Running was originally a healthy and positive exercise, but in some people's concept of running, they gradually practiced running as "crazy", and even ignored their homes!
This is what happened in Mr. Zhang's home in Jiangsu, he is 47 years old this year, because he loves running, so he changed into running shoes and went to Xuanwu Lake to run every day after work.
But in the eyes of his wife, he is an extremely selfish person, because since he fell in love with running, he rarely cares about family affairs, and on weekends he either runs marathons or goes to long-distance training with the people in the running group.
This kind of complaint also made his wife unbearable for a while, on this day, Mr. Zhang still went home as usual to change his equipment and prepare to go out, but his wife shouted that he was not allowed to go out, but the husband's insistence on going to run led to the escalation of the conflict again, and his wife directly scolded him: he is a "running scumbag", he only knows how to run every day!
This sentence of "running scum" may have pierced Mr. Zhang's heart, and he stopped the quarrel and slammed the door directly......
And this quarrel experience was also complained about by his wife on the online platform, which triggered a lot of discussion among netizens.
Some netizens said: Such a husband is so devoted to running, just like fishing "addiction", not only spending money but also time, and only knowing how to pay attention to his hobbies after work, not asking the family or family affairs, no sense of responsibility at all!
Some netizens said: Quarrels are quarrels, but you must sit down and solve the problem, don't scold a man for what he cares about, he loves running so much, but you call him a "scumbag", until it leads to further escalation of the conflict and deepens the estrangement between the two people.
In view of this situation, in fact, there will be some disputes in most runners' families, after all, running training requires investment in time and economic costs, so whether it is a male runner or a female runner, you should arrange a reasonable and appropriate time in work, family, and running to ensure that there is no impact between the three, so as to better promote the development of hobbies.
After all, running is only a small part of the whole life, don't take running as everything, and for the mass runners, it is not the first place.
Just like there is a big brother runner next to me, he actually plans the time reasonably every time he runs, he told me that he usually gets up early and runs in the morning, and when he comes back, he will cook breakfast for his children and wife, and the housework is the same as that of doing housework, even if he goes out to run with a partner on the weekend, he will say hello to his wife in advance and say good training time.
Even when I go to other places to participate in marathons, I will bring my wife with me to travel by the way.
Therefore, you think that such a reasonable and proper handling of family relationships, do not fall into running, but only make the family happier and happier through running.
In fact, running is just a hobby after all, don't be obsessed and destroy the already beautiful family relationship!
Do you go out for a run a lot, do you have the support of your family?
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