In love, many people will say that you don't guess a woman's thoughts, because you can't guess it, men will always find women strange, why what they say is always different from what they think in their hearts, sometimes women say the opposite will make men misunderstand, and two people will have misunderstandings.
In love, women always like to be the duplicity stupid, but her duplicity just hopes that someone can understand her, as long as you are willing to put more effort into it, you will understand his counter-words, so don't always use "low emotional intelligence" as an excuse.
It is an art to get along with men and women, two people have different thoughts, and the way of expression is completely different, as long as you understand what women say, you can understand what they think in their hearts, so many men have to learn to listen to many words in the relationship.
Therefore, men should know that women miss you, even if they can't say it explicitly, they will deliberately say these 4 "counterwords" to you!
01
"You're busy, I don't need you to accompany me"
Many times, when a woman is in love, she wants to stay by each other's side all the time, but everyone has their own things to be busy with, and it is impossible to meet each other often, but women will want a man to accompany them whenever they have free time, and they will become very disappointed after seeing a man busy.
When a woman says this to you, although she knows that you are busy and doesn't want to disturb you, she will actually have some expectations in her heart.
Therefore, men must not take the word "woman" seriously, even if they can't withdraw, they must first appease the woman's emotions, and when they are free, they must accompany the woman more.
02
"I don't want you."
Some women always say that they don't want you, but they miss you very much in their hearts, and she just wants you to pay more attention to her and stop snubbing her.
Especially when you are busy with work and two people can't be together often, this feeling will be even stronger, obviously she misses you very much, but she doesn't dare to disturb you.
When you ask her "do you want me", she will not tell the truth, but deliberately say the opposite: "I don't want you", which also doesn't want you to be too proud and make you nervous about her more.
But in her heart, she is looking forward to seeing you, even if she can stay a little longer, it is good, but for the sake of face, she can only say it not according to what she thinks in her heart, but hopes that you can understand it yourself.
03
"You still know to contact me, I thought you forgot about me"
Women, when you miss someone, deep down there will be an expectation for you, she expects you to contact her sooner, she expects you to care about her, and she puts her first in her heart.
However, her expectations are always disappointed, even if she updates her news frequently, you still don't notice her, or you don't contact her as she wants, to ask her to meet.
When you contact her, she is angry and excited at the same time, but she only shows her anger, and she will say this counter-sentence to you: "You still know to contact me, I thought you forgot about me." ”
After hearing this sentence, you may feel that she is weird towards you, as if she doesn't want to deal with you, but in fact, she misses you to the extreme, and she has been waiting for you to say so.
04
"I'm bothering you."
When a woman misses you, she will say to you, "I'm going to bother you."
On the surface, you think that a woman is considerate of you and can understand that you are very busy, but in fact, the woman misses you, but she is afraid that she will cause you a burden, so ask this first.
In fact, the woman wants to say: "I just like to bother you and keep you from talking to me". Such a woman is also more fragile in her heart, because she misses you very much, she will not be able to control herself and take the initiative to come to you, if you really like her, don't be cold to her for so long, women also need to be coaxed, and they also need to be remembered, and they must let women feel your love.
05
Emotional message
The book once said: When love is deep, he will cross the ocean to see you, even if the road ahead is full of thorns, he will work hard and will not be afraid.
Missing is not just a matter of saying it, it is really missing, it is traceable, maybe it will give you a thumbs up in your circle of friends, maybe it will nagging you like an old mother.
As a man, when facing such emotional expressions from women, you must respond and care in a timely manner, and don't wait for the real feelings to run out and then cherish them.