When we were young, we always thought that when we grew up, we could live according to our own ideas. But when I really grew up, I found that everything did not go according to people's wishes. Over time, I naturally learned to bow my head to all kinds of disobedience. Gradually, I realized that those who walk in the world and can smile and bow their heads are truly intelligent people.
Lincoln said, "Instead of fighting a dog for a way, let the dog go first." If you get bitten by a dog, even if you beat the dog to death, you won't be able to heal your wound. "Sometimes, we should choose to bow our heads appropriately for some senseless people and things. After all, time is precious, and if we choose to waste time on senseless people and things, then we can only lose. Mr. Ji Xianlin once ate with Zang Ke's family at a small restaurant. At the next table was a woman with a child, during which the woman went to the bathroom and sat alone on a stool. When the child reached out to grab the small dish on the table to eat, his feet slipped and he fell to the ground, crying in pain. Ji Xianlin saw it and quickly helped him up. Coincidentally, at this time, the child's mother came out of the bathroom, mistakenly thinking that Ji Xianlin had cried her own child, and opened her mouth to scold: "Why does an adult bully a child, if my son is injured, I am not finished with you." Ji Xianlin did not refute it, listening to the child's mother shouting and scolding on the side, and quietly returned to her position. The surrounding masses could not bear to look at it, accusing the child's mother of being unreasonable: "It was your child who fell down by himself, this gentleman was kind enough to help you lift him up, you indiscriminately opened your mouth to scold people, you really have no conscience!" The mother of the child slipped away. Afterwards, Zang Kejia asked Ji Xianlin: "You were obviously misunderstood, she scolded you like that, why don't you return your mouth?" Ji Xianlin smiled and said, "Talking back with someone who scolded you, followed by endless arguments, this is a bad start." "In life, whether it is doing things or getting along with people, we must learn to bow our heads. Bowing your head is not the same as acknowledging acquiescence or being in a weak position, but not worrying about rotten people, wasting your own time and forming a grudge with people. There is a saying that when a dog bites a person, people cannot always bite a dog. Sometimes, it is better to bow your head, take a soft, and endure a momentary grievance than to waste your time and energy.