How do you live in retirement when you don't live in vain?
The 16 Guidelines for Post-Retirement provides the answer.
We live under the same sky, experiencing similar human feelings and warmth, the encounters may be different, but the emotions are generally the same, and most people's experiences are always worth learning from and referring to.
People who are about to retire or have retired, even if they only learn the eight rules, can still live comfortably, chicly, and dignified in their old age!
Let's take a look at the 16 of them!
1
Do not ask your children for anything in return
Having children is one of our life obligations. Don't expect them to give back the same way you do to your children.
The pay and return are not proportional, only the hearts of parents in the world. The lamb is still sucking your milk, and it can't feed you. Be sure to save some milk to feed yourself.
2
Pension is fundamentally on one's own
At present, there are a variety of pension methods in society, such as old couples, new partners, children, relatives, nannies, organizations, society, etc., and the results of the analysis are fundamentally dependent on themselves.
Keep your wife, old book, old nest and old friends, and at the same time have your own interests and pursuits, so that your old life will be colorful.
3
Enjoy it early
Life is just a few decades, and I finally came to this world, I don't borrow anyone's, I don't owe anyone, I spend as much as I earn, why do I have to suffer and endure myself?
When your teeth are good, your legs are good, and your body is okay, while you are not deaf or dumb, your thinking is still clear, taste the delicious food in the world, take a look at the great rivers and mountains, walk around and turn around, and it will not be in vain in the next life.
Today has passed, there will be no more, and we should cherish every day of our lives. After eating and drinking, the day is worth it, and I don't regret it!
4
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren
Don't go to the life of your children, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, they are their whole life, the road is for them to go, those who should let go must let go, let them be independent, you can let go of the burden.
Don't be sad that you can't sleep for some things for your child, that is, you don't eat or sleep, things still exist, there will be no river that can't be crossed, the sky is hungry and the world is not dead, don't worry about salty radishes.
5
Develop a hobby
Develop an interest while you are young, prepare for the old empty nest, and wait for the child to leave the house, so that you will not be in a daze looking at the wall all day long.
Without your own spiritual sustenance, the idiot will look for you, which is inevitable.
6
Feel sorry for yourself
At the same time, I feel sorry for myself while feeling sorry for my children, no matter how filial the children are, you have to suffer from a cold and fever, and no one can replace you.
You think that children are the meat that fell from you, but they will never think that you are the meat that fell from them, those are two concepts.
When I was young, I didn't catch up with the good times, my life was difficult, and I couldn't afford to eat or wear, but now that I have the conditions, I am reluctant to eat and wear, and I am too confused.
7
Be willing to spend money on yourself
If you should spend a piece for yourself, you will never spend eight cents. Your consumption in the second half of your life is limited, and there is no need to be stingy with yourself.
No matter how much you save no one to set up a memorial arch for you, you will only suffer yourself.
8
Don't compare, don't care
After retirement, don't compare, don't compare, most of your life has passed, everything is a floating cloud, your existence is the best, and you can't take up a meter or two of space if you stretch your legs and feet.
To be content and happy is to be in the present moment, to reduce and suppress one's desires.
Entering old age, looking at the mountains is the mountains, and the water is the water, there is nothing particularly unusual.
9
Free yourself and enjoy the joy
Find one or two close friends, relax yourself, say what you should say, sing when you should sing, release some of your depression, and enjoy your joy together.
No one can restrain your spirit, so why not?
The reserve of youth can be swept away, and only the great relaxation of the spirit is the only magic weapon for the normal functioning of your body.
10
Don't brace hard
Even if it is a donkey, it has to rest after a long time. When you reach a certain age, you don't have to do anything.
When the rope breaks, there is a problem in the thinnest place, and if you feel uncomfortable, you either rest or find a doctor, and never insist.
11
Go with the flow
More than half of the road of life has passed, and everything is commonplace, and the concept of truth is sometimes not necessarily determined by many people, and there is no need to fight for the top and bottom.
The edges and corners of the grinding have been grinded away, and it has come to the time when it is not good to catch you, and then let people grab your handle, then you are really stupid.
When people are old, they are not sleek, they are relieved, they are not scheming, they are old, and they are at peace with what they encounter.
12
Taking tonic medicine is not as good as eating three meals a day
Don't believe in those health tricks, what tonic you eat is not as good as arranging three meals a day, sour and hot to find your own feelings, and you can't let others have the final say.
You have any natural laws of animals, and it is not necessary to take medicine to be immortal, and to spend money on unnecessary places, it is better to eat more delicious food and end up with a good mouth.
13
Keep exercising
Any exercise is gradual, and when you get old, exercise is a relatively recreational thing, with a certain recreational nature, and it should be consumed appropriately.
Don't think that you can still compete with young people, and you are the last to lie down, then the gains outweigh the losses.
14
Try not to get angry
Qi is a tiger, scratching the liver and hurting the stomach, only when it is a fart, it is comfortable!
There are "four evils" of anger: blood pressure becomes high, blood lipids become thicker, blood color turns purple, and blood vessels become thinner. It may also cause cerebral congestion and myocardial infarction. So, don't get angry.
Don't take some things to heart, when you are old, you have to have a bit of hob spirit, not afraid to speak, not afraid to discuss, not afraid to chew your tongue behind your back. Let them go, I'm still me, happy and happy!
15
Have your own credo for life
A hundred years of life is just a process, good and bad know yourself, and if you want to be chic, you must have your own life creed.
Not being moved by others, living easily and naturally is the wonderful path of your life.
16
Happiness always comes first
Life is short, just be happy. The most important thing for people is to be happy, learn to be tolerant, and not care.
Forget fame and fortune, forget grievances, forget troubles. Be kind to others, don't expect anything in return, and find happiness.
Keep a young mindset and work hard in the first half of your life in exchange for a happy life in the second half of your life. Enjoy it and don't waste your time.
As the saying goes: one day away, one day less; Live a day, enjoy a day; Earn a day of fun!
After retirement, life is not in vain.
This good article, tell it to yourself, and give it to your friends!
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