Hey, melon eaters! Recently, there have been big melons in the entertainment industry!
The protagonist this time is not those glittering traffic flowers, but - Wang Xiaofei's nanny Xiao Yang!
Didn't expect that, right?
is such a little person who is usually so low-key that he can't be more low-key, but he caused an uproar because of a circle of friends!
Moreover, this incident also involved the family entanglement between Wang Xiaofei and Da S.
What's going on?
What shocking secrets are hidden in Xiao Yang's circle of friends?
Why is Big S in a dilemma?
Ladies and gentlemen, let's take a look at this mysterious little sister Yang first.
To be honest, if it weren't for this Moments incident, it is estimated that everyone would not know that Wang Xiaofei's family still has such a treasure nanny!
Xiao Yang can be said to be the "invisible person" of Wang Xiaofei's family.
She came to the family a few years ago and is like an unknown little angel, taking care of the children's daily life day after day.
Let's imagine that from getting up, grooming, and dressing in the morning, to bathing, telling stories, and coaxing sleep at night, Xiao Yang takes care of everything.
This is a nanny, it is simply a children's exclusive bodyguard + life assistant + spiritual mentor three-in-one!
I have to say that Xiao Yang's job is not something that ordinary people can do.
If you think about it, it's tiring enough to take care of children from ordinary families, let alone children from star families like Wang Xiaofei and Da S.
It is estimated that I have to worry about it every day, for fear that something will happen to the children.
But Xiao Yang has been persisting for so many years, and this sense of responsibility and patience is really admirable!
However, it is such an unknown little angel who caused an uproar because of a circle of friends.
Friends, guess what Xiao Yang posted?
It's not a luxury vacation photo, it's not a brand-name bag show, but - the countryside scenery of her hometown Henan!
That's right, it's the kind of hometown photo full of fireworks, which makes people's hearts warm.
As soon as this circle of friends came out, the people who ate melons were stunned.
Everyone began to speculate: Why did Xiao Yang have time to go back to his hometown?
Is there something wrong with Wang Xiaofei's family?
Did Wang Xiaofei and Big S have a conflict again?
For a while, all kinds of speculations flew all over the sky, and this simple photo of returning home was hard to interpret 100,000 whys.
Seriously, when I saw this, I had to sigh: it's really hard to be a nanny for a celebrity family!
Even posting a circle of friends can cause so much speculation, how much pressure does it take.
But then again, it's really remarkable that Xiao Yang can work in this high-pressure environment for so many years and keep such a low profile.
So friends, the next time you see the staff of the celebrity family, don't patronize the gossip.
The hard work and dedication behind the people are really beyond our imagination.
People like Xiao Yang are the real "heroes of life"!
After talking about Xiao Yang, let's talk about this "star dad" Wang Xiaofei.
To be honest, since her divorce from Big S, Wang Xiaofei's life can be said to be a chicken feather.
First of all, the work aspect.
Everyone knows that Wang Xiaofei is a career-oriented man, and he is usually busy like a spinning top.
From company management to business activities, to all kinds of social interactions, it is simply not touching the ground.
Sometimes I wonder if he even has to make an appointment to go to the bathroom.
What a workaholic, so busy that he doesn't even have time to drink saliva.
However, no matter how busy you are at work, you can't miss your children.
It is said that Wang Xiaofei has always wanted to fly to Taiwan to see the child, but every time she is stranded for various reasons.
Sometimes it's because I'm too busy with work to take a break, and sometimes I can't make the trip because of some complicated reasons.
Alas, it feels sad to think about it, it's so difficult to be a father and even look at his own children.
I can imagine Wang Xiaofei's expression of wanting to cry without tears every time she sees a photo of a child.
However, there have been recent rumors that Wang Xiaofei seems to be less concerned about things in Taiwan.
Some say he may prefer to stay in Beijing to develop his career.
However, I find this argument a bit untenable.
What father, you think, can really ignore his children?
I guess Wang Xiaofei may be looking for a new way to balance work and family.
After all, he is also a man of flesh and blood, and it is impossible to really be indifferent to children.
Speaking of which, I have to admire Wang Xiaofei's parenting concept.
Although he usually seems to be very aggressive, when it comes to children, he is quite serious.
I remember that he said before that he hoped that his children could grow up healthy and happy, and not be affected by the disturbances of the outside world.
This attitude is really impressive.
is worthy of a person who has experienced wind and rain, this parenting concept is really to the point!
However, Wang Xiaofei's attitude seems to have changed somewhat subtly recently.
In the past, he cared about the children's affairs in every detail, but now he seems to be a little more relaxed.
What's going on?
Does he feel that the child has grown up and does not need to worry so much?
Or did he find a new way of parenting?
This question is really scratching people's heads, could it be that Wang Xiaofei has realized some new philosophy of life?
To be honest, I think this may be Wang Xiaofei growing.
You think, a person's concept of parenting cannot be static.
As children grow, so do the roles of parents.
Maybe Wang Xiaofei is now more inclined to give her children some autonomy, rather than meddling in everything.
This kind of change may be a good thing!
After all, overprotection is also not conducive to the growth of children, and letting go appropriately is also a sign of love.
However, no matter what, it is indeed not easy for Wang Xiaofei to be a father.
While taking care of your career, you also have to worry about your children's affairs.
And also have to face all kinds of speculation and criticism from the public.
Seriously, if it were me, I would have collapsed a long time ago.
Just thinking about it makes me feel big, and this pressure is really not something that ordinary people can bear.
So friends, when we eat melons, don't forget to understand the difficulties of the parties.
After all, not everyone can stay sane in the spotlight.
It is really not easy for Wang Xiaofei to adhere to her parenting philosophy in this situation.
Let's cheer him on!
Hopefully, he can find the best way for him and his children to get along.
After all, it's not easy to be a father, and it's even harder to be a celebrity father.
Wang Xiaofei, come on! We're all silently supporting you!
After talking about Wang Xiaofei, the celebrity father, let's talk about another protagonist - Big S.
Oops, speaking of Big S, I'm really distressed and admired.
, the former goddess of the entertainment industry, is now facing a predicament that is really not ordinarily complicated.
Everyone knows that Big S has always been the "darling" of the entertainment industry from his debut to the present.
Whether it's acting or variety shows, she is the kind of sparkling existence.
However, since becoming a mother, Big S's life can be said to have changed dramatically.
From the former princess of Huahua to a worried old mother, this change is too dramatic!
First of all, let's talk about Big S's maternal love.
Seriously, Da S's love for children is really touching and makes people want to cry.
If you look at her social media, you can see that almost every one of them is showing off the baby.
From the child's three meals a day to study and life, Big S has recorded everything in detail.
Sometimes I wonder, did Big S give all his love to his children and forgot to keep a little for himself?
Where is this mother, it is simply being a full-time photographer and life recorder for children!
However, Big S's situation is really difficult.
On the one hand, she hopes to give her children the best living environment.
But on the other hand, she has to face overwhelming pressure from public opinion.
If you think about it, if she sends her child back to Beijing, there will definitely be people who say that she is irresponsible.
If she had left her children with her, some people would have said that she had no regard for the child's father.
It's a dilemma!
Big S is now like walking a tightrope, and if you are not careful, you will be sprayed by netizens.
Moreover, Big S's situation is now more complicated.
It is said that Wang Xiaofei's attitude has changed recently, and it is not as easy to compromise as before.
This makes Big S even more difficult.
She may be wondering: Should she stick to her own ideas?
Or should the feelings of the child's father be considered?
This kind of inner struggle is really distressing.
Big S is now playing a super difficult balancing game, taking care of the children, her ex-husband, and dealing with public opinion.
To be honest, I think what Big S needs most now is understanding and support.
You think, how much courage and wisdom it takes for a person to face so much pressure and still maintain his sanity.
Moreover, Big S still has to maintain a perfect image in front of the camera, and this kind of pressure, I'm afraid only she knows how big it is.
It's like she's acting in an unscripted play now, and she has to be careful every step of the way.
Therefore, I really hope that everyone can give Big S more understanding and tolerance.
Don't talk about how she is at every turn.
We should believe that as a mother, she must be doing her best for the sake of her children.
After all, no one knows her children better than she does, and no one loves them more than she does.
Big S is now like fighting a war without gunpowder, and the opponent is all the doubts and criticisms.
Let's cheer for the big S together!
Hopefully, she can find the best lifestyle for herself and her children.
No matter what the outside world says, as long as she thinks it's right, she will stick to it.
After all, life is not about doing multiple-choice questions, but about writing an essay with no standard answers.
At this point, we have to explore a deeper question: how should love and responsibility be balanced in this family dispute?
This is not a simple custody issue, but the ultimate torture of human nature!
First, let's talk about love.
Whether it is Wang Xiaofei or Da S, their love for children is undoubted.
Although Wang Xiaofei is busy with work, she still thinks about her children all the time.
Big S put all his thoughts on the child.
However, the question arises: is there really only one way to express love?
It has been said that love is companionship.
However, if parents are temporarily unable to be with their children for the sake of work, does it mean that they do not love their children?
I don't think so.
Sometimes, the expression of love may be silently creating better living conditions for the child or giving the child a good example.
There are a thousand ways to love, and you can't use a ruler to measure everyone!
Let's talk about "responsibility".
As parents, both Wang Xiaofei and Da S have the responsibility to provide the best environment for their children to grow up.
But what is the "best"?
Is it material abundance?
Is it emotional satisfaction?
Or is it a guarantee of social status?
This is a question that is difficult for even them to define.
Everyone's understanding of "best" is different, and it's like finding an answer that doesn't exist in a multiple-choice question.
Moreover, the responsibility is not only for the child, but also for oneself.
Wang Xiaofei has the responsibility to run her own business, and Big S has the responsibility to maintain her image.
These responsibilities can sometimes conflict with their responsibilities to your child.
How to choose?
It's really a conundrum.
It's like playing a super complex 3D Rubik's Cube, where each turn affects the others.
Speaking of which, I have to sigh: it's really hard to be a parent!
Especially public figures like Wang Xiaofei and Big S, every decision they make has to accept the public's scrutiny.
If you're not careful, you'll be labeled "irresponsible."
It's like they're living in a giant glass house, and every move is magnified and observed.
However, I would like to say that no one can be perfect.
Everyone is doing their best to balance love and responsibility.
We should be understanding and tolerant, not simply judged.
After all, life is not a multiple-choice question with only right or wrong, but an essay full of countless possibilities.
Finally, I want to say to all the parents who are struggling with their families: you are the best!
No matter how you choose to love and be responsible, as long as it comes from the heart, it is the best.
Don't be distracted by outside voices and trust your own judgment.
For Wang Xiaofei and Big S, I really hope they can find a balance.
Perhaps, this balance point is not compromize, but a new family model.
A model that allows children to feel the love of both parties while allowing parents to develop independently.
In short, there is no standard answer in this world.
Every family is unique in its own way.
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