that he had made a ridiculous mistake, and hurriedly looked for Shen Lin with his younger brother Na Jun and brother-in-law Shen Lei.
After finding Shen Lin, Na Wei confessed his mistake to her, Shen Lin knew the cause and effect, and did not blame Na Wei, but said, "I spent 800,000 yuan to buy a lesson."
Shen Lin's seemingly breezy words are not only a comfort to Na Wei, but also a "grasp" of Na Wei, and also profoundly contain her profound marital wisdom and deep understanding of her husband.
Imagine if the same thing had happened to another couple, it might have been a long time ago.
But Shen Lin chose to deal with this problem in a peaceful and rational way.
She is well aware that accusations and quarrels will only exacerbate the conflict between the husband and wife, and will not help solve the problem.
Therefore, she chose to comfort her husband and use a warm word to resolve the guilt and self-blame in his heart.
Shen Lin's approach not only reflects her high emotional intelligence, but also highlights her unique understanding of marriage.
She understands that marriage is not a contest between you and me, but a long journey that requires both husband and wife to work together and support each other.
There will inevitably be difficulties and challenges along the way, but the key is to learn how to face and resolve them.
Shen Lin's "scheming" of Na Wei's "grasp" is not a derogatory calculation and intrigue, but a strategy and wisdom to manage marriage.
She is good at observing and sensing her husband's emotions and needs, and can always give him appropriate support and encouragement at critical moments.
This wisdom is not only reflected in Shen Lin's comfort to Nawei, but also runs through the bits and pieces of their husband and wife life.
For example, when Na Wei fell into confusion and decadence because of a setback in his career, Shen Lin did not leave him, but stood firmly by his side, giving him endless strength with her gentleness and strength.
She encouraged him to pick himself up again and face life's challenges.
With the company and support of Shen Lin, Na Wei finally walked out of the haze, regained his confidence and courage in life, and completely changed his attitude towards being a man and doing things, and recovered 800,000 yuan from Wang Ruizhi, who returned to the world and invited Na Wei to start a business again.
Compared with Xie Meilan, another character in the play, Shen Lin's view of marriage is undoubtedly more mature and wise.
Although Xie Meilan also longs for a happy married life, she often chooses to avoid and blame her husband Shen Lei when facing problems, and when she thinks that the life she wants can't count on Shen Lei, she even hides that Shen Lei cruelly aborted their children.
In the end, Xie Meilan filed for divorce from Shen Lei in order to live a good life for herself.
On the other hand, Shen Lin knows how to use love and wisdom to resolve contradictions, so that the boat of marriage can move forward steadily in the wind and waves.
Shen Lin's marital wisdom is not innate, but she has been exploring and learning in her long-term married life.
She understands that marriage is an art that needs to be constantly learned and practiced, and only by managing and maintaining it with heart can we reap happiness and fulfillment.
Returning to the lesson of 800,000 yuan, this money is undoubtedly a huge amount of money for Na Wei and Shen Lin's family.
But Shen Lin used her wisdom and tolerance to turn this crisis into an opportunity for the sublimation of the relationship between husband and wife.
She not only comforted her husband's wounded heart, but also made him deeply aware of his responsibilities and responsibilities in marriage.
Shen Lin's approach also provides us with a valuable inspiration:
Only in this way can we go further and further on the road of marriage and work together to overcome every difficulty.
As the ancients said: "Husband and wife are of the same heart, and their profits are gold." ”
Truth is truth, life is life, see how you do it!
Encourage you!