Text/Flying Fish
In fact, every parent hopes that their daughter can marry a good family, be able to marry the right person, have a happy marriage, be pampered by the other party, feel distressed, and cherish it.
A good marriage will actually make people's lives more colorful, and a bad marriage will also affect the trajectory of their lives.
As parents, those who have daughters are actually more worried about their daughter's marriage, for fear that their daughter will marry into someone else's family and be wronged.
Therefore, please tell your daughter that when you find a partner to marry, you should be cautious, and see clearly whether a man's personality is worth it, if a man can't give these three things, no matter how rich he is, don't marry, this is a vision.
One
Men who are not self-motivated and do not do their jobs should not marry.
When you choose to marry the other party, you still have to see whether the other party has the ability to support a family, whether it has the ability to give you a good living condition, and is responsible for the family and future children.
If a man is not self-motivated, does not do his job all day long, only cares about playing games, eating, drinking and having fun, everything depends on you, and if he does not work, he will only spend your money, such a man cannot marry, even if the other party is very handsome, he cannot be eaten, and he has the ability to support his family, achieve economic independence, and have a self-motivated and planned man, who has the ability to give you and your future children a good family.
Otherwise, insisting on marrying an unmotivated man, doing nothing all day, and having a hard time for you to eat in the future, whenever something happens, you can't count on a man, which is the saddest.
Two
A man without a good character is terrible.
If you have a daughter, please tell her that when looking for a partner, you must keep your eyes open, don't look for a man with a bad character, first of all, you must look at the other party's character, and if you have a bad character, you must decisively refuse.
A man with a bad character will not respect you, will not feel sorry for you, will not think about you, will only care about himself, will not care about your hard work, and will not understand your difficulty, once the mood is not good, unstable, will lose his temper with you, and even yell at you, do it to you, very terrible.
A person with good character will naturally tolerate you, respect you, understand you, and live with such a man to be happy.
A good marriage means that someone can respect you, tolerate your strengths and weaknesses, understand your efforts, cherish everything you have, support your choices, will not try to control you, calculate you, and will be sincere to you.
Three
A man who has no assertiveness and will only shirk responsibility can't be wanted.
remembered that Mai Chenghuan and her boyfriend Xin Jialiang in "The Story of Cheng Huan" had already reached the stage of getting married, but when they were talking about marriage, the man had no opinion at all, everything was arranged by his family, and he would not think about Cheng Huan at all, but when he encountered something, the man did not stand up to defend Cheng Huan, and even shirked the responsibility to Cheng Huan, feeling that it was Cheng Huan's fault, which completely disappointed Cheng Huan, and completely saw that Xin Jialiang was unreliable and a person who slipped his shoulders.
Therefore, in the face of such a man who can't do anything, everything has to rely on the arrangement of his parents, and the man whose parents are the masters, he will only evade and shirk his responsibilities when he encounters trouble, and he is unreliable, and he can't marry such a man, even if the other party's family is very rich, you will not be happy.
Please tell your daughter that when choosing a partner, when looking for a partner to marry, you must choose carefully, don't compromise, can't be in a hurry and casual, rather lack than abuse, only if you marry the right person, marriage is happy.
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