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Zeng Guofan, this name must be familiar to everyone, a famous minister and military strategist in the late Qing Dynasty, but today we will not talk about his exploits, but talk about the fate of his five daughters
Speaking of Zeng Guofan, he can be said to be famous, although he shines on the stage of history, the tragedy in the family is like a dark tide, quietly and silently invading his daughters, think about it, the future and fate of the children are actually closely related to the choice of the father, which also makes people wonder if the education method of this historical celebrity is also a bit problematic?
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Zeng Guofan's educational philosophy is not casually talked, his background and values are deeply rooted in the soil of feudal society, he attaches importance to the "three from the four virtues", that the daughter must be a virtuous wife and mother, obedient, well-behaved, empathetic, resist this educational concept, those young ladies are not that guts, gradually, their individual wishes are suppressed, family responsibilities and traditional norms are like invisible chains, binding their hearts
This educational concept is almost a joke in today's view, we live in an era that emphasizes individual rights and free choice, girls have their own career pursuits and life plans, and they no longer want to be the kind of "little padded jacket" pinched in the palm of their hands
For Zeng Guofan's daughter, choosing a husband is also a disaster, her father is bent on choosing the right son-in-law for them, where does it matter if they are willing or not, but the fate of the eldest daughter, second daughter, and third daughter of the Zeng family is very tragic, two died early, a young widow, Zeng Jijing, married a weak husband, and finally died depressed, many people couldn't help but shake their heads and sigh
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In those days, the fate of daughters had to be based on family background, father's authority and some brotherly relationships, and they had no choice of their own at all, and their fate was like billowing smoke, which went with the wind, and they did not even have a chance to resist pitifully
As for Zeng Guofan's five daughters, only Zeng Jifen is a lucky one, married to the famous minister Shen Baozhen, Shen Baozhen not only has a high status, but also treats Zeng Jifen well, but can you say that this is the favor of fate? In fact, it was also Zeng Guofan who gradually realized the love and freedom for his daughters after losing his daughters, and only then did he loosen the shackles of persecution from the bottom of his heart
To put it bluntly, Zeng Guofan's story is true, the tragedy of a family reflects the helplessness and helplessness of women in an era, as a man who stands up to the sky, but fails to open a window of light for his daughters
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Looking at the tragedy experienced by Zeng Guofan's daughters, today we should be more vigilant about how to find a suitable path between tradition and modernity, and create a real and humanized free space for young women
Women should have the right to choose their own path, not just use the old road of "housework" to bind their future, today's society should pay more attention to the survival of women as individuals, promote education and marriage concept change, so that everyone can think independently and control their own destiny
I really hope that every girl in the future can find the most suitable path for herself in thousands of choices, and then move towards the future she wants, this is the story of Zeng Guofan and the five young ladies, it gives us not only the heaviness of history, but also the thinking of the future
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