January 24, 2022, the last day of the appeal period in the JiangGe case
Liu Xin's lawyer was mailed
An appeal was filed with the Chengyang District Court of Qingdao City, Shandong Province
Liu Xin claimed that the first-instance judgment found that the facts were wrong
Completely smeared her true feelings with Jiang Ge and the true situation of the incident
In this regard, Jiang Ge's mother said that she was not at all surprised by her appeal
Because she had already seen through Liu Xin as a person
So, what kind of person is Liu Xin?
Actually from a psychological point of view
Sooner or later, Liu Xin's personality state will make her grow in social life
Even eliminated by society
After Jiang Ge was killed, Liu Xin did not call the emergency phone for the first time
Instead, ask yourself if you will be punished by the law
This shows her extreme disregard for life and selfishness
Lack of empathy and empathy
Not to mention the life of a friend who is still blocking the knife for himself
At the same time, it is questioned by external public opinion
She employs the defense mechanism of denial
This is a very immature psychological defense mechanism
She not only denied it, but also blamed her benefactor's mother in reverse
Because if you admit your various behaviors, it will destroy her very fragile self-esteem
In the end, she was also unable to take responsibility for herself
It can be seen from this that Liu Xin belongs to a typical narcissistic personality
A very distinctive feature of this personality is selfishness
Treat everyone as a tool man
Others are set up for their own ends
That is, all are providers of her narcissism
When she needs it, she will use you in various ways
And when you don't need it, it will push you away
So how does the narcissistic personality form?
This has a lot to do with their nurturers
Such nurturers generally have two situations:
First, parents are too spoiled
They always think that children can't do anything on their own
Everything has to be done under your own protection
Eventually, he developed the character of the child to escape from the incident and shirk the responsibility
Second, parents are too harsh
Such parents will ignore the true feelings of their children's hearts
I only care if my child has achieved good results
Whether it meets the parents' own expectations
Slowly children will only be goal-oriented
Various means are available to achieve the goal
And isolate the emotional part of the person from the self
The Jiang Ge case has given us a lot of warnings
On the one hand, parents should master scientific methods and methods when educating their children
On the other hand, we should look at it with our hearts when making friends
Don't let your warmth and righteousness be in vain!