Not all relationships can have a happy ending, it depends on what kind of person you meet.
If you meet a man, he often plays missing, no matter if you send a message or call, he doesn't have any news, you don't have to worry about him, he just doesn't want to contact you.
Sometimes, you can't see this clearly, always thinking that his disconnection is a last resort, and it is just inconvenient for him not to contact, and most of the time, this is just your wishful thinking.
In fact, a man is cut off from you, no need to call, no need to send WeChat, he hides such thoughts!
1. He wants to force you to leave voluntarily
Some men are just very cold and ruthless, and when he no longer loves you, he will be cold and violent to you, and he doesn't care about your mood at all.
He doesn't want to contact you anymore, but he wants to escape the relationship and force you to leave in this way, but he ignores your feelings?
After all, as long as he doesn't propose to break up, he is not the "fault party", if you can't stand it and bring it up first, it means that you took the initiative to make a choice, and it has nothing to do with him.
My friend Ye Zi just ended a relationship, it was she who proposed to break up, the other party often cut off contact with her, you can't find anyone if you want to find it, Ye Zi finally couldn't stand it, and directly proposed to break up.
originally thought that the other party would restrain herself, or want to keep it, but she was still persuading herself not to be soft-hearted and not to go back.
However, this was just her personal thought, and the other party was indifferent at all, just pretending to be reluctant, and then left without looking back, and even deleted WeChat.
This also made Ye Zi understand that his disconnection was to force himself to leave, and he saw his true face, but he was not so sad.
2. He doesn't have you in his heart
A man is willing to cut ties with you because he doesn't have you in his heart, but if he thinks a little about you, he won't do it.
In his opinion, you are a dispensable existence, he will be with you if he is willing, the two of them will talk and laugh, without pressure, and he will not care about your feelings.
When he doesn't want to continue, he won't even say a word of goodbye, he will disappear without a trace, and you won't be able to contact him if you want to, and you won't know where he is.
To put it bluntly, he is selfish and irresponsible, no matter whether he has you in his heart or not, he should not walk away, at least he must explain clearly what is going on, and don't leave you alone to think nonsense.
And he left straight away like this, and he didn't say anything about breaking up, or when he would come back, so you don't believe his sweet words before, and be brave enough to leave him.
3. He wants to test your true thoughts
There is also a situation where he is insecure and fears that you will leave him one day, so he will often disconnect from touch to test your true thoughts.
Although it is said that he does this because he loves you too much, everything must be done in moderation, it is okay for him to disconnect once or twice, and in the long run, it will also affect each other's feelings.
After all, the most important thing in a relationship is sincerity, and if you try it at every turn, it will only disappoint the other party, and even chill your heart, and slowly you don't want to love anymore.
In "Reluctant to Star", Jiang Shiyan is sometimes very naïve, he wants to make the other party anxious by not contacting the other party, and test her true thoughts.
But he was reluctant to really ignore her, and after a few days, he began to take the initiative again, and he didn't care about the previous gains and losses.
And if the person you meet has been waiting for you to take the initiative to coax him, regardless of your mood, then you still have to think about this relationship and whether to continue.
A person will not cut off contact with you for no reason, if he chooses this way, there must be his reasons.
Either way, it shows that in his heart, you are not important, otherwise, he would not be willing to cut off contact with you for a long time, let alone worry about you.
Therefore, when you can't feel his sincerity and understand his dislove, don't expect anything more, but turn around in style and look for someone more suitable for you.