I've seen a sentence like this:
"All the drifting away comes from disappointment again and again, so I consciously pull aside."
Like, whether a man loves you or not, you can see from his reply to your WeChat that your importance to him can also be reflected.
The person who really loves you, he is always the one who responds in seconds, because he knows that you are waiting for his reply, so he will naturally pay attention to it;
The person who doesn't love you, he doesn't care about your mood, he knows that you are on the other side of the screen, waiting for your news, but he still doesn't say a word, pretending not to see it.
When a man replies to your WeChat like this, he actually doesn't love you, don't be stupid!
1. I saw WeChat but didn't reply
I don't know if you've ever encountered such a situation, when you sent him a message full of joy and waited for his reply, you couldn't wait for his message.
When you gave up completely, you turned your head and saw the Moments he posted, you must have been very disappointed at that time, it turned out that he didn't see WeChat, but he saw it but didn't reply.
For a while, Xiao Jin often had this experience, and the original two people also chatted until late, and he often posted some fun things to share with her.
But when Xiaojin sent him a message, it was different again, obviously looking at "the other party is typing", but she didn't receive a message for a long time, she thought that the other party was busy, but she swiped the news of him and other members of the opposite sex eating hot pot.
If you encounter this situation, don't expect anything from him, most likely he doesn't love you, so he will ignore your message and feel that it doesn't matter.
A person who truly loves you will take your message very seriously, he will not see it but pretend not to see it, but will reply seriously and will not let you down.
Second, the reply to the message is very perfunctory
A reader left a message in the background, saying:
I don't know what's going on lately, I feel like he's getting less and less concerned, and every time he replies to a message, he just cherishes words like gold, which makes me suspect that he didn't read WeChat at all.
I asked him what he was doing, and he replied with a "yes", and when I asked him to pay attention to his body, he would just reply with an "oh", and then I didn't know how to answer.
In fact, the other party's reply is obviously a signal of dislove, he is not silent is golden, but feels that there is no point in saying more, just a few perfunctory words and it will be over.
Like a person, it's a run to meet, and the reply to the message is a second reply, where can it be such a perfunctory "um" and "oh", which makes people feel less sincere.
When he has always had this attitude, then you should be prepared to give up, and stop wasting time by people who don't deserve it for too long.
3. There is no news after I finish talking about it
If a person cares about you, even in between brushing your teeth, he will send you a message saying "I miss you";
People who don't care about you, he usually disappears after saying that he is busy, and he doesn't even bother to say it in a hurry, and he disappears without a trace.
So, when you meet a person, after he says he's busy, and you send any more messages, and he doesn't reply, then don't look forward to it, how can you be so busy, it's just that you don't want to reply.
After all, if he wants to reply, he can continue to talk to you after he is done, even if this time span is already the next day, he will not ignore your messages.
In this matter, what matters is his attitude, how important you are in his heart, and in the eyes of those who love you, all busyness is an excuse.
In modern society, everyone can't do without their mobile phones, and from the process of replying to messages, you can also see a person's mind.
If you understand from the chat message early on that he doesn't have you in his heart, then don't try harder, it will only be more sad and funny.
What you can do is to let go and find your true love, only if you are brave enough to say goodbye to the wrong person, will you have a chance to meet the right person.