Recently, many parents have begun to "anti-involution", and their slogan has become "as long as the child is healthy, the grades don't matter". This phenomenon has sparked a wide discussion about why parents who once valued grades so much now choose such a relaxed attitude.
First of all, the pressure of involution makes many families feel tired. We all know that education is very competitive, and children are surrounded by all kinds of comparisons, exams, and extracurricular tutoring from an early age. As a result, parents work overtime and register for classes for the sake of their children's future, and almost all their time and energy are pressed on their children's learning. This high-pressure family environment not only makes children breathless, but also makes parents feel anxious and exhausted.
As a result, some parents began to reflect: Is such an effort really worth it? Does the child have to be under so much pressure to do it? A growing number of voices are recognizing that healthy physical and mental development is more important than academic performance alone. After all, children's happiness and health are the most basic pursuits, and too high expectations can be counterproductive.
In addition, in the face of changes in today's society, many parents have gradually realized that grades are not the only factor that determines success. With the development of the Internet, career options have become more diverse, and many successful people may not have excelled in school. Therefore, parents have begun to pay attention to their children's interests and strengths, hoping that they can find their passion, not just live for exams.
Of course, choosing to "lie flat" does not mean abdicating responsibility. Parents who are anti-involution still hope that their children can achieve something, but they pay more attention to the experience and growth in the process. They are willing to give their children more freedom, give them the opportunity to try different things, and develop the ability to think independently.
This shift reflects a re-examination of the concept of education in society. Perhaps, in the future, we will see a more humane way of education, which can not only ensure the healthy growth of children, but also achieve all-round development.
Dear readers, what do you think of this phenomenon? Do you support this "lie flat" attitude, or do you think you should continue to work hard? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section!