Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Yishu said: "Feelings are such a thing, it is unreasonable, to fall in love with a person, the body is not up to the Lord, and the heart is not up to the Lord." ”
I really love someone, and I always want to give him all the best things in the world.
After getting married, a man treats his wife really well, he will keep her in his heart, accommodate her in everything, and obey her.
Because he loves her deeply enough, he is willing to take her as the center and give her a preference.
A good man who really feels sorry for his wife will have a performance: obedience to you.
02. When you disagree, you are willing to obey
In the TV series "The Story of the Willow Boat", the lady of the He family is an independent woman who loves to run a business, and she and Zhao Quan, the Hou of Zhennan, gradually developed a relationship.
After the wife of the He family developed feelings for Zhao Quan, Zhao Quan's mother hoped that they would get married as soon as possible.
As the Hou Ye, Zhao Quan naturally wanted to get married early, but the lady of the He family said that she had to stabilize her career first.
The two disagreed on marriage, but Zhao Quan, as the Hou Ye, did not use his power to force her to marry him as soon as possible.
Instead, he was willing to turn over and cross the ridge with her to find porcelain clay, willing to wait for her and obey her.
A man who really feels sorry for his wife can fully respect her when he is with a woman.
When two people disagree, he never loses his temper at will, or forces women to obey him.
He is willing to obey her wishes, is willing to wait patiently, is willing to accompany her crazy, and accompany her to make trouble.
Women, a man really loves you enough, he will listen to you when he disagrees with you, and is willing to compromise for you.
03. In front of outsiders, I am willing to obey you
A man who really loves his wife is humble in front of you, and he will be a little afraid of you.
This humility, this fear, does not mean that he is weaker than you.
It's because he puts you in the most important place in your life.
He is afraid that you will be angry, that he will not do well and that he will not be able to give you happiness, and that he will turn away from you.
So in life, he is willing to coax you, accommodate you, and obey you with a humble attitude. Even in front of everyone, he never lost face because he was afraid of you.
He is not afraid of others ridiculing him for being "afraid of guilt", and he is not afraid of others saying that he is a strict wife.
"The Best of Us" interprets the feeling of loving someone: "I have always felt that being alone is nothing, and when I see you again, I feel that it is better for two people to have time." ”
A man really loves you, and in front of outsiders, he will take care of you and spoil you with his heart.
He will show others that he cares about you. In this way, no one will dare to snub you and disrespect you.
04. Obey your wishes in the affairs of your family
A man who loves his wife, he will have one heart with his wife and run a good family together.
He is willing to discuss any decision made at home and listen to his wife's opinion.
Whenever a decision needs to be made at home, men are willing to be patient, communicate patiently with women, and even put the decision-making power in the hands of women.
In a man's heart, he trusts her enough, and she is important enough.
The home needs to be decorated, and he obeys the woman's wishes in everything, and is willing to create a family environment she likes for her.
During the holidays, whether the family goes to her mother-in-law's house or goes back to her mother's house, the man is willing to let the woman make the decision.
How to educate children, men will also listen to women's opinions attentively and then cooperate with him.
A man who really loves you, he will put you in his heart, put you on the tip of his heart, and spoil you with his heart.
He is willing to listen to your advice and obey your wishes in any matter and decision-making at home.
05. Summary
On the road of life, it is a kind of fate for a man and a woman to be able to fall in love with each other.
When a woman meets a husband who truly loves you, she must cherish it with her heart and repay his love with her heart.
The book says: "People feel warm when they help each other; things, work together to know simple; The road is not long until someone walks with you; Love, to remember each other to appreciate the deep feelings. ”
Two-way love is the warmest and most stable relationship.
If you take care of each other and spoil each other, your marriage will be stronger.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.