"Romance of the Three Kingdoms" is a systematic interpretation of the history of the Three Kingdoms, so that the seemingly obscure history books have become a favorite reading material for everyone, it can be said that it is silent, so that everyone can learn the wisdom given to us by the ancestors in reading. Different people read history books, have different understandings, we now have little attention to the battlefield fighting inside, we are concerned about how to absorb the wisdom of the ancients, make themselves smart, let themselves be human.
In the "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", there are several military generals of the "ten thousand enemies" level, but they have a very tragic end, which may have a lot to do with their usual personalities, and at the last moment, they died at the hands of their subordinates. We know that in ancient times, loyalty was very advocated, so why did these ministries attack their masters? The reason was that these masters had bad tempers and often beat and abused their generals.
Therefore, when many people control their subordinates, if they understand this truth, they will definitely treat their subordinates well, even if they are not kind to them, they will not be extremely harsh. The people around them know themselves very well, so many safety matters must rely on them to help them keep secrets. Therefore, even if you have a bad temper, you can't be angry with them.
The most typical is Lü Bu, Who was eventually besieged by Cao Cao's army in Xia Pi City, and Cao Cao besieged the city because of the shortage of food in the city, so Lü Bu ordered his subordinates to be forbidden to drink. Hou Cheng, Song Xian and others wanted to drink, but they were afraid of being discovered by Lü Bu, so they simply offered some wine to Lü Bu. Lü Bu was furious, saying that Hou Cheng had deliberately violated his ban and wanted to behead Hou Cheng, and Song Xian interceded, and Fang beat him up. Hou Cheng waited for a hundred deaths, and deeply felt that Lü Bu regarded them as grass and mustard, so he betrayed Lü Bu to Cao Cao, and a generation of fierce generals Lü Bu were killed.
In addition to Lü Bu and Zhang Fei, Zhang Fei was famous for abusing his subordinates, and Liu Bei knew his characteristics very well, so he rarely let Zhang Fei be alone. Sometimes the enemy is not terrible, and the terrible thing is that the subordinates conspire against themselves. If you don't understand your subordinates, your subordinates will not be stubbornly loyal. Zhang Fei once abused his troops because of his drunkenness, and lost Xuzhou. After Guan Yu's death, Zhang Fei was out of control of his emotions, and he blamed his subordinates for no reason, and many of them were killed by him. He also forced his subordinates to prepare a white flag and white armor in a short period of time to mourn Guan Yu, and the last generals Fan Jiang and Zhang Da could not complete the task and were flogged by Zhang Fei. Finally assassinated by the second general, it can also be said that he took the blame.
Throughout Lü Bu and Zhang Fei, in the "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", they all have the courage of wanfu, and as a result, because of their bad temper, they sent their anger on their subordinates, and finally dug a grave for themselves. There were many such things in ancient times. And those who were betrayed by those around them were even more numerous, such as in the Three Kingdoms, Dong Cheng and Huang Kui were betrayed by the people around them when they plotted to get rid of Cao Cao!
The ancients said: "If you can't bear it, you will be chaotic and big." That is to say, many people are on the verge of trouble, unable to control their emotions, and doing things that abuse and insult subordinates. And I don't know that in fact, my subordinates already hate themselves to the bone, and they are in a group of time bombs every day, in a dangerous place. Therefore, smart bad-tempered people, after humiliating their subordinates, will drive them away.
Of course, the most clever way is to know how to co-opt subordinates and not to be angry with them. It is best to give the subordinates the help of charcoal in the snow when they are in difficulty, so that at critical moments, they often get the loyalty of the subordinates. Zhang Fei and Lü Bu are obviously not such people.