In fact, angry children may simply be expressing their emotions and expressing their own stress. Controlling a child's tantrum is a wrong behavior in itself, but if the child's temper is too big, how can we help them or provide them with tools to improve their behavior?
Talk to your child about the spleen, for example what is anger? What is a fire? What happens when you get angry? Why do we do this? Tell your child that you know a great way to help them control their temper. For example, be enthusiastic or stop and think.
For smaller children, we can role-play, such as drawing a grumpy monster and describing what it looks like, such as a lot of spikes, long legs and flames. Use colors that are more representative of life, such as red, black, and dark purple.
You can also let your child tell us when he is not angry about the things that he is angry about. Let's say he wants to buy a snack, let's say he wants to eat another ice cream. We should also discuss with him what changes occur in the body when we are angry, such as fever, rapid heartbeat, and louder voice, and we should explain to the child that these feelings are uncomfortable.
To tell you a little trick, we can prepare a jar for the child to put on the shelf, each jar is written on the child's name, when the child is angry, we let the child draw an image of a grumpy monster, and then put these grumpy monsters in the jar.
We can also symbolically put a lock on the jar, so when the child starts to feel angry, we can let the child go to the jar to check their temper monster, is it escaping from the jar? Of course, this is just a kind of role play, and we anthropomorphize the temper so that the child can better understand what kind of behavior it is to have a temper.
Everyone must remember that a child who has a temper is not a bad child, and a temper is a normal psychological reaction of everyone. We just use these methods to make children more aware of emotions, emotions.
By descriptively explaining emotions and emotions, anthropomorphizing or role-playing, children can better understand their emotions. And get positive feedback from each emotional "expression", which is the purpose of our education, not to let the child lose his temper.