introduction
In our hometown dialect, the word "trick" is quite interesting to say, where does it come from? Speaking of which, we have to go back to the book "Tunnel War" written by Li Ke, and there is such a sentence in the seventeenth chapter: "If you eat my pears, you don't pay for it, and you have to play tricks." After that, the word "cheating" spread.
Then we have to think about it, what is "cheating"?
"New Interpretation of Words" explains to us clearly, "cheating", that is, Lai Pi does not admit it, or is quite unreasonable, and he wants to take advantage of others.
There is a well-known sociologist in our village, who said that cheating on this matter is not only a matter of personal character, but also a serious lack of social responsibility. Do you think, if everyone cheats, then society will not be chaotic? Social contradictions and conflicts, must they emerge one after another? How can social stability and harmony be maintained?
The sociologist also said that if we want to curb this trend of cheating, we have to start from many aspects. First of all, it is necessary to strengthen moral education, so that everyone understands that to be a human being, we must be trustworthy and conscience. Second, laws and regulations must also keep up, and they must be formulated strictly, and those who cheat must be severely cracked down on, so that they know that there is a price to be paid for cheating. Moreover, we have to create a good social atmosphere, so that everyone advocates honesty and despises cheating. Of course, the most important thing is to start from yourself, you have to be an honest person first, consciously abide by laws and regulations and social ethics, and don't do that kind of trick.
The sociologist finally concluded that cheating behavior is a bad social atmosphere, which not only harms our personal interests, but also undermines social fairness and justice. We must resolutely curb this trend and not allow it to continue to spread.
However, then again, in this real society, why are there always people who love to cheat?
No, there is a woman in our village, surnamed Shi, and she is cheating on her husband.
What's going on? Let's talk to everyone.
event
There is a man in our village, surnamed Zheng, who is three years old today, and his daughter-in-law's surname is Shi, who is two years old today, Chinese New Year's Eve Chinese New Year's Eve. Usually, these two people have a very good relationship and are very affectionate. However, during the National Day, this Shi actually cheated and was caught on the spot by his own husband!
On the afternoon of October 6th, the sky was overcast and drizzling. Shi was intimate with a strange man on the street, but was bumped into by his husband. When the husband saw it, he was furious, and he went up to question Shi. As for Shi, not only did he not admit it, but he also threw himself and rolled on the ground, trying to win sympathy and evade responsibility.
When her husband Zheng saw this posture, he became even more angry, and he had to ask Shi to give an explanation. Shi Mou, hesitantly, said: "I'm not really cheating, I'm just trying to eliminate loneliness." ”
As soon as these words came out, her husband Zheng was even more angry, accusing Shi of not only betraying his marriage and family, but also using this excuse to prevaricate him, which was really shameless.
That's a rough idea of what happened.
As soon as this matter came out, the netizens in our village exploded and started to discuss it.
Netizen voices
Netizen Junzi Aicai said: "Shi's incident not only violates marriage ethics, but also damages the dignity and interests of the family." She tried to evade responsibility by splashing and rolling and justifying, didn't this make her husband Zheng even more angry and disappointed! Her justification is really unexpected! ”
Netizen, you also said: "Marriage is based on mutual trust and respect. If one of the parties cheats, then there must be problems in the marriage. At this time, the cheating party should sincerely apologize to the other party, instead of rolling around and trying to evade responsibility. ”
In short, netizens' discussions are varied, and there is everything.
Lao Hu's point of view
We'll have to talk about our point of view. Loyalty is the bottom line of marriage. Anyone must treat their marriage with loyalty, otherwise, the marriage is prone to problems.
Let's take Shi in this matter as an example, she should reflect on her own behavior and take due responsibility. She also had to sincerely apologize to her husband and admit her mistakes. Only in this way can trust and respect between husband and wife be re-established, and harmony and happiness can be restored to the family. However, she used the way of splashing and rolling to cheat, which is really a bit undeserved!
Let's talk about it, are we talking about it?
Actually, there are more things going on in our village. It's just a small episode of it. However, we have to remember that to be a human being, we have to talk about credit, conscience, and morality. Otherwise, how can you live this day? All of us, we have to take caution!