Text: Meow Hi Sen
Edited by Shark Entertainment
has been in the crew for almost 30 years, and his wife still never gives up on him.
30 years later, the 52-year-old "Jigong" You Benchang finally became popular.
But his bad wife, who accompanied him all the way, unfortunately got cancer.
You Benchang didn't care about his future and career, and immediately rejected all the director's invitations.
He returned to his wife and shared her weal and woe.
You Benchang recalled when his wife was hospitalized and said:
There are two beds, one for her and one for me.
Couples who are accustomed to "flying separately when disaster comes", this kind of couples who "share hardships" is really admirable.
A truly successful man
Some time ago, because Mr. You Benchang was accidentally infected with a cold, the reporter's interview was postponed for nearly two months.
Today, we finally met this "uncle".
The TV series "Flowers", which has been precipitated for ten years, has gained wide attention as soon as it was broadcast.
The number of views has reached hundreds of millions in one day.
The protagonist Hu Ge won the Best Actor Award in one fell swoop, and director Wong Kar-wai also made another brilliant achievement.
But our protagonists today are not these two successful men, but the resourceful uncle in "Flowers", You Benchang.
The thing that domestic entertainment actors care about most is nothing more than to win the "Best Leading Role Award".
But You Benchang's behavior, I don't know how many celebrities have been slapped in the face.
He declined to accept the award, saying that the opportunity would be given to young people.
You Benchang said that he was "uncle", it is better to say that he is "living Buddha Jigong".
Coincidentally, before You Benchang played "Uncle", he really played "Jigong".
The shoes are torn, the hat is torn, and the robe is torn.
It is this Jigong who "breaks everything" that brings a ray of light to the suffering world.
Premier Zhou also said:
The people love Jigong because he fights over injustice.
You Benchang deeply understands the meaning of "Jigong" and presents us with a vivid "Jigong".
When the reporter first met You Benchang, he looked at the old man's emaciated face, and couldn't help but ask:
What's your appetite like lately?
The old gentleman smiled, saying that his body was very tough, but he was a little too thin.
To get back to the point, the purpose of today's visit is not these "little things".
Love Preservation Tips
Not ringing is my secret.
You Benchang only used two words to teach the reporter a lesson.
Following the old man to his study, after a few sips of tea, the reporter stated the purpose of the trip:
I heard that you and your wife have walked hand in hand for more than 60 years, and you are still in love, do you have your own secret to marriage?
Mr. You Benchang does not have any star shelves, and he answers questions immediately.
He believes that in a marital relationship, both parties should be equal, and both need to respect each other, love each other, and forgive each other.
And it's normal for a quarrel to break out, but if you want to live for a long time, you still have to let it go.
If she says more, I say more, and the matter will never be resolved.
When encountering a problem that needs to be solved, the first thing you should think about is how to do it, rather than going for the momentary speed of talking.
The last sentence is always left to the other party to say, and he doesn't make a sound.
The reporter asked again:
What is the most attractive thing about your wife?
答:
One of the things that appeals to me about her is her integrity.
It turned out that You Benchang's wife, Yang Huihua, was a tiger.
The personality is "pungent", straightforward and fast-talking, especially warm-hearted, and likes to give others grievances the most.
In life, You Benchang is tolerant if he can, and many small things are passed by with a smile.
The personalities of the two can be said to be "very different".
But it is this complementary personality that allows two people to see the other side of the world.
One plus one, to be greater than two.
Anything, as long as two people are together, there will be more gains.
If someone shares happy things, you can reap double the happiness; Someone to share sad things can reduce sadness by half.
There is no better marriage than this.
In addition to the reporter's curiosity about You Benchang's secret to maintaining her marriage, Li Xueqin, who was called a "talented girl" by netizens, was also very curious.
In a later program, Li Xueqin also came to ask Mr. You Benchang for advice on feelings.
Li Xueqin asked curiously:
How did you and your wife end up at that time?
You Benchang recalled sweetly:
It's me who pursues her.
Be brave
At that time, when the communication equipment was not developed, You Benchang wanted to contact the girl he liked, so he could only write a letter.
Unexpectedly, You Benchang, who is introverted in life, will "attack bravely" when he meets true love.
When we meet someone we like, we might as well be brave and prefer to be rejected rather than miss out.
Although we Chinese are restrained and subtle in our bones, if we meet the "right person", we must become generous and confident.
If you don't be brave once, how do you know that you have no results?
The letters written by You Benchang and his wife Yang Huihua at that time are still preserved today.
These symbols of love are almost packed in a sack.
Yang Huihua was suffering from cancer when You Benchang had just finished performing "Jigong".
You Benchang did not hesitate at all, he took the initiative to give up his good future and returned to his wife's side.
After his wife's body slowly recovered, she had the role of "uncle" again.
The reporter said goodbye to You Benchang, and this trip really benefited a lot.
Write at the end
You Benchang and Yang Huihua, the two bear the hardships and happiness of life together.
Experiencing new things with old people is the real novelty.
This old couple with a sense of freshness has been working together for more than 60 years, which is really enviable.
It is worth mentioning that the recent hit movie "Treasure Land in Front of the Door".
Xiang Zuo's performance in the movie is very surprising!
User Comments:
There is a reason why Xiang Tai looks down on Stephen Chow, because there is a real king of comedy in the family.
The most eye-catching thing in the movie is the handsome shot of Xiang Zuo.
Fingers are placed in front of the nose, which is a common cold and handsome scene in film and television dramas.
But netizens put Xiang Zuo and the monkey together.
Unless you really can't help it, people who are professionally trained will not laugh out loud.
In fact, before the release of this film, Xiang Zuo also had a live broadcast with You Benchang.
Xiang Zuo told You Benchang that he liked Jigong very much and often went to worship Buddha.
But You Benchang said that it is better to seek Buddha than to seek himself.
No pain, no gain.
You Benchang is simply a "life mentor", and everything he says is very philosophical.
At the end of the story, let's go back to the secret of maintaining marriage.
Between husband and wife, make more concessions in everything, less disputes, and work together towards a goal, so that the relationship can last for a long time.
Information sources:
Shanxi Evening News: Hu Ge, good news is coming
Shangguan News: "Uncle" You Benchang, take the initiative to give up! The crew of "Flowers" and "Wind Chaser" responded to the Magnolia Award nomination
The Paper: Revisiting the Classics|You Benchang: I decided to make this Jigong cute
China Net · News: Xiang Zuo Guo Biting enters the big screen of husband and wife The road to true love transformation