Something worse than a young man not getting married has happened, do you know what it is?
In today's society, today's young people, with simple ideas, want to live a free, carefree, and stress-free life.
Their group of young people are used to being free and easy, where do they still have the heart to get married and have children? The more they lived, the more transparent they became.
They know that getting married and having children is not a simple thing, there is a mess in the back, and troublesome things will follow, how good it is not to get married and not have children, a person lives an unrestrained, free and romantic life, and the whole family is not hungry when one person eats enough.
But what's worse than young people not getting married, you know what? I have such people around me.
My cousin is 40 years old this year, and he is still single, and his parents are worried about his life's events, so they go everywhere to hire matchmakers and find him a girlfriend.
In this regard, his parents also spent a lot of money, but what about him, as soon as he said that he was going to see his girlfriend, he was angry, and he was unhappy in his heart, and said that he was in charge of his own affairs, and he didn't have to worry about his parents, and his parents didn't appreciate it when they did so much? It's really hard for parents all over the world.
When it came to getting married, my cousin shook his head, saying that there were too many things after getting married, and he didn't want to revolve around firewood, rice, oil and salt every day.
If you are married, the house is indispensable, the mortgage is not to eat or drink, every month is indispensable, and the education and medical care of the children, the key is that the mortgage is not repaid in a few years, and some have to be repaid for twenty or thirty years.
Afraid of losing your job, not daring to ask for leave, even if you can't sleep well at night, such days are not days, but decades, and you are afraid to think about it.
If you don't have the ability to take on these responsibilities and obligations, you simply don't get married, and you can live a leisurely, carefree, and relaxed life.
Second, there is also a change in their attitude towards life, no longer pursuing material things, and there is a kind of mentality of getting by, being a monk for a day and hitting the clock for a day, and living a good life.
If they say that the monthly salary is 10,000 yuan, they can use it up, and 3,000 yuan a month is enough, and it doesn't matter what they eat or what they use.
If you have something delicious, you can eat a little, and if you don't have a delicious food, you can eat a little, and the same is true for use, no longer pursuing those high-end cosmetics, you can have a simple mask, skin cream.
Boys no longer pursue houses, tickets, and some directly lie flat at home to play games, except for games or games, there is no self-motivation at all.
Not wanting to pursue a better life, being content with the status quo, and getting by, is a terrible state of low desire.
But then again, life is really stressful now, but as long as we have positive goals and pursuits, life will slowly change for the better.
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