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The wedding was supposed to be a sweet and romantic moment, but it turned out to be a dramatic suspense film, which is about the "180,000 8 bride price incident" that happened recently in Xinyang, Henan, and it feels like this wedding is more exciting than the TV series.
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Recently, I swiped a video, the picture began with the groom crooked, lying in front of the wedding car, not letting the car go, his face mixed with helplessness and anger, relatives and friends next to him looked confused, and the atmosphere instantly became tense, what happened? It turned out that the bride's brother suddenly made a "heartbroken" request: if you don't give a bride price of 180,000 yuan anymore, you won't let the bride go home today, what kind of operation is this? The groom was also stunned, feeling that he was directly stunned by the divine operation of "heaven".
The groom jumped up at the door of the wedding car and said to the bride's brother, "If this marriage can't be won't work, I won't do it!" But this brother had no intention of letting go, the situation was very resistant, the two sides were deadlocked, seeing that the scene was getting bigger and bigger, the bride's emotions were depressed to the extreme, and even had the idea of suicide, and the relatives and friends at the scene were all nervous
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This year, the wedding should have been a happy event for the two families to reunite, but all kinds of things have become entangled and complicated, no, the groom finally chose to call the police for help, only after the police intervened, can the bride leave safely, and then these things quickly fermented on the Internet, causing a wide range of attention
Many netizens expressed their indignation at the unreasonable behavior of the bride's brother for the first time, and agreed with the groom's position, they felt that this really shouldn't be, marriage is not exchanged for money, of course, there are also all kinds of thoughtful analysis, some people speculate, what is going on, has it been like this in the bride's family all these years? It makes people feel aggrieved
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With the development of things, some people familiar with the matter began to break the news, it turned out that the bride's brother is not really representing the family, he actually has a story behind him, it is said that the bride's bride price has already been transferred into her account, this brother wants to forcibly raise the amount, probably because he has received a bride price between brothers and sisters before, and the result is still several temporary price increases, which makes people feel that the family's "sales contract" seems to be quite complicated
As soon as there was such a fuss, netizens exploded, and many people lashed out at the bride's brother, thinking that he completely ignored his sister's happiness, and even regarded this as a transaction, and everyone left messages on social platforms, "What kind of parent is this?" Don't treat your sister as a relative, and think about how to squeeze what kind of money out of her, this is what people do? Not only that, but through this incident, many people recalled the story of their marriage, and the emotion and impact in their hearts spontaneously arose
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In order to avoid further deterioration of the situation, the official authorities also responded quickly, they began to educate the bride's parents and older brothers, with the intention of making them re-examine this money-centric concept of marriage, and promised to work hard to promote the reform of social customs
In the discussion, some people even reminded what is the future of the daughter in this family? Can we completely sever ties with the "economic kidnapping" between family members? The future of the bride raises concerns about whether she will be able to maintain happiness and self-esteem in this family environment.
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You must know that in this material-centric era, the money game in the marriage process has made many people begin to lose their way, and in many families, the opinions of father and mother are disagreeable or even irreconcilable, and they want to use marriage as a tool for trading, blindly pursuing the so-called "decency" and "face", rather than real happiness
This incident is actually a reminder that no matter what happens, marriage should be based on love, respect and trust, not on the basis of money to bind a relationship.
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However, marriage in the new era is not only a matter between the bride and groom, it involves many factors such as family, traditional culture, and social concepts of both parties
What we should pay more attention to is how to make the bride price culture transparent and reasonable in the future society, establish a healthier concept of marriage, so that each couple can enter the palace of marriage without material burden, I hope this incident can sound the alarm for everyone, so that we can all look at marriage rationally and cherish the happiness between lovers
Behind this turmoil, it is the long-term conflict of customs and values that has been exposed, and many people have begun to reflect on how to balance traditional customs and modern life. Times are changing, concepts are changing, but the warmth and understanding in our hearts cannot change
Before I wrap up, I would like to ask you what you think of this event. Welcome to leave a message in the comment area, share your views and experiences, and let's discuss this topic together!
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