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☆ Book Thirteen
"Living Affectionately in the World of Thin Affection"
——Xue Xiao Zen
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The full text is 2586 words, and the estimated reading time is 7 minutes
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The days are slow, the book is fragrant, and the book review writes about the fourth chapter of the book "Living Affectionately in the World of Thin Feelings" - spring is gone.
In this chapter, what impressed me the most was the two unforgettable love stories between Meng Xiaodong and Mei Lanfang in his early years, and between middle-aged and Du Yuesheng.
I can't help but sigh in my heart, "love" is really an eternal topic in the world.
No matter which dynasty or generation, no matter when and where, there will always be some moving love stories, known by everyone, envied by everyone, or lamented by everyone.
And Meng Xiaodong's two love stories are tragic in the eyes of the outside world.
Why?
Meng Xiaodong is a talented woman born in Pear Garden, married twice in her life, one married Mei Lanfang as the third aunt, and then married Du Yuesheng as the fifth aunt...
The story twists and turns, and listen to me slowly.
The content is more detailed than the book "Living Affectionately in the World of Thin Feelings", because the love entanglement between them is known before reading this book.
Meng Xiaodong and Mei Lanfang's seven-year itch
In the history of traditional Chinese drama, Meng Xiaodong has a very high reputation and is known as the "Winter Emperor of Pear Garden". The body of the daughter, crowned as the "emperor", can be imagined that her status can not be shaken.
And Mei Yanfang is the number one person in the history of theater. That year, Mei Lanfang was in her early 30s, and Meng Xiaodong was 19 years old, and after a friend matched, the two beaded and tied the knot.
The combination of the two can be described as a famous story at that time.
Meng Xiaodong is a southern woman, formerly known as Meng Ruolan, as its name suggests, Hui Zhi Lan Xin, at the age of 14 in shanghai Qiankun Grand Theater came to prominence, singing more than 40 plays in a row, sensationalizing the entire Shanghai Beach.
She dressed as a man and sang laosheng, and the old seniors at that time commented on her, "Dressed handsomely, her voice is wide and bright, without a female tone, and it has become second to none in Kun's voice." ”
It is really a coincidence that Mei Lanfang plays a male and female, and the "anti-string" of the two cooperation is a must, and there is no one who has come after the ancients, which is eye-opening.
The affection between the two also spread during the cooperation.
One is the "Winter Emperor of Pear Garden", the other is the "Great King of the Lingjie", and the two are really a pair created in heaven and earth.
However, the truth is not as beautiful as we think, two excellent theater actors, not a happy couple.
You know, Mei Lanfang was already in her 30s at that time, and there were two wives and concubines in the family, even if Meng Xiaodong was deeply in Mei Lanfang's heart, after all, Meng Xiaodong was only a third aunt, and her status in the family was low to the dust.
Zhang Ailing once said that she met Hu Lancheng, and she fell into the dust and blossomed a flower.
But real life is very cruel, the gentle temperament of Meng Xiaodong, can not do the two wives and concubines in Mei Lanfang's family, this love, only lasted seven years.
Perhaps in the old era, many couples could not escape the "seven-year itch" of fate, and Meng Xiaodong and Mei Lanfang were no exception. In addition, coupled with the bullying of the wives and concubines in Mei Lanfang's family, Meng Xiaodong could not stand it, and in the end, he parted ways with him and did not interfere with each other.
Meng Xiaodong thought that when she met true love, she did not care about status and fame, even if she was Mei Lanfang's aunt, she also walked into the Mei family compound like a moth to the fire.
But when she found that the marriage door she walked into was not as beautiful as she imagined, love was exhausted in the days, there was little left in being bullied, and her love was exchanged for endless sighs and grievances.
Meng Xiaodong once wrote in the "Ta Kung Pao": "Dong lamented that he was distressed in his life and suffered a blow again, so he resolutely broke away from Lan Fang's family relationship. Am I the negative? Or do you blame me? There is a public opinion in the world, and it is not waiting for the repetition of winter..."
Seven years of love, Meng Xiaodong fled in a hurry. She is not in love, but stops the loss in time. Seven years of stupid things that put love in vain is enough, enough.
This life is still very long, love is precious, to invest in people who are worth cherishing, can not be wasted on the wrong people.
Remarry Du Yuesheng, true love to stay together for only one year
Du Yuesheng is a controversial man in modern Chinese history.
People's evaluation of him, good or bad, half and half.
He is the gang leader of the old society in Shanghai, and it is conceivable that he must have done a lot of bad things, and the historical record is that he opened a casino, and he played with the ya film business and so on.
However, during the War of Resistance Against Japan, he also did a lot of good things. For example, he served as the vice president of the Red Cross Society of China, saving lives and donating supplies to soldiers.
But it is such a man, he also has a heavy side.
He is Meng Xiaodong's number one fan, he liked Meng Xiaodong very early, when he knew that Meng Xiaodong married Mei Lanfang, he was devastated, but he did not move a little bad heart to snatch the person he liked.
In fact, three years after Meng Xiaodong married Mei Lanfang, Du Yuesheng married Meng Xiaodong's colleague Yao Yulan, perhaps because Yao Yulan and Meng Xiaodong have similarities, and they are also cameos, putting their love for Meng Xiaodong on Yao Yulan.
However, Du Yuesheng was still obsessed with Meng Xiaodong. When he knew that Meng Xiaodong had left Mei Lanfang, he tried his best to get close to Meng Xiaodong.
Later, with the help of his friend Yao Yulan, Meng Xiaodong married Du Yuesheng, the man who had loved him for more than twenty years.
At this time, although Meng Xiaodong was more than forty years old, his charm still existed. On the contrary, Du Yuesheng has been more than 60 years old, and the style is fading.
But if you really love someone, you may not care about the age, identity and status of the other party.
Just like the love between Zhang Ailing and Lai Ya at that time.
After a failed marriage, Zhang Ailing wandered in a foreign country. When he was in his forties, he met Laiya, who was in his sixties, and truly loved each other, and since then the two have spent the rest of their lives together, but unfortunately, Laiya took a step first, leaving Zhang Ailing alone in the world.
It's just that true love will always encounter all kinds of tribulations.
The love between Meng Xiaodong and Du Yuesheng lasted only one year.
Not because they don't love anymore, but because the people she loves are separated from her yin and yang.
A year after their marriage, Du Yuesheng died.
Lead flowers washed away, love dissipated, people who once loved each other were like strangers, and now people who love each other are separated by yin and yang, which is undoubtedly a great sorrow in life.
In the eyes of outsiders, whether it is Mei Lanfang's third aunt or Du Yuesheng's fifth aunt, it may not be worth it.
However, love is so psychedelic, not worth it, and there is never a standard of measurement.
For decades, Meng Xiaodong seriously loved two times, both of which were vigorous, but ended in loss. Or not, not to live up to this life.
There is no emotion in the world that is not full of holes
Because I like to read and have read the love stories of many historical celebrities, it is as if I am immersed in watching them perform sadness and joy, and I seem to feel the joys and sorrows of their hearts with empathy.
For example, Zhang Ailing and Hu Lancheng, Zhang Ailing and Lai Ya.
For example, Lin Huiyin and Xu Zhimo, Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng.
For example, Lin Wanzhen and Ping Xintao, Qiong Yao and Ping Xintao.
Another example is the above-mentioned Meng Xiaodong and Mei Lanfang, Meng Xiaodong and Du Yuesheng.
......
Zhang Ailing once said, "There is no emotion in the world that is not full of holes", which is so graphic and appropriate. Their love, there really is no pair of holes that are not full of holes.
Love, it seems, always has to pay the tears, pay the price.
Love is both beautiful and tested.
Whose love is straight and smooth?
The love that has experienced various tribulations and finally come together should be more worthy of our cherishing.
Meandering and twisting, suffering and suffering, may be the true face of true love in the world.
Life, the road is obstructed and long, love, why not?
Love, as if you hadn't been hurt.
Love, no matter how late you meet, and do it and cherish it.
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