In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", as soon as Zhuge Liang saw Wei Yan, he told Liu Bei that this person has a backbone, and it is best to kill him quickly, otherwise he will definitely rebel.
Liu Bei said to Zhuge Liang, with me and you, he can't turn back, and besides, we still need manpower, so let's spare him.
Although Zhuge Liang temporarily spared Wei Yan's life, many years later, with Zhuge Liang dying, Wei Yan still chose to seize power. Fortunately, Zhuge Liang gave Ma Dai a clever plan before he died, so he cut Wei Yan.
People, is there really an "anti-bone"? Anti-bone does not refer to a certain bone, but refers to the fact that the person is not loyal enough in his heart, has no affection, is more fickle, and is particularly unreliable.
There are anti-bones, which cannot be hidden. People with these characteristics are often unreliable. Try not to trust them.
Feature 1: A smile, harmless to humans and animals.
In "Thirty-six Strategies", there is such a plan - hiding a knife in a smile.
The others had a smile on their faces, and they were very amiable. You believe him, and you think he's a good guy, and you lower your defenses. In this way, the purpose of the other person is achieved.
As you become defenseless, there is a chance that someone else will approach you and stab you in the back. The moment you are stabbed, you will suddenly realize that other people's amiability and smiles are all pretended.
The so-called "tigers and leopards are unbearable to ride, and people's hearts are separated from their belly" is this truth.
The tigers and leopards who come openly are afraid of everyone, so the sense of defense will be particularly strong. The hearts of those who come to the "yin" always love to disguise, making you feel that others are harmless, and you will lower your defense. In this way, others will be able to take advantage of it.
There is a saying that is particularly well said, don't be fooled by other people's superficial disguises.
Human beings are creatures with great "contrast". On the surface, he has a smile on his face, harmless to humans and animals. Behind the scenes, he may be as poisonous as a snake and scorpion, merciless, and without conscience.
Characteristic 2: full of ambition, forbearance and ruthlessness.
In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", the most rebellious is Sima Yi.
When Cao Cao was alive, he dreamed of the "Three Horse Food Trough" one day. Cao Cao was not at ease with Sima Yi, so he summoned Sima Yi and asked him what the "three-horse trough" meant.
Sima Yi did not hesitate and said that these three horses are Ma Teng, Ma Chao, and Ma Dai in the northwest. As long as the prime minister eradicates them, he will be able to sit back and relax.
After Cao Cao's death, Cao Pi ascended to the throne and began to suppress Sima Yi. Sima Yi pretended to be cowardly. Cao Pi felt that he could still suppress Sima Yi and did not need to kill him.
Unfortunately, Cao Pi died young, and Cao Yi was orphaned by Sima Yi. Cao Yi has both trust and checks and balances for Sima Yi, so Sima Yi still does not dare to act rashly.
A dramatic scene occurred, Cao Rong died earlier than Cao Pi, and the Cao family was no longer able to balance Sima Yi. Sima Yi took the opportunity to launch the Gao Pingling Rebellion and directly replaced Cao Wei.
A person who is both ambitious and very good at forbearance is not a loyal and reliable person, and the risk factor is very high.
Characteristic 3: Extreme hypocrisy, the city government is very deep.
The so-called "mouth full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, full of men and women prostitutes." ”
Benevolence, righteousness and morality on the surface are used to deceive people. And the male thieves and female prostitutes behind the scenes are the true face of people. It can be seen that benevolence, righteousness and morality are the fig leaf for male thieves and female prostitutes.
Why is a set of "benevolence, righteousness and morality" so common in a humane society?
Because the society pays attention to human feelings, it is the sophistication of human feelings on the surface. And the mouth full of benevolence, righteousness and morality is just in line with the sophistication of human feelings on the surface.
A person who is good at human feelings and sophistication cannot be honest and sincere; People who are not good at human feelings may be more straightforward.
Why are honest people easy to be bullied? It's because they lack the city government, they don't have any scheming, and they are more straightforward. Why can hypocrites take advantage of honest people? Because the hypocrites are extremely hypocritical, the city government is extremely deep, and the rank is above the honest people.
Normal people will not be full of benevolence and morality at all. Only hypocrites who want to cover up will be full of benevolence, righteousness and morality. Hypocrisy is not true kindness, it is just a means to deceive and harm people.
Feature 4: Seeing the wind makes the rudder, there is no principle.
Back to the question of "Zhuge Liang suggested that Liu Bei kill Wei Yan" mentioned above, why was Zhuge Liang always uneasy about Wei Yan?
It's not because Wei Yan has any backbone, it's just an excuse, but because Wei Yan killed his old boss Han Xuan with his own hands and opened the gate of Changsha City to surrender.
Today, Wei Yan can kill his old boss Han Xuan and open the gate of Changsha. Tomorrow, Wei Yan can also kill Liu Bei and Zhuge Liang and open the door to Shu Han.
There are only zero and countless betrayals. With the first time, there will be a second, a third, and even an infinite number of times.
Just like in marriage, if your partner betrays you for the first time, he will betray you a second, a third, or even countless times. People always have "inertia".
Seeing the wind and rudder, unprincipled people are like slippery loaches, and if you can't catch it, it won't settle down. Possibly, the more you trust him, the more he will turn against you.
People in the rivers and lakes have to "see people with eyes". Only by looking at the essence through phenomena can we understand the truest human heart.
Text/Shushan has deer