Shaolin warrior monks and Three Gorges Group staff hotel battle for three days and three nights? This is not a martial arts novel, but a marriage farce in real life. The wife claims that her husband cannot provide emotional value, and the husband suspects that she is cheating on her for the sake of property.
If you don't look at the truth in this plot, everyone thinks that they are watching the bridge of "The Legend of Deer and Ding": the wife and the Shaolin monk staged an entanglement in the hotel for three days and three nights, and the husband not only showed no weakness, but directly broke the "plot" on the Internet, pulling the whole incident into the sight of the melon-eating masses. Everyone wondered, how could this story be so dramatic? Wait, the story here is not as simple as "three days and three nights".
First of all, cheating itself is a huge moral blow in marriage, and what is even more bizarre is that the other party is still a Shaolin monk! The image of the Shaolin warrior monk since ancient times, that is an otherworldly, six-root pure "high monk", this time it has become a "marriage killer"? It's a bit ridiculous to listen to. The key is that this warrior monk Yanyun (formerly known as Zhang Yunxiang), who is only 24 years old, also serves as the instructor of the Shaolin Seven Little Heroes. Because of the children's participation in the summer school, the relationship between his wife and the warrior monk quickly warmed up after they met, and finally they stayed in the hotel together for three days and three nights, this kind of detail is simply unthinkable.
But the focus of the matter is not only the "Shaolin warrior monk battle for three days and three nights", from the wife's point of view, the marriage issue seems to be somewhat complicated. The wife said that because her husband was away from home all the year round and could not provide adequate emotional support in life, she felt lonely and neglected for a long time. Emotional value became a "rationalizing reason" for her cheating. The sentence "insufficient emotional value" instantly ignited the discussion of netizens, and everyone began to reflect on whether "emotional value" is more important than material conditions in marriage?
Of course, the husband's side is not to be outdone, and exposing this "shocking story" may not only condemn his wife for morality. Everyone is starting to notice that there is a tug-of-war involving property and child support behind the scenes. According to the revelations, the wife's family conditions are superior, and the couple lives in a third-tier city. Obviously, the husband used this exposure as a "weapon" to fight for property division and child custody. To put it bluntly, behind this drama, it may not be as simple as emotional disputes, but more of a contest between the two parties on how to maximize their interests after the dissolution of the marriage. The wife's cheating is indeed morally untenable, but the husband is not completely innocent, and he moved his marriage farce to the front of the stage, to a large extent, in order to win the right to speak in the distribution of property.
Speaking of Shaolin Temple, the derailment of the warrior monk has dealt a big blow to the image of Shaolin Temple. After all, Shaolin Temple represents one of the cores of Chinese martial arts culture, and the warrior monk should be a "living Buddha" character with a pure heart and few desires. The Shaolin Temple responded quickly, and after verifying the monk's identity, announced his removal and recommended that he be disqualified as a monk. The action of removing the name is as fast as a martial arts move, after all, Shaolin Temple cannot affect its thousand-year-old prestige because of a person's immoral behavior. As a result, netizens began to discuss again whether the warrior monks should also learn "emotional value management".
Let's take a look at this 24-year-old young warrior monk, Yan Yun has been practicing in Shaolin Temple since he was a child, and has been serving as the instructor of the Shaolin Seven Little Heroes, this title seems to add a little "heroic atmosphere" to him. But the hero was sad to pass the beauty pass, and in the end, he was also planted in a marriage dispute. Things have developed to this point, and one can't help but wonder, why did this warrior monk get to where he is today? Many netizens analyzed that Yan Yun was born in a single-parent family, and he may lack stable emotional support during his growth, which makes him more likely to behave out of control in the face of external temptations. was supposed to be a role model for children, but it "overturned" in the emotional vortex of the adult world.
From the experience of the warrior monk Yanyun, we can also realize that the influence of single-parent families on children should not be underestimated. Many psychologists have pointed out that children from single-parent families are prone to emotional deficit in the process of growing up due to the lack of a complete emotional support system, which may be manifested as extreme desire for emotion or unstable behavior patterns in future life. While this does not kill all children from single-parent families, it does require more attention.
Behind this marriage farce, it is not only the emotional dispute between the Shaolin warrior monks and the employees of the Three Gorges Group, but also the importance of emotional value in modern marriage. For many people, marriage is not only about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but also emotional nourishment. And when emotion is missing, practical problems gradually emerge, and a marital dispute eventually becomes a game of interests, emotions become the appearance, and property becomes the core. This can't help but make people think deeply, what does modern marriage rely on to last? Is it really as netizens ridiculed, "emotional value" is the nirvana to maintain marriage?
So in the end, I would like to ask: In marriage, is emotional value really more important than material conditions? Warrior monks have become "emotional mentors", what do you think about this?