Everyone, are you ready?
Today we are not going to talk about ordinary melons, but the "evergreen" of the fashion circle - Sister Su Mang!
The 53-year-old former editor-in-chief of Harper's Bazaar recently exploded the circle of friends again because he posted photos of his daughter's master's graduation.
But wait, the difference in the appearance of this mother and daughter is too big, right?!
Could this be the legendary "genetic mutation"?
What kind of family can cultivate such a top daughter?
Speaking of Su Mang, that's really a legend!
Her rise in the fashion industry is like an inspirational blockbuster.
From an ordinary editor to the editor-in-chief of Harper's Bazaar, she has proved what it means to be a "strong woman" with her own strength.
But, you know what? This seemingly glamorous eldest sister actually has an unknown bitter history.
Controversy has been a lingering shadow throughout her career.
Some people say that she is too good at doing things, she speaks and does things without leakage, and she is simply the embodiment of the workplace cultivation manual.
Some people also said that she is too good at using resources, and can always get first-hand fashion information, as if there is an invisible intelligence network.
These evaluations are called "strong ability" if they are good, and "green tea" if they are unpleasant.
However, our eldest sister Su is not a vegetarian!
In the face of these controversies, she can always fight back with her strength and results.
It's like a tumbler that never falls, every time she is knocked down, she can quickly bounce up, and by the way, she will throw you a high-end perfume.
Still, these controversies have affected her family life to some extent.
You think, a mother is being talked about on the Internet all day long, can that daughter feel good?
However, our eldest sister Su is a person with high emotional intelligence.
She was stunned to turn these negative influences into material for educating her daughter.
She often said to her daughter: "Baby, my mother's experience tells you that in this world, you have to be the best version of yourself, and it doesn't matter what others say." "
To put this way, it is simply the new favorite of the chicken soup industry!
But I have to say, this trick really works.
Look at her daughter, isn't she growing up very well?
The current Su Mang has transformed from the fashion editor-in-chief who calls for wind and rain to a socialite who has attracted much attention.
Although the controversy continues, she seems to have learned to live peacefully with it.
On her social media, she posts some life photos from time to time.
Sometimes it's to participate in fashion activities, sometimes it's daily life with my daughter, and sometimes it's even without makeup.
These photos can spark a wave of heated discussions every time.
Some people say that she is too well maintained, and at the age of 53, she looks like she is in her 30s.
Some people also say that she is too good at dressing up, and every time she appears on the camera, she is carefully designed.
However, no matter what others said, Su Mang didn't seem to care.
She's like a fashion icon that never goes out of style, always setting the trend.
In this era when traffic is king, some people say that you are better than no one paying attention to you, right?
And Su Mang obviously knows this well.
In her own way, she interprets what it means to "age gracefully".
After talking about Su Mang, the legendary mother, let's talk about her more legendary daughter.
This half-breed lady is amazing, she is simply a fighter among the top students!
From elementary school to master's degree, the transcript simply blinded me.
However, don't think that people are born with a golden key and are destined to be a top student.
This mixed-race young lady has attracted attention since she was a child because she doesn't look like her mother.
Imagine what it's like to grow up in China as a mixed-race child?
That's the focal point of walking!
Walking on the street, the return rate is higher than that of Internet celebrities.
When I was in school, my classmates were secretly discussing: "Is this really Su Mang's daughter?" "
However, our young lady was not intimidated by these stares, but instead used them as motivation.
From elementary school to high school, she consistently excelled in her studies.
It's like being beaten with chicken blood, and I can't stop learning.
The teachers all said, "This child is more serious about studying than eating!" "
But what really made people's jaws drop was her performance at Waseda University in Japan.
The full A+ score is simply saying with strength: "Look, I'm not just a pretty face!" "
Do you know what it means to be all A+?
That is, from the beginning of the semester to graduation, every course is a perfect score!
This kind of achievement is simply on the road to being a top student!
I can imagine the way the other students looked at her: envy and jealousy, and a little admiration.
Speaking of which, I have to admire Su Mang's way of education.
Although the outside world has a lot of criticism about her, she has put a lot of effort into educating her daughter.
She not only creates a good learning environment for her daughter, but also often encourages her to have the ability to think independently.
Su Mang once said in an interview: "I hope that my daughter will not only be an excellent student, but also an independent person." "
This is simply the conscience of the education industry!
It seems that this "tiger mother" is still very successful!
However, don't think that Su Mang's daughter's life is only about learning.
It is said that this young lady is also a versatile all-rounder.
Piano, ballet, painting, nothing is left behind.
It's just a life that has been opened!
I can't help but ask: Hey, can you still leave us ordinary people alive?
However, having said that, this kind of growth experience also shows us the importance of education.
Some people say that Su Mang's daughter's success is due to good family conditions.
But I think what is more important is that Su Mang gave her daughter the right guidance.
She not only provided her daughter with high-quality educational resources, but more importantly, cultivated her daughter's ability to think independently.
This is the real "richness"!
Speaking of the relationship between Su Mang and her daughter, it is really a realistic version of "mother-daughter love"!
First of all, let's talk about the difference in the appearance of this mother and daughter.
Su Mang's mother, who is a well-known beauty in the fashion circle, looks like she is in her 30s at the age of 53.
But what about her daughter? It's completely a mixed-race look, and it's a world of difference from my mother.
This reminds me of an idiom: a tiger father has no dog son.
But here, we have to change it to "beautiful mothers without ordinary girls".
However, don't think that the relationship between the mother and daughter is separated because they don't look alike.
On the contrary, their personalities are simply copied and pasted!
They are all the kind of characters who are resolute and do things simply.
It seems that genes are really wonderful!
On social media, Su Mang often posts her and her daughter's daily routines.
Sometimes it's shopping together, two people are dressed in fashion, and walking down the street is like a mobile fashion show.
Sometimes it's cooking together, don't you say, the mother and daughter are quite decent in the kitchen.
Sometimes even working out together, watching them sweat like rain in the gym, I can't help but want to masturbate.
Looking at these photos, I can't help but feel sour.
Where is this mother and daughter, it's just a best friend, okay?
However, the mother-daughter relationship was not all smooth sailing.
After all, Su Mang's mother's controversial public image will more or less bring some trouble to her daughter.
Do you think, when I was in school, my classmates were talking: "Wow, your mother is Su Mang!" "
Or: "Your mother is on the hot search again, what is the reason for this time?" "
In this case, if it were me, I guess I would have gone into hiding a long time ago.
However, our eldest sister Su is a smart person.
She is always able to educate her daughter with her own experiences and tell her how to maintain herself in this complex society.
"Baby, remember, you have to believe in yourself no matter what the outside world says."
"Mom's experience tells you that in this world, you have to be the best version of yourself, and it doesn't matter what others say."
These words sound like chicken soup, but when they come out of Su Mang's mouth, they have a different convincing power.
Speaking of which, I have to admire Su Mang's high emotional intelligence.
Not only can she maintain a perfect image in public, but she can also maintain an intimate relationship with her daughter in private.
This kind of balance is textbook level!
You see, in public, she always has a sense of proportion, neither showing off too much nor deliberately keeping a low profile.
And in private, she can mingle with her daughter and share her life like a friend.
I think this ability is even more powerful than her achievements in the fashion industry.
After all, in this age of information explosion, it is not easy to balance public image and private life.
And Su Mang seems to have taken this art to the extreme.
In her own way, she interprets what it means to be a "mother elegantly".
Such a mother-daughter relationship, to be honest, makes me a little envious of this single dog.
Speaking of this enviable mother and daughter, we have to talk about Su Mang's daughter's future plans.
Ladies and gentlemen, now we have come to the last link.
Su Mang's baby daughter has graduated with a master's degree, what is she going to do next?
Can't wait to get out there and make a big splash?
Sorry to disappoint you.
The little princess is planning to take a "gap year".
没错，就是那种富二代才玩得起的gap year！
But don't think people are going to travel the world and relax.
According to Su Mang, her baby daughter plans to spend the year "thinking about life".
My God, is this going to be a philosopher?
To be honest, when I heard the news, my heart was broken.
I was thinking that if it were me, I would have to struggle to even think about what to eat for the next meal, let alone think about life.
However, this may be the difference between the rich and us ordinary people.
People think about how to better realize their self-worth, and we think about how to not work overtime.
However, these differences aside, we still have to give a thumbs up to this young lady.
After all, in this impetuous society, there are not many young people who can calm down and think about life.
Perhaps, this is one of the reasons why she can become a top student.
I can even imagine her "thinking about life".
Probably sitting in a quiet Zen temple in Japan and meditating to the sound of wind chimes.
Or in a small town in Europe, sipping coffee while watching pedestrians come and go in a daze.
Or, just stay at home, meditating with a philosophical book in hand.
Either way, I think it's pretty cool.
After all, in this fast-paced society, it is already a luxury to have the time and courage to think about life.
Finally, let's go back to the graduation photo that sparked a lot of buzz.
Looking at the seemingly perfect mother and daughter in the photo, we can't help but ask:
What is the story behind this photo?
It was Su Mang who interpreted what is successful education in his own way?
Or is this society giving too many privileges to wealthy families?
In any case, the story of this mother and daughter gives us a lot of room to think.
Perhaps, we should learn from Su Mang's strength and her daughter's efforts, but at the same time, we should also maintain our ability to think independently.
After all, everyone's life path is different, and it's important to find the one that's right for you.
In the end, whether it is Su Mang or her daughter, they are interpreting what "success" is in their own way.
For Su Mang, success can be finding a balance between career and family.
And for her daughter, success could be academic excellence, as well as thoughtful thinking about the future.
This makes me wonder, what is the definition of success for each of us?
Is it a successful career? Is it a happy family? Or peace of mind?
Perhaps, the answer doesn't matter.
The important thing is whether we have the courage to pursue the "success" in our hearts like Su Mang's mother and daughter.
No matter how difficult this road is and how many people don't understand it, as long as we persevere, we will definitely be able to get to where we want to go.
So, all the people who eat melons, what do you think of this mother and daughter?
What does "success" look like in your mind?
Let's discuss it in the comment section!
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