The 44-year-old man couldn't help but collapse, lying on his stomach in the kennel and crying, in people's perception, this should have suffered a major blow in his life.
It is true that at the age of 44, he still has no wife and children, and 3 girlfriends have left him.
The root cause of all this is not himself, but his biological mother who has been involved in his entire life. Even so, his mother threatened: "I know about every relationship he has, but I will interfere with it." ”
Why does a mother keep breaking up her son's marriage?
Is it love or sickness
In 1998, Zhu Yuchen was admitted to the performance department of the Central Academy of Drama, and when he was full of joy and ready to welcome a new life, his mother directly poured cold water on him.
On the day of school, Zhu Yuchen came to the dormitory with his luggage, and his mother said that she was not worried about him, so she came to the college with him.
He originally thought that he was an adult, and his mother should be able to rest assured, so Zhu Yuchen, like other classmates, took his luggage and began to make the bed.
Who would have thought that after my mother saw it, in front of the five classmates in the dormitory, she rushed over in a panic and said that he would let it go, and his mother would do it.
Zhu Yuchen felt that the air in the dormitory was still. You know, no one will be an adult and their parents will not be separated.
But Zhu Yuchen just watched his mother's busy figure and went to pack up other things by himself. After my mother finished making the bed, she saw a classmate in the dormitory and suddenly asked them if they were snoring when they slept.
The meaning is obvious: don't make noise to your own son when you snore.
After some operation, no matter what Zhu Yuchen is, almost all the students respect him. But this is not the end, after the daily necessities were packed up, Zhu's mother stared at the creeper outside the wall again.
Creepers are very common, when creepers are everywhere, the whole house is full of life from a distance, and it is also a great scenery, but Zhu's mother feels that this creeper will definitely attract a lot of insects, what if you climb to the dormitory.
In order to completely solve this problem, Zhu's mother thought that pouring a basin of boiling water should be able to scald the creeper to death. When she said this idea, Zhu Yuchen finally refused, and Zhu's mother gave up.
However, this incident not only left a deep impression on his classmates, but Zhu Yuchen also felt extremely suffocated. He has been living in his mother's meticulous care for 19 years.
Zhu Yuchen is the only son in the family, and he also has an older sister, but his mother is far less interested in his sister than he is, but he is the only one who has been really held in his hand by his mother since he was a child, and he is afraid of melting in his mouth.
Regarding Zhu Yuchen's affairs, Zhu's mother put it in the most important position. She sent her children to the best school within her ability, and also strictly controlled the time when Zhu Yuchen went to and from school, and once there was an error, she would worry about nagging, saying that Zhu Yuchen was bullied or something.
Although Zhu Yuchen hated this feeling, children of the same age also laughed at him intentionally or unintentionally, and he couldn't change his mother's behavior, from not wanting to resist to not daring to resisting.
After Zhu Yuchen entered puberty, his mother also specially inquired about the information and made various soups to nourish the body. Under the terrifying control of his mother, Zhu Yuchen lived for 19 years, and then he was admitted to university, thinking that he was an adult and could finally escape from his mother, he found that things were far from being as simple as he imagined.
His mother was reluctant to leave, so she rented a house near the school to take care of him, no matter what he ate or lived, Zhu Yuchen didn't have to worry, because his mother would take care of everything.
However, even if his mother is excessive, she only interferes in her own life, and for feelings, Zhu Yuchen thinks that her mother should not interfere, but he is wrong.
Three relationships ended without a problem
He and Tang Wei had already met and fallen in love before the college entrance examination. It's just that he was admitted to Chinese opera in the second year, and Tang Wei lost again.
However, the relationship between the two is still very sweet, Tang Wei even rented a 300 yuan house near the Chinese opera, and the two spent a period of time together.
However, after Zhu Yuchen's mother heard about it, she immediately killed her head and face, and finally before Tang Wei took the third college entrance examination, the two had a big quarrel and broke up.
Since then, Zhu Yuchen has lost his mind of falling in love, and it was not until filming that Zhu Yuchen met Huo Siyan, and his second relationship officially began.
Huo Siyan is very gentle, she has the innocence of a little woman, the characteristics of a good wife and mother, and more importantly, Zhu Yuchen has the idea of getting married.
So Zhu Yuchen arranged for his mother to meet Huo Siyan, and the atmosphere of the three of them was very pleasant, until her mother heard that Huo Siyan couldn't cook, and seeing that her behavior couldn't take care of her son, Zhu's mother felt dissatisfied again.
In his mother's thoughts, the person Zhu Yuchen wants to marry must be a good wife and mother, as long as he can treat himself like this. For example, no matter where he goes, Zhu Yuchen can eat the meals he cooks by himself, take care of everything in his life, and pay attention to everything everywhere.
After a meal, Huo Siyan also understood, so Zhu Yuchen's feelings ended without a problem, and later Huo Siyan made it clear in a show that she could not meet Zhu Yuchen's mother's requirements, because she wanted to marry a new mother for her son, not a lover.
Zhu Yuchen is dead set now, he still has to work with peace of mind, before he meets a person who can meet his mother's requirements, his marriage is afraid that it will be no fun.
After a long window period, in 2012, Zhu Yuchen met Jiang Yan. Jiang Yan is a very good girl, she is beautiful, she can cook, and she often shares the food she makes with the rest of the crew, Zhu Yuchen has a good impression of her, and the two fall in love with each other, and sparks again.
This time, my mother must have no reason to object, right? So Zhu Yuchen arranged for his mother to meet Jiang Yan, but the first time she saw Jiang Yan, Zhu's mother's face turned black directly.
Because Jiang Yan was dressed too revealingly, Zhu's mother said that women should be dignified and not dress so revealingly outside. So the ending of this relationship can be imagined, and the two still blew it.
And it is becoming more and more difficult for her mother to control her desire to control, she will follow the crew, take food and drink, and even insist on making up for Zhu Yuchen's body despite the star's desire to maintain her figure.
Pear juice began to boil at four o'clock in the morning, and Zhu Yuchen's mother persisted for ten years. When it comes to martial arts scenes, Zhu Yuchen's character was beaten, and his mother begged him not to accept it; When she was on the show, Zhu Yuchen's mother bluntly said that she knew every relationship of Zhu Yuchen, but she must interfere, because women should be good wives and mothers, and when they arrive at this family, they should take on that responsibility.
For more than 40 years, Zhu Yuchen couldn't escape this life at all, because his mother had been tightly tied to him, and because of this, Zhu Yuchen had not been married until now, and Zhu Yuchen's sister also suffered from marital phobia because of her mother's sick love.
Write at the end
We can't judge how life is and how feelings are, but after Zhu Yuchen's mother's words were exposed, they instantly caused a discussion on the Internet, and many people felt that this kind of love was too terrifying, and the mother should not interfere in her son's life so much; Some people also think that Zhu Yuchen should do something, otherwise there will be no change in the next relationship.
What do you think in front of the screen? Feel free to discuss in the comment section.
Sources of information:
Observer.com: "Women should be good wives and mothers" The actor's mother's words sparked heated discussions
Upstream news: Zhu Yuchen's mother's "theory of good wives and good mothers" is on fire Emotional expert: Fortunately, Tang Wei didn't marry him
Minnan Net: "My Boy" Zhu Yuchen's mother's "Theory of Good Wife and Good Mother" stunned netizens