In this world, there are people who seem stupid but are actually smart, and there are people who seem to be smart but are actually stupid.
So, what kind of people are smart people? What kind of people are stupid people?
I can't say it clearly, because there is no absolute standard for intelligence, but in my opinion, smart people, one does not make trouble, two does not complain, three does not argue.
I smart people, no trouble
1, do not make a fuss
To be angry is to punish oneself with the mistakes of others, to be impulsive, to harm oneself with stupid behavior, which is irrational behavior, and smart people will not do this.
Because they understand that being angry and impulsive, there is no good for themselves, only bad, and it is not worth it at all.
Therefore, smart people know how to adjust their mentality, control their temper, do not make trouble, and maintain emotional stability, so they can always calmly cope with everything.
| smart people, two do not complain
1, do not complain about birth
Man's birth is predestined by Heaven, arranged by Heaven, and no one can change it, and smart people understand this, so they never complain about their birth and calmly accept the arrangement of fate.
If the conditions of birth are good, they will regard this as the favor of heaven for themselves, and if the conditions of birth are not good, they will regard this as a test of heaven for themselves, so they can always live as much as possible.
On the contrary, those who always like to complain about their birth are not only more and more tired, but also more and more bitter. Therefore, when people live, they must not complain about their birth.
2, do not complain about others
Life is always unsatisfactory, life is always unhappy, maybe some unsatisfactory, unsatisfactory, is caused by others, but you must not complain about others, because you complain about others, you will make yourself resentful, smart people will not do this.
Smart people, no matter what problems they encounter, will not complain about others, because they understand that they are the root of everything, and they can really solve the problem by seeking inward and asking for themselves.
Besides, complaining about others, there is little meaning, starting from yourself, but you can achieve a better self, is this not a better choice?
1 smart man, three indisputable
1, do not argue
Everyone understands the reason, everyone will be reasonable, and it is precisely because of this that many people like to argue for reason, in fact, this is not a wise approach.
Smart people, don't argue about reason, because reason doesn't have to argue, if what you say makes sense, you don't have to argue, if what you say is unreasonable, you are not qualified to argue, isn't it?
Besides, it is the wisest choice to argue that the public is justified, and the mother-in-law is reasonable, and there are some truths, and it is the wisest choice to argue with no intention, to argue uselessly, and not to argue.
2, do not fight for vanity
Life is only a few decades, fleeting, many things, life does not bring, death does not take away, so there is no need to fight, especially like fame and fortune, face and so on vanity.
Wise people, do not compete for vanity, quietly do their own good, manage themselves, live their own lives, have their own world in their hearts, and live more freely.
They understand that vanity is a thing that fights for emptiness and is nothing more than a wasted effort. Moreover, yes you, don't have to fight, not yours, can't fight, why fight? Why argue? Isn't it?
3, do not fight for gains and losses to win or lose
If you have to fight, then you are bound to cling to the difference between winning and losing, winning and losing, and you cannot be relieved and comfortable.
Smart people, do not win or lose, success or failure, they look down on the loss, do not care about winning or losing, regardless of success or failure, do their best to do their best.
It is precisely because of this that they are not shocked when they encounter things, always can rationally and calmly deal with all difficult problems, and calmly and gracefully walk the road of life.
epilogue:
Smart people, do not make trouble, do not complain about birth, do not complain about others, do not argue for reason, do not fight for vanity, do not fight for gains and losses, win or lose, so the more they live, the better.
Because we don't make trouble, we are in a better mood; because we don't complain about being born, we don't complain about others, so our hearts are getting better and better; because we don't argue about reason, we don't fight for vanity, we don't fight about who wins or lose, so our mood is getting better and better.
When people live, they must learn to be a smart person, one does not make trouble, two does not complain, three does not argue, so that you win!
May you be positive and optimistic, and have a good time every day!
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