The so-called myths are all legends, imaginary, but not in reality. Just like the love in the mouth of a middle-aged woman, it sounds beautiful and romantic, but in fact it is far from real love.
Love, premised on the secretion of hormone dopamine, is age-restricted. The vigorous, dead and alive love of youth is worthy of being called love. When people reach middle age, they swallow the love of men and women like boiling water, but under the guise of love, the picture is to take what they need.
A woman's love is limited in supply, and after experiencing the wear and tear of love or marriage, there is usually little left, or even disappeared. In the dictionary of middle-aged women's lives, love and marriage have become very small and very small things, dispensable.
In the movie "Love Myth", the three single heroines who have reached middle age have experienced failed marriages, have experienced the hanging of life, are particularly clear about reality, see love extra thoroughly, and often jump out of golden quotes.
When talking about the incompleteness of a woman's life, Miss Li said that she had not earned 1 million, Bei Bei said that she had never had children, and Gloria said that she had not really lived for herself... See, "love" is not worth mentioning at all.
When women are young, they always feel that love and marriage are the most important lessons in life, directly related to the happiness of a lifetime, so they will pursue it at all costs. After being punched in the face in middle age, people finally woke up to how stupid and naïve they used to be.
Years and life, day after day, year after year, quietly change women's appearance, but also quietly change their concept of marriage and love.
For example, Miss Li, who has a literary and artistic temperament, was a typical love supreme when she was young, running to the ground and the sky, and a romantic fight with a handsome British man, and the result was that she took two suites in vain, and the people and money were empty, leaving only a mixed-race daughter who failed the English general examination.
In the face of the failure of love or marriage, the man is always dashing, can pat his ass and leave, and is a golden bachelor. And women carry too much, to stay behind to clean up the battlefield, clean up the mess, relive the bloody rain and wind of the past. From then on, I put on my armor and stopped talking about love, because I didn't want to be hurt again.
When people reach middle age, women have no love. Those who have love are men. Love is an infinite supply to men in this lifetime.
After watching the drama together, Miss Li and Lao Bai went home together and spent the night together. The next morning, Lao Bai carefully prepared the love breakfast for the two people, but Miss Li only wanted to escape quickly. Sex is simple, love is complicated, Miss Li does not want to dig a pit to bury herself.
Middle-aged women, who have been bitten by snakes for ten years, are afraid of the well rope, and they are accustomed to being cautious about love, it is difficult to take the initiative to love, and they will not easily accept love. It is not easy to be able to look at a man slightly, to chat with him and eat, and occasionally to have a little male and female affairs. Don't attack yourself, and be wary of the other side at any time.
Miss Li can make Lao Bai pick up her daughter from school for herself, but she does not accept his 10,000 yuan high heels, let alone accepts Lao Bai's invitation for free housing, preferring to squeeze in the dilapidated and narrow attic with her mother who does not deal with it. Only moving her body and not moving, not involving money and interests, the soberness of middle-aged women, so that Miss Li always has boundaries in mind. With clear boundaries, it is good to protect oneself and be free to advance and retreat.
Middle-aged women have no love. Miss Li is, as is the old white ex-wife Bei Bei and the red-faced confidant Gloria.
Bei Bei has made the mistakes that men in the world will make, but she has a principle that will never change, that is, to take the family the most seriously and the son the most seriously. After being divorced by Lao Bai for a while, she did not stay with the northern man who cheated on her, nor did she turn against Lao Bai, but became a friend of her ex-husband. Bei Bei's greatest concern is not to fall in love and remarry, nor to remarry With Lao Bai, but to urge Lao Bai to hurry up and transfer the bungalow to his son.
For Gloria, who "has money and leisure husband missing", wealth freedom, identity freedom, time freedom, and feelings are more free. One night after the old liquor, the next day immediately on the pretext of buying a painting, transferred 25,000 yuan to the old white, and left in a dashing manner. However, Lao Bai panicked a lot, half a day can not turn the corner, wondering if he was "prostituted"?
Regarding love, there are many golden sentences in "Love Myth", which are unforgettable. For example, "Men's problem is to think too little, women's problem is to think too much", "Women don't stay with a man because he is a good person", "Choose someone because they know too well", etc.
"Because I understand too well, so choose someone", the screenwriter really knows middle-aged women too well. The little thing that is broken in love, one is not free and happy, two is not rich interests, three is not more than parents and children, four is not more than appearance... There is the icing on the cake, and it doesn't matter if there is none.
Because I once believed in love and believed in marriage, I have been hurt and tasted pain. Because I don't want to repeat the same mistakes, I refuse to love.
Middle-aged women, economically independent, experienced, after tasting the sweet and sour, bitter and spicy, have long seen the true appearance of life. Love and marriage are very small things in life, not necessary and not mythical.
In this world, there are too many interesting facts, and women in this life, what they want to do are worth doing, and they can never be done.
Whose life is incomplete, has nothing to do with love or marriage.