How many girls find out that their boyfriends are conservative when they are in a relationship? Does this "protection" suffocate us? Let's take a look at the real stories of netizens and talk about this unspeakable distress together.
Recently, I saw a topic on the Internet where many girls are sharing their boyfriends' "conservative" performance, which reminds me of the stories around me. What is it like to be conservative with a boyfriend? This is not only a difference in lifestyle, but also an emotional barrier. The editor will also talk about this topic and see if any friends have the same experience as me.
At a party, my friend Xiaoli and I complained about her boyfriend, Cuong. Cuong is an honest man, works hard, and is very good to Xiaoli. But in some things, his degree of conservatism is really laughable. For example, Xiaoli wanted to ask him to see a modern art exhibition, but Ah Qiang looked embarrassed, saying that "I don't understand these works of art at all", and insisted on going to see the tall ancient art exhibition.
Xiaoli said helplessly: "I'm not here to watch those boring things!" I just want to enjoy life with him! This feeling makes people's hearts a little sour to listen to it. Many times, a conservative boyfriend may not be disliking to experiment, but rather being too sensitive to something new.
also has a friend Xiaomei, and her boyfriend Xiao Zhou is also a typical conservative. Xiaomei likes to chase dramas, and new episodes will be launched every night, but Xiao Zhou is only willing to watch the classic dramas they watched in junior high school. Every time Xiaomei tries to recommend some new dramas, Xiao Zhou always shakes his head like an old man, on the grounds that "these young people's dramas have no depth".
In Xiaomei's eyes, this is really too boring. She quipped: "In this day and age, it's not fashionable to be 'awkward', so why don't you dare to try something new?" Sometimes, a conservative boyfriend is like a time bomb that can detonate the conflict between the two at any time because of a small suggestion.
Through these stories, it is not difficult to find that conservative boyfriends often make girls feel suffocated. Whether it's lifestyle habits, hobbies, or attitudes toward emotions, a conservative personality can lead to a lot of unnecessary friction. Some people even joked on the Internet: "My boyfriend is too conservative, I'm about to become an 'adventurer'!" ”
In the face of such a boyfriend, many girls will try their best to change him. It's like Xiaoli once tried to take Cuong to some parties to make him relax, but Cuong always kept a serious look. Xiaoli recalled that experience and couldn't help but smile: "I really doubt that he will be frightened by something when he enters the party." ”
Look at Xiaomei again, she once encouraged Xiao Zhou to change his hairstyle, but she didn't expect Xiao Zhou to refuse very resolutely, saying that his hairstyle has been used for ten years, why should he change it? Xiaomei couldn't help but feel helpless in her heart: "I just want him to look cooler, can't he try it?" ”
From these short stories, we can clearly feel that the complaints of users not only come from the lack of understanding of the conservative boyfriend, but also the helplessness of his stubborn views. In the face of such a situation, many girls choose to forbear and compromise, and some even begin to adjust themselves, hoping to adapt to their boyfriend's lifestyle.
Of course, a conservative personality also has some advantages, such as boyfriends are usually more reliable and take feelings relatively seriously. But this kind of seriousness often makes girls feel that they lack passion, and the dullness day after day is easy to make the relationship fatigue. Xiaoli and Xiaomei are beginning to realize this, and they are constantly thinking about how to adjust the way they get along.
On the Internet, everyone shared their stories and found that "conservative" is not an isolated phenomenon, and many netizens have similar experiences. Some girls began to take the initiative to communicate, trying to understand their boyfriend's thoughts; Others choose to gradually accept and accommodate, and strive to find common interests. In fact, love is a process of running-in between the two parties, conservative does not mean that it cannot be changed, the key lies in the efforts of both parties.
One netizen wrote: "My boyfriend is quite old-fashioned at times, but I believe that he will slowly become cheerful. "Such an attitude is clearly positive. In fact, in the journey of love, whether conservative or open, understanding and tolerance between each other are the most important. Everyone has their own rhythm of life, and adapting to and supporting each other's growth is the only way to make the relationship stronger.
At the end, I would like to say that in the face of boyfriend's conservatism, sometimes what we need is not to force change, but to guide patiently. In life, let the other person see the charm of new things, and at the same time respect their way of life. It is through mutual tolerance and understanding that we can find true understanding in this journey.
Have you had a similar experience? Or are you the other half of that "conservative"? Feel free to share your story in the comment section and let's talk about this topic together. In the world of love, there will always be warmth and touching, and I look forward to the continuation of every story!
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