When I was a child, my second aunt bought a house in the city, and after moving to a new house, she said that she would pick up her grandparents to enjoy the happiness and enjoy the convenience and beautiful life of the big city. But just two days later, my grandparents came back. Neighbors nearby came to visit the door and quipped: "How come you two have come back, big fish and big meat are not used to eating?" Grandpa frowned and said, "Staying there is like being locked in a bird cage, locking the door every day, it's really boring!" "At that time, I couldn't figure out why my grandparents weren't happy to enjoy the blessings.
It is said that there is an old family, if there is a treasure, it is indeed. When you become a family and have your own children, the elderly are willing to stay by their side to help with children, which is a particularly rare thing. Some time ago, when I went back to my hometown and helped my friend bring some things and deliver things to her family, I found that they had brought the child and the child's grandmother over. Grandma looked like she was forty or fifty or so, so we called her aunt.
When eating, the aunt modestly greeted: "Did not do any good dishes, eat casually", so and the aunt talked, "Uncle really hate to move the whole vegetable garden over, winter melon, pumpkin is very real", the aunt smiled and said: "The vegetables here are really not more expensive than at home, a handful of green vegetables are twice as expensive as the family, and, I planted some in the vegetable garden, I want to eat and pick it", I nodded my head and said: "Yes, to the big city, the value of the vegetables has skyrocketed, but it is okay to buy in the vegetable market, and then again, Now are APP shopping, online orders, fast and cost-effective, some APP just came out to engage in drainage activities, but also free to send or value-added purchases. ”
After a while, while her friend took the child downstairs to play, she heard her whispering to her friend's husband, to the effect that she took her son to her daughter's house to live, which was lively, the price was not so expensive, and the child was accompanied. The final result is not known, but it can be seen from the aunt's look that it is uncomfortable and unaccustomed to living here for a long time.
Some people may say that coming from their hometown to the big city may be unsatisfied for a while, and then they will adapt to it. But life is "like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge", young people's adaptability may be very good, but it is difficult to say in the previous generation. First of all, in the environment, they are accustomed to the natural environment of "opening the door to see the mountain" at home, and they are also accustomed to the living environment of nagging and helping each other with their neighbors, in large cities, once the door is closed, the activity space is the room and the living room. Secondly, emotionally, without the idleness of neighbors and friends, it is easy to drill the horns of the bull, and the relationship with his family will also thunder from time to time. After all, there are a few who can cook and bring their babies, dance in the square, and get along with people just right, most of them are ordinary mortals.
The moon is the hometown of Ming, and the place where the old people have stayed for decades is not to say that they can leave without thinking. Therefore, I am particularly envious of those who have old people around to help with children, when they are young, they have worked hard for their children for most of their lives, and when they are old, they still have to give up the opportunity to "enjoy the world" in their homeland for their children's children, they are really not easy. Sometimes, when the elderly are around, they may not really be really happy, and what drives them to do so, in the final analysis, is because they always love you, so cherishing their moments around them is the best reward.
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