The female passenger was drunk, and the driver helped to "wipe the buttocks", which caused heated discussions
Recently, a female passenger in Shenzhen got off the bus halfway because she was drunk, and the male driver helped to "wipe her buttocks". This matter has caused widespread heated discussions. Netizens have different opinions on the matter, with some praising the male driver's kind behavior and believing that he is of high moral character, while others question his motives. Whether it's good intentions or other purposes, let's take a look.
What happened
It was reported that it happened on the evening of a weekend. On that day, the female passenger, Xiaoli (pseudonym), had a party with her friends and drank a lot of alcohol. After the party, Xiaoli took an online taxi home. As soon as the car drove for a while, Xiaoli felt uncomfortable and asked the driver to stop for convenience. The driver, Xiao Zhang (pseudonym), saw that she was very drunk, so he parked the car on the side of the road.
Xiaoli got out of the car and solved the physiological problem on the side of the road. But here comes the problem, she is so drunk that she can't even stand on herself, let alone wipe it clean. Seeing this, Xiao Zhang took out the tissues in the car and helped Xiaoli "wipe her buttocks". This scene was filmed by surveillance video, and it was widely spread by netizens afterwards, causing heated discussions.
Netizens' views collided fiercely
After the incident spread online, the comments of netizens blew up. Many people praised the behavior of the driver Xiao Zhang, believing that he showed noble character at a critical moment and helped a helpless drunk woman. According to this view, Xiao Zhang's behavior is a kind of selfless help, reflecting the warmth of human nature.
But there are also opposing voices, questioning Xiao Zhang's motives. Some people think that Xiao Zhang's behavior is a bit out of bounds, after all, helping to "wipe his butt" sounds a little unreasonable, and even a little uncomfortable. Some netizens said that if it were themselves, they might choose to help call relatives and friends to pick them up, rather than doing it themselves.
The angle of media coverage
"Shenzhen Daily" reported the incident in detail, saying that Xiao Zhang is a driver with many years of driving experience, who is usually kind and helpful. The report mentioned that Xiao Zhang did not report to the company after the incident, but drove the car back to the company directly, and took the initiative to explain the situation to the company afterwards.
The "Southern Metropolis Daily" started with "How true is the driver's 'kindness'?" As a title, Xiao Zhang's motives were questioned. The report pointed out that although Xiao Zhang's actions appeared to be selfless, whether they were really out of good faith still needs to be further investigated. Many netizens also said in the post that although they understand Xiao Zhang's kindness, this kind of behavior is indeed a little unacceptable.
Driver Xiao Zhang's response
Faced with the doubts of netizens, the driver Xiao Zhang said in an interview that he just wanted to help at that time and didn't think much about it. Xiao Zhang said: "At that time, Xiaoli was drunk and unconscious, and I saw that she really needed help, so I took a tissue, but I didn't expect it to cause such a big controversy." He stressed that he was only acting in good faith and had no other intentions.
Xiaoli also expressed her gratitude through her friends. Her friend posted on social media: "Thank you very much for Xiao Zhang's help, without him, Xiao Li might be in even more trouble." This post has received praise and support from many netizens.
Analysis from a social perspective
From a societal point of view, the safety of intoxicated women in public places does require attention. In recent years, similar incidents have become commonplace, and drunk women are increasingly at risk when they go out. In this incident, although the behavior of the driver Xiao Zhang caused controversy, it also showed us the kindness and warmth in the society.
However, from another point of view, it is indeed debatable whether the behavior of the driver Xiao Zhang is appropriate. After all, helping others also requires a certain amount of measure and boundaries. Although Xiao Zhang's actions were done out of good intentions, it is also worth thinking about whether Xiao Li's privacy and dignity were taken into account in the process of helping.
Reflections from an economic perspective
From an economic point of view, as part of the service industry, the behavior and quality of service of ride-hailing drivers directly affect the reputation of the company and the sense of safety of passengers. In this case, although Xiao Zhang's behavior was done in good faith, if it is not handled properly, it may have a certain impact on the company and the industry. Ride-hailing companies should have clearer rules and procedures in place to ensure the safety and rights of passengers and drivers when dealing with such incidents.
Comparison of similar events
In fact, this is not the first time that a similar incident has occurred. A few years ago, there was also an incident in a certain city where a drunk female passenger vomited in the car, and the driver helped clean it up. At that time, the driver's behavior was well received by passengers and netizens, and he was called "the most beautiful driver". In contrast, although Xiao Zhang's actions in this incident were also well-intentioned, they also caused more controversy because they involved more private areas.
Personal reviews
As a regular reader, this incident does feel complicated. On the one hand, the goodwill of the driver Xiao Zhang is worthy of recognition, after all, it is a virtue to lend a helping hand at a critical moment. But on the other hand, the way of helping is indeed a bit unconscionable, and it is difficult to fully accept. Perhaps, how to protect the privacy and dignity of others when helping them is a question that each of us needs to think about.
Closing point
Through this incident, we can see the kindness and warmth in human nature, as well as the controversies and contradictions that may exist in acts of kindness. Perhaps, while helping others, we also need to consider each other's feelings and privacy more, so as to make kindness more pure and beautiful. What do you think about this?
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