introduction
The word "loss" comes from the "Liezi · Tang Wen", there is such a sentence: "With the power of the king, you have not been able to damage the hill of Kui, such as the Taihang Wangwu?" After that, the word "loss" spread.
So what does the word "loss" mean?
In "New Interpretation of Words", it is said that "loss" has many meanings, such as "reduce" (loss), "make things unusable" (damage), "make people suffer" (damage), "speak harshly" (your words are too bad), and so on.
Let's talk about the word "move", "Xunzi · Persuasion" mentions, saying "Ascend and move, the arm is not lengthened, and the person who sees it is far away." Since then, the word "move" has also existed.
So what does the word "move" mean?
"Shuo Wen Jie Zi" explains, "Move, hand call." From the hand, the call. However, some text experts say that the word "zhao" now has more meanings, such as "calling people over" (recruiting), "receiving guests" (entertaining), "admitting mistakes" (confessing), "playing tricks" (tricks), and so on.
What does it mean that "loss" and "move" are put together and become "loss"?
"Ci Hai" explains that "bad moves" are "bad or bad means".
Some netizens said that there are always some people in this world who are not right-minded and their interests are threatened, so they resort to "bad moves" to protect themselves.
That's right. You see, in Heilongjiang, there is a woman Li who made such a "bad move".
What's going on? Let's talk.
event
Li, 29 years old, works in the company. At the beginning of last year, a handsome guy Zhang came to the company, and Li slowly fell in love with it.
The relationship between men and women is like a layer of paper, which can be broken when you poke it. Li and Zhang are also like this, and Li will go to Zhang's rental house for a private meeting.
There is no impermeable wall in this world. The matter of Li and Zhang reached the ears of Li's husband Wu. Wu began to guard against Li.
One night in June 2023, Li had a private meeting with Zhang again, and was caught by Wu. Wu felt unfair, he had always kept the bottom line, and he didn't do anything to be sorry for Li, but Li cheated. Wu wanted to get a divorce, but Li was unwilling.
So how to settle Wu? Li thought of a "bad move", which was to let his best friend Jing cheat on Wu.
On July 29, 2023, Li bought a gift of more than 1,000 yuan and went to Jing's house, first confessed his affair with Zhang, and then asked Jing to seduce Wu. Jing Mou became angry when he heard this, threw the gift out of the door, drove Li out of the door, and said that he would never be friends again.
That's the rough idea of what happened.
After netizens learned about this, they all discussed it enthusiastically.
Netizen voices
Some netizens said that Li is really "wonderful"! It's a "loss" to make a "deal" with girlfriends! No wonder Jing is angry! If it were me, I would be angry.
Some netizens said that Li had a sick brain, how could he come up with such a "bad move"? This is simply an insult to girlfriends, it's too "weird".
Netizens are talking about it.
Lao Hu's point of view
We all know that marriage is based on mutual trust and loyalty. If one party betrays the other, it will bring endless pain and trouble to the other party. So, no matter who you are, you have to cherish your spouse and family, and don't cheat at will.
If you cheat, the only way to get the other party to forgive is to deeply examine yourself and promise to never cheat again. Only in this way can it be possible to obtain the forgiveness of the other party and keep your marriage. Don't think about any "bad tricks", otherwise, not only will your marriage not be saved, but you may also let others gossip!
Do you think so?