There are two things in the world that people can't look at,
One is the sun, and the other is the human heart.
But man is a social animal,
A person's life is destined to deal with people.
Everyone in this world looks the same,
But under the similar skin, the mind is different.
The human heart is separated from the belly, and it cannot be seen or touched.
In fact, once a person has a lot of thoughts,
There will be clues, but we just won't face it.
The editor reminds you:
People with bad hearts often have these three characteristics, and they know it early and prevent it early.
01. Profit-seeking, easy to turn the face and not recognize people
A man who only takes but never gives,
How can I share it with you in the face of crisis;
A person who puts interests first and does not talk about feelings,
How is it possible to be grateful for your kindness?
There is a kind of person,
You helped him ninety-nine times, and he took it all for granted.
The hundredth time I didn't help or didn't help,
He scolds you and holds a grudge.
This kind of selfish person leaves his feelings behind at any time,
For the sake of their own interests, they will not hesitate to betray anyone.
So
When there are selfish and mean people around you,
He who only hurts the weak to please the strong,
Whoever speaks to you and likes to hide a knife in his smile,
Be sure to stay away in time to avoid injury.
02. Full of scheming and likes to sow discord
I think everyone around us has people who always have smiling faces,
is polite to everyone, but behind the back, he is always bad,
This kind of person is a typical "smiling tiger".
Touting and praising in front of people, revealing people's privacy behind is embarrassing;
The front of the person is dignified and generous, and the back is made up to sow discord.
The sea of people is vast, and wolves are eyeing each other;
In the world, poisonous snakes are hidden and ready to attack.
Human affection can be as thin as paper,
The human heart can be as ruthless as a wolf,
Human venom is comparable to snake venom,
So
To be a man and to do things, you must keep your eyes open,
Some people have to guard against mental malpractice.
03. Strong jealousy, one thing in front of you and one thing behind your back
As the old saying goes:
It is difficult to draw the skin and bones of a tiger, and it is difficult to know the face but not the heart.
If you want to understand a person, you can't just look at the appearance,
We must discern the truth from the details of life and appreciate people's hearts.
Everyone has two sets, one behind the back, one in front of the face,
When walking in the world, we must keep our eyes open and recognize people.
Open guns are easy to dodge, hidden arrows are difficult to defend,
At work or in life,
may deliberately sabotage other people's plans,
Someone who knows that someone else is planning to deliberately ruin your good deeds.
After all
Jealousy drives people crazy, and jealousy can drive people crazy.
When you have a very jealous person around you,
Please stay away, he could hurt you at any time.
Zhuge Liang said in "The Teacher's Table":
Pro-virtuous ministers, far villains, this ancestor Han is so prosperous;
Pro-villain, Yuanxian Chen, after that, the Han Dynasty fell into decline.
If you befriend any other person, you will become the same kind of person.
So be sure to stay away from the above three types of people,
Don't be fooled by what others say,
Don't be deceived by other people's appearances.
Man,
Always suffering losses, after the ups and downs of life,
only to understand that those people are worth cherishing and paying.
Thousands of gold are rare, people's hearts are unpredictable,
Do and cherish the rest of your life.