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When the "United States Dream" Shatters: A Tsinghua Doctor's Life-and-Death Decision and His Parents' Silent Response
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In September 2018, in a quiet corner of Sagina County, Michigan, an unknown skeleton was found, lying there quietly, as if telling a story that no one knew, four years later, the DNA comparison results revealed the mystery of its identity: Rong Xin, a 27-year-old Tsinghua University doctoral graduate, a young talent who once cherished the "United States dream", and more shockingly, when the United States police contacted Rong Xinyuan's parents in China, they received a cold response: "Stay in the United States forever as he wishes, The body is disposed of at will......"
This heartbreaking sentence pushed Rong Xin's story to the forefront of public opinion, what kind of experience made a parent so decisive about the departure of their own flesh and blood? Why did Rong Xin's "United States Dream" end in such a tragic way? Behind this, how much unknown bitterness and helplessness are hidden?
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The journey of a genius boy chasing his dreams
Time goes back to more than 20 years ago, Rong Xin was born in a Kochi family in Jilin Province, China, his parents are intellectuals, have high hopes for him, and do his best to provide him with the best educational resources since he was a child, Rong Xin has not lived up to the expectations of his parents, since he was a child, he has shown extraordinary learning talent, all the way through obstacles, and finally entered China's highest university - Tsinghua University, in the eyes of others, he is "someone else's child", is the pride of the sky, and the future is bright
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Behind the halo, is Rong Xin silently under pressure, although the love of his parents is deep, but it is also like an invisible mountain, he is overwhelmed, they have planned everything for him, from study to life, no matter how big or small, in this environment, Rong Xin gradually lost himself, he became the "perfect work" expected by his parents, but it was not himself
During college, Rong Xin chose to major in mechanical automation, but deep in his heart, there is always a flame of artificial intelligence burning, he is eager to explore the unknown field, eager to fly freely in the broader world, he set his sights on the United States on the other side of the ocean, where is the frontier of science and technology, is the cradle of dreams
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The collision of dreams and reality
In 2013, Rong Xin got his wish and embarked on the road to study in United States, during his doctoral studies at the University of Michigan, he was like a sponge, greedily absorbing the nutrients of knowledge, and made remarkable achievements in the academic field
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With the passage of time, Rong Xin's heart of the "United States dream" of longing, but gradually replaced by the coldness of reality, he found that even in the United States, is full of competition and pressure, want to gain a foothold, need to pay more efforts than ordinary people, more importantly, he began to think about his life goals, he no longer wants to be a "marionette" in the hands of his parents, he is eager to pursue his inner voice, out of his own way
When Rong Xin told his parents that he wanted to stay in United States, a storm suddenly came, and his parents could not understand his choice, in their opinion, the child went abroad to study in order to better serve the motherland in the future, Rong Xin's choice was undoubtedly a denial of their years of hard work
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"Did we train you so hard just to get you to go to United States? Are you worthy of us? On the other end of the phone, my father's voice of disappointment and anger was heard
"I also have my own dreams, I want to follow my own path, is this also wrong?" Rong Xin retorted weakly
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This quarrel ended in unhappiness, and the parents cut off their financial support for Rong Xin, and said ruthlessly: "If you dare to stay in United States, don't recognize our two parents!" ”
The final choice
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The rupture of family affection made Rong Xin fall into deep pain and confusion, on the one hand, the grace of parenting, on the other hand, his personal dreams, how should he choose?
On March 15, 2017, Rongxin rented a single-engine small plane and flew into the sky alone, this time, he did not choose to land, but piloted the plane and rushed into the endless abyss
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After the investigation, the police speculated that Rong Xin was likely to commit suicide, and since no body was found at the scene, his death was always shrouded in a layer of fog, and it was not until a year and a half later that Rong Xin's remains were accidentally discovered, and at this time, four years have passed since his disappearance
When the United States police contacted Rong Xin's parents, hoping that they could go to the United States to deal with the aftermath, they got the heartbreaking response: "Keep the United States forever as he wishes, and dispose of the body at will......"
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The poignancy and reflection behind the silence
The decision of Rong Xin's parents has aroused widespread attention and discussion from all walks of life, with some accusing them of being cold-blooded and ruthless, and others thinking that they are forced to be helpless
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"Tiger poison does not eat children, how can they bear to treat their children like this?"
"They are also victims, victims of traditional perceptions and cultural differences"
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"Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, who can understand the pain in their hearts?"
The tragedy of Rong Xin reflects the general predicament faced by the international student group, who are burdened with the expectations of their families, crossing the ocean, pursuing their dreams in a foreign country, cultural differences, life pressure, identity and other issues, like invisible mountains, overwhelming them
The story of Rong Xin has also triggered our deep thinking about family affection, dreams, cultural differences and other issues, in today's increasingly deep globalization, how can we better understand and tolerate different cultures and values? How do you find a balance between family expectations and personal pursuits? These questions deserve serious consideration by each of us
Rong Xin is gone, with his dreams and regrets, forever left in the land he once longed for, his story, like a mirror, reflects the changes of the times, but also reflects the complexity of human nature, may the deceased rest in peace, may the living reflect, may such a tragedy not be repeated
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