I don't understand, why did the nurse become the head of the "three don't marry"? The so-called three don't marry, that is, men who find a partner do not marry "nurses, kindergarten teachers, and bank girls".
I happen to have three daughters, the eldest daughter is a bank clerk, the second daughter is a preschool teacher, and the third daughter is studying undergraduate nursing.
If you follow the logic of "three don't marry", I have all of them, and my three daughters deserve to find a partner?
My eldest daughter graduated from secondary school that year, first as a teacher in a kindergarten in the county, and then rented a house to open a kindergarten, and then bought land, built a building, and ran a decent private kindergarten, and now my daughter is the principal, more than 10 preschool teachers, and the career is booming.
Did you get married? Of course, they got married, the eldest son-in-law is a teacher in the county's key high school, they have two children, and the eldest daughter has achieved a double harvest in her career and family.
My second daughter graduated from Henan University, was admitted to a bank in Zhengzhou, and now has become the vice president of a branch bank, and her son-in-law is also in the banking system. The second daughter bought three houses in Zhengzhou and has already entered the middle class.
My third daughter is studying at a medical school in the province with an undergraduate nursing major. When she applied for the college entrance examination, it was just in time for the epidemic period, and it was difficult for college students to find employment. My daughter wants to be a teacher, I said, it is okay to be a teacher, but it is difficult to stay in Zhengzhou to work after graduation, because Zhengzhou primary school teachers are recruiting graduate students, so I persuaded her to apply for a nursing major so that she can get a job.
My daughter is also very obedient, she applied for a nursing major, and now she is in her senior year, and she is in the internship stage, and she has found a partner in college.
To tell the truth, now nursing from the past "fragrant bait", has become a "hot potato", the reason is that in the past few years, nursing students are very sought-after, these years the enrollment scale of university nursing has been expanding, the number of graduates has surged, junior college students have been difficult to find jobs in public hospitals, undergraduates can be, the provincial capital tertiary hospitals recruit nurses generally require graduate degrees.
First, why did nurses become the head of the "three don't marry"?
I summarized the main points as follows:
1. Nurses work hard.
When a nurse will often work overtime, day shift and night shift two shifts, the least favorite thing is to stay up late, a night shift down, really hurt the body, so can not take good care of the family at all.
2. Emotional instability.
Nurses give both patience and good temper to patients, lack patience with family members, and are prone to family conflicts.
3. Nurses have low educational qualifications.
Nurses have a lower level of education than doctors. Doctors are often graduate or doctoral students, and nurses have very few bachelor's degrees, and in the hospital, they are properly "women as men", and their status is low.
4. Confusion in interpersonal relationships.
Some people believe that nurses come into contact with all kinds of people, etc., have chaotic interpersonal relationships, have a high level of vision, and are more snobbish.
In fact, this is a misunderstanding of nurses, many nurses are really two points and one line, there is no time to go out to play, and even the time to get together for a meal has to be booked a week in advance, not to mention the high vision, the circle is so big, there is no opportunity to contact the opposite sex.
If you know nurses according to the above point of view, then nurses really can't get married!
In fact, most of the nurses are educated, especially the young nurses in large hospitals, most of whom have a bachelor's degree or above. They need to be tall, good-looking, capable and capable, not to mention that the salary of nurses is good, and this profession is really good.
I think there are several more benefits to nurses:
1. It is convenient to see a doctor
Nurses are also half doctors, which can bring a lot of benefits to family and friends, not to mention the convenience of seeing a doctor by themselves, and family and friends also have a care.
2. There are many options for studying nursing work
Studying nursing does not have to go to a hospital to become a nurse, but also to become a clerical worker, school doctor, clinic, physical examination center, nursing teacher, etc.
3. The treatment of being a nurse is okay
The treatment of nurses is better than that of teachers, if you work as a nurse in a tertiary hospital in a big city, the welfare treatment is not generally good, in addition to salary, there are social security, holiday benefits, birthday benefits, overtime subsidies, etc.
4. Stable work
Nurses are still relatively stable in their work in hospitals, and they are rarely fired if they do not resign or have a major nursing error.
Although nurses are a little tired, they can't be blown by the wind, can't be caught in the rain, and there are five insurances and one housing fund, which is really a very secure career for girls.
Second, why is the kindergarten teacher listed as the second of the "three don't marry"?
Not marrying a preschool teacher is nothing more than the following points:
1. Earn less
Many people believe that the salary of preschool teachers is relatively low, and a newly graduated kindergarten teacher even has some difficulties in his basic life, and marrying such a person will undoubtedly bring economic pressure to the family.
2. Low educational qualifications
There is a traditional understanding that kindergarten teachers are to bring children, and they do not need academic qualifications. In fact, the education of kindergarten teachers is not low, at least a college degree.
3. Great responsibility
Nowadays, children are baby bumps, they can't be touched, they can't be touched, in case there is a bump and conflict, it is the responsibility of the preschool teacher, and some people even say that the preschool teacher is a high-risk profession.
I don't agree with the above point of view, having a preschool teacher's wife at home should be a very happy and advantageous thing.
For example, it is convenient to educate children, which is conducive to the all-round development of children, and has more time to accompany children, kindergarten teachers are more cheerful and lively, and their work is more stable.
Third, why is the bank girl the third of the "three don't marry"?
There are several reasons why bank women are listed as "three non-marries":
1. Think that the bank woman worships money
Female bank clerks see too much wealth and have too much contact with rich people, thinking that they are vain and worship money, and men without money are not in their eyes.
2. Too busy at work to take care of your family
Many female bank employees are often busy from day to night, and there is no rest on holidays. In such a situation, it is difficult to take care of your own family. That's true.
In fact, bank women have many advantages:
1. The bank has a high degree of education
Female employees have at least a bachelor's degree or above, and their taste is relatively high.
2. Strong earning ability
Female bank units are better, with higher wages and benefits, and good earning power.
3. Bank women are generally beautiful and temperamental.
Anyway, my three daughters are all "nurses, kindergarten teachers, and bank girls", and they have all found a partner, and they are very happy, I think those who say "three don't marry" are mostly envious, jealous and hateful, right?
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