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This is the news in February this year, Jinhua, Zhejiang, the police received a girl's alarm, saying that her parents were biased against their brother, and the family had an argument.
The girl said that her parents always said that having a brother was for her own good, she quarreled with her brother, and her parents always accused her, in fact, she and her brother had a good relationship, but her parents' eccentric approach always made her feel bad.
The tension between the girl and her parents can be seen, in the police mediation scene, the girl once again quarreled with her mother, the girl also said that her father had slapped herself 5 times, and she would remember it for the rest of her life.
This is a sad news, a child feels the eccentricity from her parents, she is angry and helpless, and can only use the way of calling the police to hope that her parents will change.
You will find that with the implementation of the two-child and three-child policy, there is more news like this.
In January this year, in Luoyang, Henan Province, a 12-year-old child came to the police station and asked "can you change a parent" because he found that his parents gave the second brother more money than he gave him.
In 2021, the Wu'an Municipal Court in Hebei Province released a criminal verdict, a young man in 198 held a grudge because his parents favored his brother, and took advantage of his parents' absence to strangle his 7-year-old brother alive, and the man finally obtained the forgiveness of the victim's family and was sentenced to six years in prison.
Parents' eccentricity problems with their children have always existed, and now it is the struggle between the eldest child and the second and third children, the struggle between boys and girls before, and the idea of preferring sons to daughters has always existed.
Su Mingyu in the TV series "All Is Good", her home is a typical son preference. Parents only care about the two brothers, in order to let the brother study abroad, the mother even sold Su Mingyu's house, Obviously has a home, Su Mingyu chose to run away from home.
There is also Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy", her home is like a bottomless pit, her parents have always asked her to give the family money to support her brother's life, and squeezed her unrestrainedly.
In Hangzhou in 2019, there was a girl from 96 years old, who was called "the realistic version of Fan Shengmei" by netizens. The girl worked in Hangzhou for 3 years, because of the quarrel with her boyfriend, she went for a walk by the river and drowned at a high tide.
However, the girl's family continued to make claims against the company where the girl worked, and during the mediation process, the company pointed out that the girl had been subjected to family demands for a long time, and pointed out that the compensation demanded by the family was to pay the down payment of the house to the girl's brother.
The matter caused a hot discussion on the Internet at the time, and the girl's social account was also exposed to complaining about the family.
In the end, the company compensated the girl's family for a total of 160,000 yuan, and the family did not contact the company again.
A female friend of mine, grew up in the countryside, once she and her brother had a cold and fever at the same time, her parents took the money to see her brother, dragged her not to treat her, she has since fallen ill.
My brother's birthday will have a big meal to eat, her birthday mom and dad always don't remember, remember to cook 2 eggs for her.
There are many times when you have been "lost" and sent back by well-meaning people, other adults secretly told her that her parents deliberately left you, and she even thought about doing paternity testing, suspecting that she was not born to her parents.
This year, this friend bought a house, and she said that she would go back less if she could go back in the future.
Parents are the first people children love, and the meaning of parents can be imagined. Many people do not know that they are the whole of the child, in the child's heart, the parents are great, once the parents are biased, the child's world will be greatly hit.
I hope you can understand that the vast majority of the pain that children will not heal in their lives comes from their parents.
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