In this world,
Everything has its own laws,
Whether you are a person or a worker,
All pay attention to a "degree".
There is a degree, so as not to lose proportion,
If you have a degree, you won't make mistakes.
The same is true of kindness,
Be limited, not excessive.
Don't let your goodness,
Become a knife that hurts yourself.
Life is short, life is impermanent,
Protect yourself,
Don't be good because of kindness,
Holding an umbrella for someone else and drenching yourself.
1. Kindness must first be compassionate to oneself
Kindness is the basis of being a human being,
Kindness is a lifelong practice.
If you squander your goodness excessively,
to the unworthy,
It's a kind of stupidity.
Before being kind to others,
First of all, you must ensure your own safety,
While warming others,
Don't let yourself get hurt.
Kindness is kindness to others,
It is also the armor that protects oneself.
There is no limit to kindness,
It's irresponsible to yourself.
If a good person always suffers,
It will chill your heart and change your mind.
So the premise of goodness,
It is to be compassionate to oneself first.
Only protect yourself,
in order to have love to be kind to others.
2. There is a bottom line for tolerance, and kindness must also be rational
People are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden,
Excessive kindness, if blind,
will be bullied.
Although "good people have good rewards",
But it also depends on the situation,
Don't be a "good person",
Let others take advantage of you and let yourself suffer.
There is nothing wrong with kindness, but it cannot be unprincipled,
If you don't have principles, the other party will dare to be unscrupulous.
The overflow of goodness will spoil some wicked people,
Therefore, tolerance must have a bottom line, kindness must also be rational,
Let others know your principles and temperament,
in order to cherish your kindness and be grateful for your good deeds.
3. The best life is kind and sharp
Born as a human being, kindness is right,
But don't let kindness,
It has become a tool for others to hurt you.
You know,
Not everyone knows how to cherish and be grateful,
Without the kindness of the edge, others are easy to attack,
Kindness without teeth is not feared by others.
You need to know:
other people's attitude towards you,
It will be determined by your friendliness.
You are kind and sharp, and others will be polite and appreciative,
Your kindness is infinite, and others dare to play with it.
So for the sake of kindness and meaning, life without regrets,
Be sure to cherish your kindness and don't squander it at will.
Life in the world, be a man,
There is nothing wrong with goodness in itself,
But it has to be a little sharp.
Don't give kindness to the unworthy,
Failed to be used.
Be a person with a prickly appearance,
Take a little temper to the world,
If you have a temper, others dare to pay attention to it,
If you have a bottom line, others will cherish it.
Remember:
Don't be good because of kindness,
Holding an umbrella for someone else and drenching yourself.
Love yourself first, then love others,
It is true wisdom and kindness!
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