Many women want their significant other to be reliable and honest, because in this way they will have a full sense of security, and at the same time, such a man can also give themselves a stable married life and a stable and predictable future.
And sometimes a man's honesty will make a woman feel like a mother's love and want to be by his side all the time to take care of him.
But some men's honesty is really honest, some men's honesty is disguised, and women are easily deceived by a man's disguise.
So, how to tell if the other party is honest? In fact, to judge whether a man is honest or not, you can't just look at appearance, but also look at these 5 aspects.
01
Look at his language skills
Honest men often give people the impression of "stupid mouth". They are usually not good at verbal expression, and sometimes they will stammer because of nervousness or low self-esteem, and even accidentally say the wrong thing and offend people.
But you know what? This kind of "stupidity" actually hides a sense of innocence and shyness. They have love in their hearts, but they are ashamed to express it, like a budding flower that needs to be patiently cared for and waiting.
They don't know the rhetoric, but every word comes from the heart. For example, he will not say, "I love you more than I love myself", but he will silently hold an umbrella for you when you need it.
On the other hand, those dishonest men, they have high emotional intelligence, they speak without leakage, they talk about people when they see people, and they talk nonsense when they see ghosts, which can always make your heart flutter, but how many of those words are sincere and how many are routines, it is unknown.
In love, what we need is not sweet words, but the sincerity that is willing to do everything for you. So, don't be fooled by the sweet words of some men, and listen to those clumsy but sincere words, which are often more moving.
02
See if he has the initiative
Honest men are often passive in the face of love. They are accustomed to waiting, waiting for the other party to take that step first, even if their hearts are already magnificent, and the surface is still unfazed.
Because, they are afraid of rejection, afraid that their initiative will be exchanged for embarrassment, so they choose to remain silent and often miss love.
And dishonest men, on the contrary, dare to pursue and express their hearts. They won't let opportunities slip through their fingers, and even if they are rejected, they will smile and say, "What's the big deal, you don't look down on me, buddy doesn't look down on you!" ”
In love, taking the initiative is not a bad thing, but we must also learn to distinguish whether this initiative is sincere or just to get.
03
Watch his circle of friends and video works
Honest men, the circle of friends is often very "clean", they are not keen to share the bits and pieces of life, not because life is boring, but because they pay more attention to inner feelings rather than external display.
Therefore, even if they occasionally post a dynamic, it is mostly inconsequential and trivial, without too much embellishment and rendering.
And dishonest men, their circle of friends is like a well-arranged magazine, recording every wonderful moment of life, these wonderful moments are more photos of him and many friends of the opposite sex when they get together or play.
But don't forget, the circle of friends is just a part of life, and it can't fully represent a person's spiritual world. Sometimes, those seemingly ordinary lives hide the truest happiness.
04
Look if he fits in
Honest men tend to be less sociable. They prefer to be alone and enjoy their time alone. In a crowd, they may seem a little out of place, not because they don't like to socialize, but because they know how to get along with themselves better. They like to be quiet, they like to think, they like that peace of mind.
Men who are not honest are more like stars in the social arena, they can always quickly integrate into any group and mingle with different people. They are sociable and know how to get along with people, especially when they are with the opposite sex.
Of course, whether you are gregarious or not does not completely determine whether a person is good or bad. Everyone has their own lifestyle and choices, and what matters is whether the person you like is willing to step out of his comfort zone and try to fit into your world for you.
05
See if anyone often takes the initiative to contact him
Honest men often don't have many friends, not because they are not popular, but because they are too low-key and don't know how to manage their network, they prefer to prove their worth with practical actions.
Dishonest men often have a wide range of network resources. They are good at making new friends and know how to use their relationships to create opportunities for themselves. Usually, their phones of the opposite sex always ring non-stop, and the messages of the opposite sex in WeChat have never stopped.
But although the connections are good, it is really hard to find. A true friend is not in quantity, but in quality. A person who is willing to lend a helping hand in times of need is more precious than a hundred people who will only add to the cake.
06
Speaking of which, men are more insidious than women, maybe women are just using some of their own tricks to pursue the man they like, but men often use their own scheming to deceive a woman's feelings, which is a fatal blow to women, because once a woman is deceived, she will be in for a lifetime.
Therefore, to identify an honest and reliable man is also a compulsory lesson for women, after all, if you marry the wrong person, you will ruin your life.
In short, judging whether a man is honest or not should not only look at his appearance, but also look at his interior and behavior. But remember, whether he is honest or not, the most important thing is whether he is willing to give his heart to you and whether he is willing to spend the rest of his life hand in hand with you.
So, sisters, don't be fooled by those superficial phenomena, and feel the emotions behind them with your heart.
May we all find the person who is willing to give everything for us, go through the ups and downs of life together, and welcome the happiness that belongs to us.