As the saying goes, "the son is like a mother, the golden brick wall is built, the daughter is like Lao Tzu, and the leather jacket is worn".

As the saying goes, "the son is like a mother, the golden brick wall is built, the daughter is like Lao Tzu, and the leather jacket is worn".

The wisdom of the ancestors is unfathomable, and the later generations basically use the experience summed up by the predecessors between the millennium, such as "freezing three feet is not a day's cold", and the freezing of the river in the cold winter is not completed in a day.

Sudden cooling may be that the river surface is only a little thin ice, slowly accumulating to have results, life and doing things are the same, want to eat a bite to become a fat man is impossible to get, need to accumulate one bite at a time.

"Xunzi" said that "no accumulation of steps can not reach a thousand miles, no accumulation of small streams can not become the sea" The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, step by step to reach a thousand miles, quantitative change caused by qualitative change is so, the ancients have long told the world through the saying not to be greedy.

The old ancestor also said that "the son is like a mother, the golden brick wall, the daughter is like Lao Tzu, and the leather jacket is worn" Do you know what is exquisite?

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The son is like a mother, with a golden brick wall

The combination of gene arrangement is the biological basis, there are dominant genes and recessive genes, double eyelids are dominant genes, and no earlobes are recessive genes.

Genetically affected, children will have similarities in appearance to their parents, some more like their fathers and some more like their mothers.

As the saying goes, "the son is like a mother, the golden brick wall", the "like" here is actually not only the appearance, the ancients said that the character, of course, is not too boyish, but in addition to having masculinity, it is gentle and delicate.

Boys are usually bold and brave, and children who are taught by their fathers from an early age are more adventurous, do not give up easily when faced with suffering, but bravely move forward, have a more tenacious personality, and take on the heavy responsibilities of the family as a husband when they grow up.

Society requires that the top pillar must be strong, and boys are indeed more jumpy from a young age, but the big grinning personality is also a double-edged sword, and the lack of carefulness and frizziness is its shortcomings, like the mother's son also has female characteristics, serious and patient, and is smoother in career and life.

As the old saying goes, "women influence three generations", scientific studies have shown that the role of the mother is very important in the growth of the child, and it can be taught by example to convey the personality characteristics to the baby.

If the virtuous and gentle mother gets along with it, the child will also learn excellent qualities, so the son is like a mother, has a female intellectual side, and the future is bright like a golden brick wall.

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The daughter is like Lao Tzu, wearing a leather jacket

The old saying that the daughter is like the father's little cotton jacket, many contemporary "daughter slaves" may have a deep understanding, compared to the son's jump out of the naughty, the daughter is more considerate, the words of concern warmed the hearts of many old fathers.

Soft cute appearance coupled with cute actions make fathers like, some husbands may hope that their sons will make achievements in the future, but they hope that their daughters will have no worries about food and clothing, and they will not have to work hard, and "daughters are like Lao Tzu, wearing leather jackets" is the same as "sons like mothers, gold brick walls", which means that daughters have the strong qualities of their fathers, just like the leather jackets worn in turn.

Since ancient times, the social stereotype of girls is the representative of weakness, they are squeamish and crying, the personality is weak, if they have the father's strong will and brave character, they can also be independent in life, become strong women at work, shelter their parents from the wind and rain, and fight side by side with their husbands.

This saying is actually to show the influence of parents on children, family education in the parents to accompany the growth of the child's personality is sound, the parents of the two horns are indispensable, do you agree with the old ancestor said this saying?