You think that your family is prosperous, sorry, some people may have been eyeing it for a long time, waiting for an opportunity to make some benefits.
Smart people know one thing: protecting their luck is a top priority.
If you find these signs, then don't be polite, refuse quickly, and don't let them "steal" your good luck.
Good luck doesn't come from the wind, don't let those relatives and friends who are not right-hearted quietly take away the blessings you have worked so hard to save, you have to keep an eye on yourself!
01
Shift the responsibility of survival to your family.
Being too kind-hearted is really easy to suffer big losses.
Especially when your family's wealth suddenly has a few more mouths to share, don't live yourself as a bad person.
In reality, the thing of "Shengmien, fighting Mi Hatred" is too common.
For example, I have met a person who is very good at making money and his family is very rich.
But he is just righteous, not only supporting his wife and children, but also taking care of the children of his brothers and sisters, and even distant relatives.
You say, what is the best result of doing this?
In the end, his wealth was hollowed out little by little, and the family's good life began to decline.
This is not kindness, this is to carry the responsibility of other people's survival on yourself, which is equivalent to letting people borrow the luck of your family.
People, it's okay to scatter some money, but don't make your own family poor, that's stupid.
02
In social life, it is borrowed.
In the rivers and lakes of adults, more snacks and eyes are the basic criteria for living a long life.
Relatives and friends sometimes look kind, but there are a lot of dramas behind them.
You think it's nothing to let your brothers and sisters come to the house often for a meal, but as a result, if you encounter someone with poor character, you will poke a big hole in your family, calculate hundreds of thousands, and ruin your family's affairs.
In social circles, "borrowing" is more common.
You have good conditions, and others come to take advantage of it, and you may not care about it usually.
But this thing is different after a long time. Those who want to touch you under the banner of relatives and friends, if you can't see through it, sooner or later you will suffer.
In reality, the more familiar people are, the easier it is to make a fuss about your trust and treat you as a cash cow until you are tossed and your wealth is scattered.
03
Borrow the peace of your family.
In real life, a good family often has two signs: one is family prosperity, and the other is family harmony.
Don't think that this good fortune is inherently strong, some people see that you are doing well, and their hearts are so sour that they start to play all kinds of tricks to disturb your peace.
Just like my friend, who used to live a peaceful and comfortable life, but when my mother-in-law came, it all changed.
The mother-in-law had a bad time, picking thorns and finding faults all day long, and finally the two of them began to quarrel, and even almost fought, and the marriage was hanging on the tip of the knife.
To be honest, this mother-in-law's problem is not as simple as housework at all, but that she herself is too bad to see others good.
She herself is unhappy, so she wants to pull others into the same quagmire, and when she sees that others are also unlucky, she feels balanced in her heart.
This kind of person is "borrowing luck", borrowing all the harmony and happiness of your family and replacing it with her own psychological comfort.
With such a character, we have to stay away, otherwise your harmonious home will be disturbed.
Some people don't have a good life, they like to drill into other people's homes when they have nothing to do, they are angry about your happiness, they don't talk about it, and they have long been thinking about how to drag you into the water.
As a result, as soon as he appeared, your family began to lose balance from the original harmony and beauty, and the relationship between husband and wife became tense.
Just like the friend's husband, since his mother-in-law moved in, his temper has skyrocketed, and he has a lot of trouble with his wife every day.
This is her mother-in-law secretly borrowing their family harmony, in order to make herself psychologically comfortable, and forcibly dragging other people's lives into the abyss.
You have to understand that some people are not having a good time, not because they can't live, but because they don't want others to be good.
Dragging you into the water is their only purpose.
Let my words come into your heart
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