In today's society, marital stability is like a dance on a cliff that can fall at any time. And this time, the protagonist Xiao Han seems to have turned himself into an acrobat on the balance beam, and the netizens around him are pinching a cold sweat for him. After six years of marriage, the daughter-in-law went back to her parents' house and wanted to get a divorce, what happened? Let's take a look at the truth behind this story!
Xiao Han and his wife were classmates in college, and at the beginning, the two were like a match made in heaven, and their relationship was so sweet that everyone around them envied them. Their love story may be made into a TV series, the youth of campus love, the sweetness after graduation, and the excitement of entering the palace of marriage seem to be destined.
But there's more to marriage than just sweetness. As time passed, the problems between Xiao Han and his daughter-in-law gradually emerged. At the end of the day, life's trivialities can always test people's patience, especially when two people are facing financial pressure, busy work and family responsibilities.
Xiao Han's wife is a traditional girl, and although she also has her own job, most of the burden of the family still falls on her shoulders. Whenever Xiao Han came home from overtime and saw her tired, he always chose to be silent. His friends all persuaded him to care more about his daughter-in-law and not let her feel like she was struggling alone. But Xiao Han just couldn't listen to it, thinking that as long as they worked hard, they would bring them a better life in the future.
Netizens are also hotly discussing this, some people say that Xiao Han is a typical example of "turning a blind eye", and some people think that he is too obsessed with work and does not realize his wife's efforts at all. But Xiao Han's attitude was disappointing, everyone expected him to change and show more care and consideration, but he seemed to turn a deaf ear to everyone's persuasion and still went his own way.
At this time, Xiao Han's daughter-in-law finally couldn't bear it anymore and chose to go back to her mother's house in Pakistan. Her departure seemed to tell Xiao Han: "I'm tired, I need to change." Netizens began to speculate whether the daughter-in-law's move meant that she had made up her mind to separate from Xiao Han. For a while, the message area exploded, and there were all kinds of sounds.
"Xiao Han is too ignorant and too short-sighted!"
"There's no way for my daughter-in-law to leave, who can understand the bitterness in my heart?"
"At this time, if Xiao Han can go out to find his daughter-in-law, he may be able to redeem it."
The controversy in the comments section complicates matters even more. Friends also pulled Xiao Han to the party, trying to calm him down and find a way to solve this marital crisis. However, Xiao Han still has the attitude of "I don't interfere, I'm very sensible", and he doesn't really feel the crisis in his marriage. He thinks that his daughter-in-law is impulsive and will not really get into a divorce.
However, time passed little by little, and Xiao Han's daughter-in-law not only did not come back, but confided her grievances to the people around her outside. She said that she has given too much for this family over the years, but she has never received the understanding and support she deserves. Her friends comforted her and told her to let go of these burdens and think about her future.
At this critical moment, Xiao Han finally realized the seriousness of the problem. He began to reflect on what he had done over the years and found that he seemed to have been pursuing a career while neglecting the most important feelings. So, he decided to go to his daughter-in-law to try to salvage this crumbling marriage.
However, when Xiao Han came to his daughter-in-law's mother's house, he found that everything was not so simple. The daughter-in-law's parents were not enthusiastic about him, and even looked unwelcoming. Xiao Han plucked up the courage and expressed his apologies and determination to repair the marriage.
It's a pity that the daughter-in-law responded coldly: "You say you want to change every time, but every time I wait, I am only disappointed." Do you think I'm worth the wait? ”
Xiao Han was speechless for a moment, and he finally understood that solving the problem was not an end with an apology. He must prove his change with actions in order to touch his daughter-in-law's heart.
In the following days, Xiao Han began to work hard to adjust his life. He actively participates in family affairs, tries to take care of his daughter-in-law's emotions, and hopes to win back her trust through practical actions. He began to learn to cook, do laundry, and even try shopping with his daughter-in-law. However, all these efforts did not get an immediate response, and the daughter-in-law still kept her distance, and it seemed that it would take time to think about it.
Netizens also have different attitudes towards Xiao Han's changes. Some supporters believe that Xiao Han has begun to reflect and take action, and deserves support; But others believe that he probably did it to save face, not out of sincerity.
At this moment, the daughter-in-law's mentality underwent a subtle change. After thinking about it for a long time, she gradually realized that Xiao Han was trying to change, and she also began to re-examine this marriage. In the end, both of them put forward their expectations and bottom lines, and in an in-depth communication, they opened up to each other and exchanged ideas and feelings.
Xiao Han is no longer the husband who only focuses on work, and the daughter-in-law is no longer the wife who blindly endures. After several rounds of in-depth conversations, they decided to try to face the challenges ahead together.
This experience taught Han and his daughter-in-law that marriage is never a battle between two people, but a cooperation between two people. In this crisis, they not only reaped growth, but also injected new impetus into each other's feelings.
Xiao Han's story may be a microcosm of many people, and it is inevitable that there will be various problems in marriage, but the key is whether both parties are willing to work hard for this relationship. The discussion of this incident by netizens reminds us to be more understanding and tolerant in life. Sometimes, the "poison" in the eyes is just a sign of disappointment in each other, and regaining trust and love may only require the courage to listen to each other.
So, dear readers, do you have any friends like Xiao Han around? In the face of difficulties in marriage, I believe that everyone can find their own solution. Remember, a happy marriage requires the joint efforts of both parties, and no matter what problems we encounter, we must not give up the pursuit of love!
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