After all, age is a hurdle that women cannot pass in the marriage market, due to the difference in the physiological mechanism of men and women.
It is undeniable that some of the older leftover women are left over on their own initiative, and they are very good in themselves. Of course, no matter what age such women are, there will always be men who are willing to appreciate them and marry them home. But this kind of leftover women is a minority after all, more leftover women are just high or low, there are many leftover women, as they grow older, the quality of men who can be found is getting worse and worse.
Also as a woman, I don't want to create age anxiety for women, but I just advise everyone to recognize themselves in a timely manner and never be missed by the unrealistic poisonous chicken soup on the Internet. Wen Jing is a friend I know, she is 33 years old this year, because she is still single, so the family is more anxious about her marriage. In fact, Wen Jing and I have known each other for several years, and we know her well.
Speaking of which, Wen Jing conditions are OK, there are looks and academic qualifications, the family situation is barely passable, that is, the emotional experience is not smooth, it is not more tortuous, but it is difficult to have good results.
Listening to Wen Jing herself, she was very young, and when she was in her 20s, she also had a relationship, but for various reasons, she and her boyfriend were still not together.
After the breakup, she put all her mind on the career, and there were two relationships in the middle, and the results were fruitless, Wen Jing felt that she was hurt in her feelings, and she remained single for several years, and did not easily start a relationship.
Wen Jing said that she was still too naïve, in the past she always thought that her love was not smooth, it must be that her career was not good enough, not rich enough, and so these problems were solved, then she would definitely get the love she wanted smoothly.
As a result, Wen Jing's mother found several blind dates for Wen Jing, Wen Jing entered the marriage market, suddenly dumbfounded, to Wen Jing's age, Wen Jing found that the original good men were almost robbed by those young girls, the remaining men, the quality is uneven, Wen Jing can not meet satisfaction.
Wen Jing sometimes sighed, I am struggling to this point now, I have a house and a car, an annual salary of 300,000, but my market is obviously lost to a young and beautiful little girl.
What makes Wen Jing even more unbearable is that the conditions of the man who came to the blind date are not good, but he still dislikes Wen Jing's age, is picky about Wen Jing, and some want to eat soft rice. Wen Jing does not know what to do next, people around you are advising Wen Jing, you are so old, don't be picky anymore, choose one is almost on the line.
Wen Jing said indignantly, I have never had much demand for boys, nor have I thought about climbing high, I have always felt that people should rely on themselves, otherwise I would not have worked so hard. In my opinion, the man I choose, the comprehensive strength of the two people is equal, and even as long as the man has good character and the conditions are slightly inferior to me, I can also accept it. But the problem is that I don't hate men's conditions now, and men hate my age.
Especially the last blind date, let Wen Jing doubt life, the thing is this, the last time on the blind date, Wen Jing met the man, and her same age, the other party has a car and no house, the monthly salary is 10,000, but when it comes to marriage, he said that he does not accept the woman to marry him, to the bride price of this matter.
The man said: "You are 33 years old, someone marries you is good, but also want a bride price?" Wen Jing was also completely angered by this man this time, and relentlessly shook back, I got married to a bride price. Why should I not have a bride price? My salary is higher than yours, I still have a house and a car, and you don't look at your own conditions. You are also a 30-year-old man, and you can't even come up with tens of thousands of dollars for the most basic wedding dowry, which can only mean that you have a problem as a person, and such an incompetent man as you is not worthy of me.
Wen Jing's request must be very reasonable, her own conditions are not bad, and she did not open her mouth to the blind date lion, but the man who was blind dated did and said that it was too much.
As a man, you can have no car or house for the time being, but you can't have no plan for your future. Getting married and living is not a family game, you need material things like chai rice, oil and salt to maintain it. If a man not only has no sense of responsibility and responsibility, but also has no strength, then he is indeed not suitable for blind dates, and it is even more inappropriate to enter a marriage with a woman, and choosing to be single is a manifestation of being more responsible for himself and others.