Minimalist living has become a trend. More and more people are starting to do subtraction and pursue the ease and ease of life.
I, a self-proclaimed "minimalist practitioner", have also persevered for two years.
But just a few days ago, a moment that made me "admit defeat" appeared: it turned out that the real minimalist master in the family turned out to be my husband!
When I opened my closet and found that the corner was still full of clothes, his wardrobe was simple and refreshing.
At that moment, I realized that my so-called "minimalist life" was really dwarfed in front of him.
Today, I will take stock with you how this "minimalist cow" realizes the real minimalist life and perfectly combines it with wisdom.
1. Wardrobe management: the secret to doing less
My husband's wardrobe is quite different from that of ordinary people. It is no exaggeration to say that there are only two or three sets of each category - workwear, casual wear and sportswear.
He never hoarded clothes, throwing away old ones and buying new ones when they were broken.
The whole wardrobe is clean and tidy, and there is no such annoyance as "I can't find clothes" or "I can't match too many clothes".
When buying clothes, his principle is also simple and straightforward: buy good quality, don't buy more.
For example, he'd rather spend money on a good formal outfit than stock up on a bunch of casual clothes of average quality.
When I go out, I always take a set of clothes with me and don't bother with it.
If you also feel that you don't know what to wear in the face of a full wardrobe every day, you might as well try his method: less but finer, and change it when it is old, so that you can not only keep it neat, but also keep it fresh at all times.
2. Digital products: following the trend? inexistent
Ever since I was with my husband, I was surprised to find that this person really didn't have much interest in digital products.
Don't look at me I'm still struggling with whether the new mobile phone should be used, my husband here is still using the one he bought the year before last.
It's not that he's reluctant to spend money, it's that he doesn't think it's necessary.
As long as the mobile phone is easy to use and stable for him, it is completely OK, and he doesn't care if it is the trendiest style.
This is something to learn. In this era of rapid electronic product upgrading, we may not really need to follow the trend.
Timely review of actual needs can save a lot of meaningless expenses and hassles. Instead of blindly chasing the trend, spend your money where it really brings value.
3. Household items: chopping hands? Never existed
I can't resist buying extra bottles of shampoo and stocking up on recommended towels when they're on sale.
And my husband's sink still only has the most basic: toothpaste, soap, and nothing else.
His point of view is simple and straightforward – buy it when you run it out, and don't buy it if you can't use it up. Toiletries and daily necessities are controlled at the most basic needs.
In this way, not only does it save space, but it also avoids stockpiling a large number of products that may not be used in the future.
Think about your bathroom cabinet full of conditioners and cleansing masks that are put aside halfway after use, and I really think that "enough is enough" is the wisdom of life.
4. Social Connections: Streamlined Networking Circles
My husband's circle of friends is small but fine, which he attaches great importance to.
Although he doesn't have many friends, each of them is a confidant who can be called at any time.
He often said that socialization is not about quantity but quality, and that too big a circle can be tiring.
Instead of meeting different people every week to maintain a superficial relationship, it is better to meet a few people who really understand you regularly, have a good meal, and talk about nutritious topics.
In modern life, it is all too common for us to be coerced into social interactions and forced to maintain a large number of friends.
It's easier to pick friends in a "minimalist" way like him and keep a few "iron buddies".
5. Hobbies: Minimal and focused
My husband's other "minimalist cheats" are: I don't spread the pie in my hobbies, but only focus on one thing - photography.
From the day I met him, he was always interested in studying photography techniques, sometimes going out all day just to take a beautiful picture.
He is a firm believer in the "10,000-hour rule": focus on a hobby and polish it to true depth. Just looking at his works in the past few years, you can know how solid he has been on this road.
We tend to dabble in many fields and try different hobbies, but in the end, we don't do any of them to the extreme.
Choose 1-2 hobbies that you really like, sink into learning, and you will find that the fun is doubled.
6. Eating habits: simple and healthy, no waste
When it comes to his diet, you may be a little surprised. His lunch is always as simple as ever: white rice, a poached egg, and a few greens. He once said, "The essence of eating is to replenish energy. ”
He pursues simplicity and health, not fancy ways to eat. I often look for a variety of healthy meals to go with, but in the end, I found that his simple meals are a practical and time-saving choice.
In fact, there is no need to put more effort into the pursuit of variety. Maintaining a balanced nutrition and repeating certain healthy meals in moderation has improved the quality of life a lot.
Summary: True minimalism comes from the choice of the heart
After reading these "minimalist life details" of my husband, I have to sigh: this is the real minimalism from the heart.
He never deliberately cleans up his home, nor does he discuss "being minimalist" every day, but every choice he makes quietly keeps life relaxed and orderly.
In fact, minimalist life is not about having as few things as possible, but about mastering the rhythm you want and streamlining the unnecessary.
Let us not be bound by material and external things, so that we can focus more energy on more important things.
If you want to try to "minimalist" step by step, you might want to start with a few key points:
- Reduce and streamline your belongings, leaving only those that are really needed.
- Subtract from your lifestyle and slowly find your own rhythm.
- Be brave enough to say "no" to unnecessary social and trivial matters, and focus on people and things that are worthwhile.
- Live a clean and concise life, and let your heart be freer.
My husband's philosophy of life once again reminds me that minimalism is not about formality, but about obeying one's own heart and returning life to purity and freedom. This is the beautiful pursuit of life.
I hope today's sharing can help you establish your own "minimalist wisdom". Let's go on the road to a relaxed and enjoyable life!