#秋日生活打卡季#
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Before, when I encountered something bad, when I was in a bad mood, I always thought about how good it would be if I didn't encounter this thing. Always thinking about how good it would be if you weren't so drilly?
I can't face it when I want to face it, the more I want to face it, the more I want to escape, the more I want to escape, and the more I want to escape, the more entangled and painful it is.
However, when I gradually relaxed my mind, I really found that everything was the best arrangement.
I went downstairs to cook and forgot to take my phone, and after going upstairs I found that I forgot to take the charging cable, so everything was the best arrangement.
The object you want is rich and handsome, but your married husband is an ordinary person, and once upon a time you were sad, but in the relationship between two people, you found that there are some things that money and beauty can't compare, such as your husband's love, respect, and care.
It is true that in this life, when the mentality is relaxed, everything is the best arrangement.
01
The more the trough period, the more relaxed the mentality, everything is extremely Tailai.
Some people say that when I was approaching the college entrance examination, I went to the hospital and had psychological problems.
Before I got sick, I sometimes told my parents that I didn't want to go to school anymore, but in fact, I really wanted to go to school, just because there were some problems and difficulties.
A year in the hospital, it was a terrible year, another long year.
Fully enclosed.
His parents would also buy a lot of snacks and leave them at the custodian aunt, but they rarely came to see him.
At that time, I always couldn't feel the love of my parents, and I was always very willful, one because I was strange, and the other because I didn't fit in.
Because his parents divorced, his mother took him and remarried, so he left his grandmother's house where he had lived for 20 years.
In the past, he might have blamed his mother for being selfish, but now, maybe he won't waste his time on this.
If there was no such low period, maybe I wouldn't be as transparent as I am now.
I used to live in fantasy, but now I am gradually becoming mature.
got married and had children, and life became more and more promising.
So, don't get stuck in the past anymore, the more low the period, the more relaxed, all the roads will not be in vain, everything is the best arrangement.
02
The deeper you love, the more you have to relax your mind in order to be able to protect your true happiness.
Maybe you feel that you love deeply, so many times you will be anxious in advance.
Sometimes it may be a lack of self-confidence, sometimes it may be a fear of losing, and sometimes it may be overthinking.
If this love becomes deeper and deeper, if it becomes more and more heavy, if you don't accept it calmly, if you don't deal with it calmly, it will eventually roll bigger and bigger like a snowball.
What does true happiness look like? True happiness is to gain calmly and lose indifferently.
If a happiness requires you to do your best to be able to grasp it, you need to compromise and lower your posture.
No matter how much you love, don't do this to practice yourself.
Sometimes loss is not necessarily a real loss, maybe you lose the relationship, but in the future relationship, you become more calm, you become more calm.
You slowly understand that you love your neighbor before yourself, and only when you develop yourself first will you meet a better other half.
So in response to that sentence, everything is the best arrangement.
Everyone is always going to transform, what you have experienced, what you have lost, everything that has come back in another way.
03
Life is not easy, but relax your mind, and everything will gradually come ashore.
What is life? If you find it hard and sometimes you want to take a break, you can take a day off, but after a day off you want to take a break the next day and a third day.
So, you can allow yourself to relax once in a while, but also learn to relax.
In short, you must always have a string in the state, and this string will always remind you that it is time for you to work hard, and you should struggle.
In short, you have to go ashore when it's time to go ashore, and you have to go to sea when it's time to go to sea.
Loose and free, relaxed, unhurried, the best mentality.
Three meals a day in life are not easy to come by, we must cherish our own meals, and we must also cherish the current years.
There is no best thing in the world, but there are better times in the world.
Relax your mind, don't force yourself, don't force yourself, you can have coarse tea and light food, you can get by, and you can wake up safely every morning, all of this shows that you are on the right road.
In this life, in fact, we have to fight for a mentality, when our mentality is in the state, everything will bloom.
You will know that everything is arranged for the best.
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Topic of this issue: In this life, the mentality is relaxed, and everything is the best arrangement, do you agree? Welcome to discuss in the comment area.
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