An ordinary rural family in Laifeng County, Hubei Province, an old man in his seventies, Jin Gui, often sat at the door and looked at the path in the distance. He had been waiting for his daughter to return, and that was 26 years on.
Since his daughter Huang Cuiyun left her hometown when she was twenty years old, she has not returned once.
Why didn't Jin Gui's daughter see her father for twenty-six years?
01 A car accident on the way to get a permit turned out to be the starting point for perseverance
26 years ago, Huang Cuiyun said goodbye to his father, and went to the city with his fellow villagers, and it was not long before his daughter entrusted someone to carry a letter to tell Jin Jingui that he had found a boyfriend, and the two people were very satisfied with each other, and they would take it to their home to see it in a few days, and then get a license to get married.
Jin Jingui was very happy to learn this news, and he ran out of the courtyard excitedly and called out to a group of neighbors on the street, telling them that his daughter was getting married. So the whole street of JinJingui's neighbors were guarding the side of the road, waiting for Huang Cuiyun to take his favorite person home. But this wait was only a few days, but the daughter did not come.
Jin Jingui finally couldn't bear it, and he asked someone to send a telegram to inquire about his daughter's situation, but Huang Cuiyun said that everything was fine. But no matter how Jin Jingui urged her to go home, Huang Cuiyun refused. Jin Gui has never given up contact with her daughter, although she knows that her daughter is all right, but it is always difficult to see each other, which makes Jin Gui often uncomfortable and difficult to sleep.
So where did Huang Cuiyun marry? What happened to her that made her reluctant to go home to see her old father for 26 years?
Huang Cuiyun went into the city to "find someone", and the man he met was named Xu Zhili, a native of Changsha, Hunan. The two worked together, day after day, Huang Cuiyun Wen WanXianshu, Xu Zhili was down-to-earth and reliable, and the two determined each other as their lifelong partners, ready to earn some money and go home to get married, and informed the families of both sides of the news.
When the two of them finished packing their bags and settled their wages, they found a car to go to Huang Cuiyun's house first. Along the way, Xu Zhili was inquiring about the situation in Huang Cuiyun's home, nervous like a child waiting for the teacher's lecture. Huang Cuiyun's heart was also full of joy, the two of them talked and laughed, and in the blink of an eye, they were almost there.
But just then, the car suddenly lost control and crashed into the side of the road. Xu Zhili and Huang Cuiyun were not protected enough, and they were both knocked unconscious. There is no shop in front of the village and no shop in the back, but fortunately, there are well-meaning people on the side of the road who call an ambulance, and the two can be rescued.
After the hospital's diagnosis and treatment, Xu Zhili's condition was much better, but his head was slightly hit and some blood flowed, but Huang Cuiyun's legs were seriously damaged in the impact and eventually lost consciousness. The doctor told Huang Cuiyun the news with a heavy heart: her legs could no longer walk or stand.
Huang Cuiyun's heart was like ashes for a while, and Xu Zhili also felt difficult to accept. Two people who were originally happy to get married almost died in a car accident. But compared to Xu Zhili, Huang Cuiyun's psychological condition is much worse, and she has been hurt the most.
Xu Zhili knew that Huang Cuiyun was uncomfortable in his heart, he always used the best attitude to comfort Huang Cuiyun, and after the injury was healed, he also began to take care of her for the first time, and followed her for many months without abandoning. During the period, Huang Cuiyun also had the idea of giving up, but seeing that Xu Zhili was so obsessed with herself, she also insisted.
She entrusted someone to write to her father, saying that she had already lived in her in-laws' house, so that he did not have to worry about it. Faced with her father's request to go home and meet him, she refused with tears in her eyes. His current situation is not suitable for his father to see.
In the hospital, Huang Cuiyun also thought about letting Xu Zhili leave, after all, both of them were only in their early 20s at the time, and she did not want her sweetheart's good youth to be wasted on her own person who could not be cured. But Xu Zhili was very firm, and he couldn't beat him or listen to the scolding.
Soon, Xu Zhili told Huang Cuiyun that he was going home to collect rice, and that he would come back to continue to take care of her after harvesting the rice. Huang Cuiyun sighed in his heart, or is it coming?
She was actually very afraid, Xu Zhili and her only verbal commitment, the two are not a legally recognized couple, if Xu Zhili leaves at this time, his care for so long is enough, no one will say that he is weak and widowed. Huang Cuiyun was also reluctant to let Xu Zhili work so hard for her, so when she promised Xu Zhili, she already had the determination not to see each other again.
Sure enough, Xu Zhili, who had promised to come back in ten days and half a month, did not come for a month. Huang Cuiyun also knew that there would be no result in waiting, but she was reluctant to leave, she was afraid that in case Xu Zhili would come back. Her patients said she was stupid and advised her to go home early, and Huang Cuiyun only didn't hear her.
What Huang Cuiyun did not expect was that just when she was most desperate, Xu Zhili returned! Xu Zhili also walked into the ward as before, gently hugged her, washed her, fed her, and apologized to her: there were too many farm work, and it was delayed for a long time.
Huang Cuiyun, who had lost and regained, couldn't help but cry as he hugged Xu Zhili. She didn't know what she had made Xu Zhili treat her so carefully, only that this man really loved her.
02 Have been a fiancé for 26 years, waiting for a happy ending
After the treatment, Xu Zhili pushed Huang Cuiyun back to his home, and under great pressure, took good care of the "lame daughter-in-law" of this other population, and suddenly it was more than twenty years.
During this period, Xu Zhili and Huang Cuiyun have not been licensed to marry, and Xu Zhili can only be Huang Cuiyun's "fiancé". It is not that Xu Zhili does not want to get married, but huang Cuiyun's meaning, she knows that Xu Zhili is a good man and does not want to use marriage to bind him, if one day Xu Zhili can't stand it and wants to leave, marriage will not become a bondage for two people.
When Huang Cuiyun wanted to leave home, Jin Jingui was strongly opposed. According to his words, the men outside are not as good as their own homes. In order not to let her father blame Xu Zhili for the fault, she could only hide her physical condition, so that she was so cruel that she did not see her father for more than twenty years.
At first, at Xu Zhili's home, Huang Cuiyun felt only trepidation and trepidation. She didn't know how the "family" here looked at and talked about her behind her, and she didn't know how the neighbors viewed them. These eyes and rumors made her very uncomfortable, but she had to accept it.
But Xu Zhili quickly dispelled these concerns and pain points of hers. Xu Zhili insisted on giving Huang Cuiyun a body massage every day to help her muscles stay active; as long as the weather was good, he would definitely put her in a wheelchair and push her out to see the scenery. Three meals a day, washing and dressing, all by Xu Zhili to solve for her.
At first, Huang Cuiyun's body was very uncoordinated, coupled with Xu Zhili's lack of experience, which made it very difficult for Huang Cuiyun to go to the toilet, often soiling the house and clothes. But Xu Zhili never felt dirty and tired, and every time he patiently waited for Huang Cuiyun, and finally cleaned up the dirty places to keep the air fresh.
Later, Xu Zhili specially built a special toilet for Huang Cuiyun, and with this toilet, even if Xu Zhili was busy with work or other things and had no time to take care of her, she could go to the toilet by herself.
In the past few years, it has been very difficult, Huang Cuiyun has been sitting in a wheelchair, can not do anything, often feel a burst of despair and pain, will not be able to control the emotions of throwing things, shouting. But Xu Zhili would gently hold Huang Cuiyun every time, slowly coax her to be well, and then encourage her to persevere.
In order to let Huang Cuiyun have more spiritual sustenance, Xu Zhili can be said to have tried his best. Soon after the popularity of mobile phones, he bought one for Huang Cuiyun and inquired about the golden expensive phone, allowing the family to reunite across the space.
Although the father and daughter often communicate on the phone, Huang Cuiyun has always been reluctant to see his father, afraid that he will be worried and sad, and every time he says how good he is.
After a few years, Xu Zhili and Huang Cuiyun thought of having a child. Unable to conceive and give birth, the two discussed adopting a child. They contacted the family through the local welfare department and went through the formal adoption process. After having a child, Huang Cuiyun's mentality was suddenly different, and he was full of smiles all the time.
Xu Zhili has paid too much for Huang Cuiyun, and his pressure is also very large. His family is not wealthy, and his work is mainly farm work, and he will do some manual work with the labor team during the agricultural leisure season. Xu Zhili works very hard, never willing to be lazy, and every time someone advises him not to fight so hard. Xu Zhili would say that he would go home early to cook for his daughter-in-law.
When Xu Zhili said these words, the smile on his face was extremely happy and free of impurities. At first, people only thought that Xu Zhili was soft-hearted for a while, and he would not be able to stand it after a long time. But in the blink of an eye, many years have passed, and Xu Zhili has treated Huang Cuiyun as well as ever.
Neighbors originally called Xu Zhili "stupid", but gradually they also changed their attitudes and ideas, and began to admire Xu Zhili's qualities from the bottom of their hearts. He was not easy, but no matter how hard and tired he was, he also tried to give Huang Cuiyun a warm and happy family, so as not to let her feel a little aggrieved.
After the village cadres learned about Xu Zhili's situation, they helped Xu Zhili find a job. Every day, Xu Zhili only needs to load the garbage cans from all over the village into the car regularly and transport them to a specific location to go back to take care of his wife. Not many people are willing to do this garbage removal work, because it is too dirty and tired, but Xu Zhili feels that this job is very suitable for him.
The garbage cans in the countryside are not full every day, Xu Zhili can dump it every two days, and he can put it at home the rest of the time. You can also get some extra money every month to buy things for your wife.
Xu Zhili is very fond of buying new clothes for Huang Cuiyun to wear, and the clothes on Huang Cuiyun's body are all personally selected and bought by Xu Zhili. Because the two people were of similar stature, Xu Zhili ran to the shopping mall in the county town every time to try on clothes by himself, calculated the size and then took it home for Huang Cuiyun to wear.
Huang Cuiyun often nagged him about "spending money indiscriminately" and "not good-looking", but every time Xu Zhili brought her new clothes, she would obediently put them on, carefully and rationally, reluctant to get dirty and wrinkled.
Although such a day is also very good, Huang Cuiyun always thinks about his home. She didn't mention the matter of going back, and she didn't want to cause Xu Zhili any more trouble, after all, he was already very tired after being busy every day, and he couldn't find time to take her home for a trip.
03 The family will eventually be reunited, and the lovers will eventually become dependents
But in recent years, things have changed a bit. In 2019, with the help of a TV program team, Huang Cuiyun embarked on the road home. Xu Zhili pushed Huang Cuiyun, got on the special car of the program group, and after a long journey, crossed nearly a thousand miles, and finally returned to the hometown where Huang Cuiyun thought about day and night.
And the gold that learned the news was expensive, and had long been waiting in the agreed place. When he saw a white car slowly stop, holding out a middle-aged woman, he burst into tears.
26 years is enough to completely change a person. Huang Cuiyun in The impression of Jin Gui is young and beautiful, young and lively, and although his spirit is still the same, his face has wrinkled and his figure has changed a lot.
Huang Cuiyun's father in his memory was tall and strong, but now his hair was gray, and one eye could not be opened.
Father and daughter meet, there is no crying in the TV series. Jin Gui looked at Huang Cuiyun in shock, a pair of hands did not know where to put it, and did not dare to call the name. Huang Cuiyun was carried to a wheelchair and looked up at his father, and there was also a feeling of dreamlikeness.
Xu Zhili took the initiative to hold the hand of his "father-in-law", and several people walked towards the courtyard of the Huang family. The doors, windows, and interiors are all the way Huang Cuiyun remembers, and even the sewing machine that her father gave her has not been passive, lying quietly in place, as if nothing had happened.
After 26 years, the family finally got together again for a reunion dinner. During the meal, the excitement in Huang Cuiyun's heart was still difficult to calm, and she recognized her relatives one by one, uncles, cousins, cousins...
Jin Jingui admired Xu Zhili very much, and also thanked him for taking care of his daughter for decades, so on the occasion of separation, he was very relieved to let Huang Cuiyun and Xu Zhili go. Before leaving, Xu Zhili and Jin Jingui agreed to bring Huang Cuiyun to see him once a year.
After returning home, Xu Zhili finally got a marriage license with Huang Cuiyun and became an official couple. In the life of his "fiancé" for 26 years, Xu Zhili did not complain in the slightest and survived. They took a marriage registration photo at a photo studio, signed their names on the "red book", and from then on they lived and died together.
At that time, Huang Cuiyun had a hard time finding a good person at a long distance, and he also had a car accident. But it was also this accident that allowed her to find a good person worth entrusting for life. Misfortune is difficult to determine, only gains and losses are in the heart, for Huang Cuiyun, this must be far more than what is lost.
An accident 26 years ago turned out to be the beginning of a great love that touched people's hearts, and the wedding that was originally the starting point of the relationship became the successful result of the long-term stay.
Xu Zhili is not a special person, he has his ordinaryness, but he also has his persistence and his fiery and long-term love. With his own actions, he created an incomparably beautiful story for the world.
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