Rural men are really valuable!
Chatting with my mother, I learned that my uncle who was far away in the countryside of my hometown died of a sudden heart attack on the day of Lapa Ba, and on the day of the funeral, my father also lost his temper with his relatives in his hometown.
In the early years, after the aunt died in an accident on the spot, leaving a son and a daughter, the uncle was both a father and a mother, and he worked hard to pull the two children up and let them start a family.
At the funeral, the boss of the family did not let his cousin and cousin-in-law go to work, saying that they had to deal with the two of them as the eldest. Everything in the family, but the owner of the house let his cousin (my cousin's brother) go to work, saying that his cousin is a person who makes a lot of money by doing big things, and he does not have to bother.
It is natural to spend money to handle funerals, but the owner of the house said that this money is for his cousin. Forced to bear a large part of the cost of the uncle's funeral, the cousin only paid a small part.
Our hometown also called the white affair "chaotic mourning", and the cousin's two sons went into the ground as soon as possible for their uncle to be safe, and Leng was directed and called by those who were in charge of the house.
Who knew that my father couldn't look at it anymore, so he rushed up and pointed at the old masters of the house and scolded: "Don't you have any women in your family?" Don't you have girls? I think when you old things die, the world will be too peaceful"!
Mom said: "Rural women are not worth money, the mother-in-law's family is a vampire, your cousin's wedding dowry money is not enough, your uncle is not forcing your cousin to take out 50,000, if you don't take the money, you will scold and not be filial piety, your cousin not only can't take the money but also be abused by your cousin's brother-in-law."
I said, "Oh, my cousin is really valuable, he is doing big things to make a lot of money, and the men in the countryside are really valuable"!
I wonder if this is the case in rural areas all over the country, although it is different from the past, but the thinking of the older generation is still so deep-rooted, including my in-laws' family is the same, no matter what the in-laws think of is my husband, as for the sister-in-law, the old two will always say: "The people who have given it to others, that is the business of others, what do we manage so much"? But whenever there is something in the family, the sister-in-law must come, and if she does not come, she does not understand the rules.
Hey, women, especially daughters who have already married out, sometimes they should be able to carry it clearly and think more about themselves. Fortunately, although I have a younger brother, my parents are still always towards me.
