Hey, dear friends, let's talk about a person of great wisdom today-Master Hongyi. His words, "What can hurt you is what you can't think about, and what can interfere with you is that you care too much", which is really heart-warming. Let's talk about this and untie the little knots in our hearts by the way.
It is said that this Master Hongyi was originally a Hanlin in the Qing Dynasty, and later became a monk and became a monk. His realm is beyond the reach of us ordinary people. However, his words can really bring a lot of inspiration to us ordinary people.
Let's talk about this "can't be opened" first. In our lives, we will always encounter some unsatisfactory things. Someone is unemployed, someone is out of love, someone is sick, in short, all kinds of things can make people can't think about it. But you wonder, can these things really hurt you? In fact, what really hurts you is your own thoughts. You feel unlucky, you feel inferior to others, you feel hopeless. These thoughts are what really make you miserable.
For example, if someone loses their job, they may feel useless and wasteful. In fact, unemployment is only temporary, as long as we get back together and find a new job. But if you keep dwelling on this matter, you just can't get along with yourself.
Let's talk about this "too much care". We're people who always care too much about things. For example, a word or a look from someone else can make us ponder for a long time. In fact, are these things really that important? Can someone else's words change your fate? Can a look from someone else determine your happiness? Apparently not.
For example, if someone says bad things about you behind your back, you may be very concerned and even angry. Actually, you can't control other people's mouths, but you can control your own hearts. As long as you don't care, those gossip won't hurt you.
So, how can we not think about it and not care so much? Here's a tip for you.
First, learn to let go. Let go of the past that makes you miserable, let go of the things that make you tangled. As the old Beijing saying goes, "Put down the butcher's knife and become a Buddha on the spot". Only by letting go can we move forward easily.
Second, learn to adjust your mindset. When you encounter setbacks, don't always feel unlucky. On the other hand, this may be a chance for you to exercise. As the old Beijing saying goes, "If you lose your horse, you won't know if you are blessed."
Finally, learn to be tolerant. Be tolerant of others, and be tolerant of yourself. A word from someone else, a look, really doesn't matter that much. And you don't have to be too harsh.
Having said all that, let's finally summarize. Master Hongyi's words, "What can hurt you is what you can't think about, and what can interfere with you is that you care too much", which is really a golden word in our lives. As long as we let go of the past, adjust our mentality, and learn to be tolerant, all kinds of troubles in life will no longer be a problem.
Well, that's all for now. I hope everyone can think about it, don't care so much, and live a relaxed life. Don't forget, we are all children of Beijing, and we must have that bold energy. Let's go, we'll see you next time!