Wen/Ge Lord
Original Emotional Beauty Series
As the saying goes, what teenager is not affectionate? What girl doesn't think about spring? For young men and women, love is a beautiful and mysterious thing, pleasing to the eye and fascinating.
In the spirit of yearning for a beautiful love, we choose to take the initiative, even if the ending is not perfect, but it is still full of expectations.
But I don't know when it began, many men began to stop actively pursuing girls, perhaps because they had seen too many examples of love and could not, or because they were hurt too deeply by love.
In the eyes of many men, chasing girls is a thankless thing, investing more, seeing the effect slowly, occasionally seeing the effect, and not necessarily having results.
As if no matter how hard you try? It is difficult to escape the end of failure. When I thought that there might be no result in the end, I couldn't raise the desire to pursue it halfway.
But in fact, the occurrence of love itself is a small probability event, and no one has said that if you work hard, you can get it.
She likes you, you are good to her is meaningful; she does not like you, no matter how good you are to her is "wasted effort", which also confirms the saying: choice is greater than effort.
So, a lot of times, it's not that you're not good enough, it's that you pick the wrong person.
Although we all understand the reason, how to judge women's intentions is not so easy, and they are shy and reserved, and they are often particularly obscure in the matter of rejecting kindness.
And men with thick branches and leaves are always not very good at observation, it is easy to ignore women's hints, and they cannot confirm each other's intentions in time, resulting in themselves going farther and farther on the wrong road.
In fact, if you want to understand the other party's intentions, want to see through the other party's inner thoughts, and sometimes take the initiative to attack, it is better to secretly test.
Usually, if you want to judge whether a woman is good or not, you can say three words to her, and you can try it out.
"Are you busy?"
In life, there are many people who do not like to be asked "what are they busy with", because everyone is very busy, sometimes a sentence or two, it is difficult to express clearly, or what they are doing at the moment, do not want to be known by others, but also need to lie to cover up, in what these three words have become "burden".
But there are exceptions to everything, everyone has their own exceptions and preferences, a woman who has a good feeling for you, when you ask her "are you busy", although she will not mind, she will respond to you positively, and even tell you exactly: what are you doing? When will it be done?
You will find that every time you disturb her, she will not reply to a message very slowly, as if she is "always online" for you, because she has you in her heart, so she will be full of expectations for your message.
If you want to know whether a woman is good or not, just send her the three words "busy" on WeChat, see how fast and fast she responds to the message, and her heart will be clear.
"Are you available?"
A person who has you in his heart, even if he is very busy at work, will face your invitation, he will also be busy and take time to go to the appointment. Only people who don't have feelings for you will ignore your presence.
They all say that liking this kind of thing cannot be hidden, and the mouth does not say it, but the body betrays the mind.
Whether a person loves you or not, in fact, can be felt, and the person who loves you will unconsciously approach and subconsciously favor, rather than deliberately keeping a distance from you.
A woman doesn't love you, and when you ask "is there time", she will answer "no" with a cold attitude, but in fact, she is not really busy, just not available for you.
On the contrary, the woman who has you in her heart will enthusiastically reply to you "yes", indicating that she has been looking forward to this moment for a long time.
If you want to know whether a woman is good or not, you may wish to try to say to her "is there time", a simple three words, you can clarify the woman's intentions.
"I miss you"
When you like someone, you have a tug in your heart, and no matter when or where, you can't help but think of it.
However, they cannot clarify the attitude of the other party, so they dare not act rashly, for fear of provoking the other party's displeasure.
In fact, if you want to know whether a woman is good or not, you can say "I miss you" to her on WeChat, and you can test it.
If she directly replies to you that "you are bored", or ignores your messages, it means that she is just using you as a friend, although she does not explicitly refuse, but you should also understand the words in her words.
Conversely, if a woman has you in mind, she may not directly say to you, "I miss you too," but will reply with a " hmm", "thank you", or a "shy" expression.
But you have to understand that in different contexts, the meaning is actually different. Girls always have to maintain their reserved image at all times, and want to reply to you, but they can't appear too obvious, so they have to reply to you like this.
It is said that if you like someone, you should be brave and move forward. But in my opinion, instead of blindly liking, it is better to understand and then like.
As the saying goes, know thyself and know the other, and win every battle. Before launching a charge, try it out, and neither you will suffer losses.
She has a good feeling for you, so she takes advantage of the victory to chase, and if she doesn't have a good feeling for you, she stops the loss in time.
Generally speaking, whether a woman is good or not, a woman is not good or not, send her these three words on WeChat, and you will have a number in mind.