The words of a 51-year-old woman: No matter how much you love each other, never treat your husband as a relative.
The essence of marriage is that two men and women who like each other live together, understand each other, respect each other, support each other in life, hold the hand of their son, and grow old together.
This is the married life that everyone wants, and who doesn't want to be happy all the time!
However, it backfires, not everyone can find someone who knows and loves each other, and it is difficult for two people with the same ideology to be combined.
In fact, marriage is originally a cooperation, there is no need to make it look like love, the bottom man wants to renew the incense, the middle man wants to find a helper, and the top man wants to find a strong teammate.
Therefore, in any relationship, we have to be self-restrained, we can only have our own thoughts and practices, and you can't control what others do and think, you can't see.
It's impossible to ask others to agree with you, right? So! To know a person completely, that's impossible.
From the marriage of myself and my colleagues, I deeply realized that if marriage was a wrong choice from the beginning, I would really regret it for a lifetime, and when you woke up, it was too late.
I sincerely advise those women who are not married, when looking for a husband, keep their eyes open and observe with their hearts, but there is no guarantee that they can find a man who is good to you wholeheartedly.
Because, many people are people who live with masks and hide their true colors. You won't be able to recognize each other until it counts.
There are also people who are affected by the people and circumstances around them in their lives, and they have changed, becoming greedy and impersonal, and their commitments to you no longer exist.
So, no matter how much you keep your eyes open and how carefully you choose, you think that your other half is someone you deserve. I didn't expect that at the critical time, the other party was completely revealed, I really felt ridiculous!
Ms. Wang, 53 years old, divorced at the age of 48, when it comes to marriage, her advice to us is: no matter how much you love each other, never treat your husband as a relative.
She and her husband are college classmates, she used to be a school flower, and it was her husband's dead face pursuit for two years before she agreed to marry him.
Both of them were doctors, and later the man achieved the position of vice president through the efforts of all parties. With more and more entertainment, his selfish desires gradually expanded, and money and beauty became his everything, prompting the marriage to perish.
It turned out that the man who was dead set on her, who had sworn by her, and who was dedicated to his children was gone, and finally became unrecognizable, greedy and lustful, and hateful.
Teacher Wang said that he would never have dreamed that the two of them would come to this point.
In order to divorce, they started a two-year divorce lawsuit, which involved money issues, which was originally the man's fault, but her husband pressed each other tightly over money.
The two parties were exhausted, the previous relationship between the two did not exist at all, and in her heart there was only the frustration of marriage, which made her heartbroken!
This is human nature, which is vividly reflected in divorce. even beat his wife violently at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau.
When the husband and wife are a community of interests, they can't see each other's real each other.
So, even if it feels like my husband loves you no matter how much. Nor can you overestimate your place in his heart.
Because he stood high, he fell painfully, and for this he brought endless torture and pain to himself. It's really realistic and heart-wrenching!
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