A small first-grade girl was beaten by eight classmates and bled from the mouth. The child cried and said that he was going to drop out of school, and he was blocked from looking for a teacher. Fortunately, my father recorded the video in time, otherwise I don't know if this matter can be exposed. Is this a school or a battlefield?
To be honest, when I heard the news, the first reaction in my mind was: Are these children who beat people have a problem with their brains? The little boy in the first grade, where did he get so angry? Besides, eight to one, this is too shameless! If I were that girl's mom and dad, I'd have to make a mess of the school.
The responsibility of the school, can't be shirked or can't be shaken off?
Let's talk about the school first. It stands to reason that when the child is in school, that is the responsibility of the school. But now? A girl is beaten like this, what are the teachers doing? Do you really not know, or do you pretend not to know? Let me say that the management of this school is too loose.
I heard that this happened in Jinzhong, Shanxi, are all the schools over there like this? But then again, there are now endless incidents of school bullying across the country. Some schools even protect their shortcomings, for fear of affecting the reputation of the school. I wondered, do you think it's okay to hide your reputation and not talk about it? Isn't this a cover-up?
Besides, if this kind of thing is not handled well, then it will really affect the reputation. Look at how fierce those people on the Internet are. I guess the principal of this school must be anxious now, being scolded by the top and parents every day, and he may not even be able to sleep well.
Who will calm the anger of parents?
Speaking of which, I have to admire that girl's father. When this kind of thing happened, he didn't go up and fight with the school, but calmly recorded a video and called the police. This operation is simply textbook-level!
But I can also understand the parents who are so angry. My own child is bullied like this at school, who is not in a hurry? Some parents may rush straight to school and get into a fight with the parents who hit their children. But does this really solve the problem?
I think parents should be calmer. After all, fighting won't solve the problem, but it can make things worse. However, the school and the relevant departments also have to give an explanation to the parents. You can't just leave it at that, right?
The voice of netizens, is it justice or violence?
Speaking of which, this thing is a fryer on the Internet. I saw that many netizens were shouting that they would severely punish those children who beat people. Some even said they were going to jail or be expelled from school.
To be honest, I sympathize with the girl who was beaten. However, those children who beat people are still young after all, should they really use such heavy means? I always think that they may also be spoiled by their families, or have some psychological problems.
But then again, if you don't punish it severely, will more children follow suit in the future? It's a real dilemma. I don't think the experts can come up with a reason.
The shadow of bullying, how to dispel it?
To be honest, I was most worried about the girl who was beaten. Experiencing this kind of thing at such a young age, will it leave a psychological shadow in the future? I've heard that some children who are bullied may become autistic and even suicidal. That's terrible, isn't it?
Schools and parents alike need to take this issue seriously. It is not enough to punish the children who hit others, but more importantly, to help the victims get out of the haze. You may need to see a psychologist for counseling. However, many schools don't even have a psychological counseling room.
My two words
At the end of the day, the problem of school bullying cannot be solved overnight. Schools, parents, society, all aspects have to work hard. However, I think the most important thing is to cultivate empathy in children from an early age. Let them understand that by hurting others, they are hurting themselves.
But then again, the social pressure is so great nowadays that even adults often can't control their emotions, let alone children. Alas, this matter is really complicated the more I think about it. I only hope that the girl who was beaten can come out of the haze and find happiness again as soon as possible. After all, childhood is supposed to be carefree, isn't it?
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