In real life, things gather by like, and people are grouped.
The friends around you will either help you go up or pull you down, and the impact will be real.
Those who are unreliable in their words and deeds will sooner or later infect you with their bad habits, and you will suffer with them.
If you always deal with these three kinds of people and invite them into your home as VIPs, it will really be a mine for yourself, and it will not do you any good for yourself.
To be a person and make friends, you have to have a selection standard, this is not hypocrisy, it is really for your own sake.
After all, if you choose the right friend, your path will be smoother and smoother, and if you choose the wrong one, you will really push your good life into the ditch.
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People who have bad habits.
A friend of mine, her cousin not only borrowed money from her, but also looked around for someone to borrow, and at a glance she knew that this person's living habits were terrible, and he didn't know where to use the money.
Dealing with this kind of person can't help him at all, and he may end up putting himself in it.
Some people have ridiculously poor living habits, borrowing money all day long, and making a mess of themselves.
If we accidentally get too close to them, it's easy to be pulled into the water by them.
When we also get infected with those bad habits, our lives will be completely messed up, and the peaceful days of the past will be shattered, and we will never be able to get them back.
In reality, don't make friends with people who have bad habits, because this bad habit can spread faster than a cold. Once you've gotten yourself into it, it's hard to figure it out.
Those who always borrow money and do not pay it back, and have no plan for their life, being close to them will only bring endless trouble to themselves.
Don't be soft-hearted, don't think you can save them, this kind of person is often not saved, dogs can't change eating, stay away from them to keep their peaceful life.
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Jealous people.
Some people are very jealous and can't see others as being a little better than themselves.
They call you brother and sister on the surface, but behind the scenes, they are calculating you, ready to give you a backstab.
This kind of person regards his friends as rivals and enemies, and his heart is full of envy and hatred for others.
You dig out your heart and lungs for him, but he thinks about how to make you unlucky, this kind of friend staying by his side is simply a time bomb.
Jealous people always like to create rumors, calculate others, and make others unlucky, this kind of human nature is really terrible.
The character of a friend is really too important.
If there are such people with poor character in the circle of friends, it is equivalent to planting a thunder in your own life, and if you are not careful, you will be caught off guard.
Stay away from people who are too jealous and like to make small gestures, they are not trustworthy, and keeping them around will only lead to endless trouble and pain.
In life, friends should support each other and care for each other, instead of being jealous of each other and calculating each other.
The best way to deal with such people is to stay away decisively and show no mercy.
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People who live extravagantly.
People, who you have been with for a long time, how much will be affected, especially in terms of consumption habits, how others live, you will learn after a long time.
In reality, if we have such extravagant friends around us, our consumption habits will be easily deviated after a long time.
To be honest, spending money excessively and living with rich people is simply digging a hole for yourself.
You think you're living a high life, but you're actually pushing yourself into the economic abyss.
For example, I have a friend who started spending money inmodestly because a friend in her circle of friends just got married, married a rich man, and the level of consumption suddenly soared.
In order to keep up with others, she also began to spend money on luxury goods and live a luxurious life.
But the reality is that ordinary people have limited incomes, how can they be compared with those who are not bad at money?
There is a ceiling on income, but there is no bottom line for expenses, so it is no wonder that there are no financial problems if it goes on like this.
So, don't become close friends with people who spend lavishly, it's definitely not good for your wealth accumulation.
Money is saved little by little, and every expense saved is an investment in the future.
If you are led astray by those extravagant friends, you will spend money like water all day long, and after a long time, not only will you not be able to save money, but you will become more and more poor.
Accumulating wealth is not based on illusions, but by saving and spending it reasonably, step by step, away from those who let you spend money out of control, in order to truly embark on the path of abundance.
Let my words come into your heart
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